Kicked a disrespectful 304 out of my house tonight!

[soulforge]

I already made a post about this chick few days ago. Been seeing her around 6 weeks!

Today she came to my house and I made dinner for her. Something I noticed is, throught dinner she kept going on her Instagram. I asked her politely not to do that as I want to enjoy this meal without social media in the way!

How did she respond? Well she became agressive, argumentative, gaslighting etc etc.

This behaviour completely Turned me off... Later in the night I didn't have sex with her.

Why? Because I was completely turned off by her. Honestly any type of sexual attraction I had for her, went out of the window.

My dik literally couldn't get hard, after she raised her voice at me and became very argumentative and agressive.

Later in the night around 3am she woke me up and asked me why I didn't have sex with her.

I told her the brutal truth... Your behaviour was disrespectful and out of order and I simply won't tolerate that.

Again she became agressive and argumentative and blamed me for everything and began gaslighting!

So how did I deal with that at 3am in the morning? I told her to get the fuk out of my house and leave!

This is a chick I cooked for, treated like a guest and her Instagram became more important than my efforts for her.

Then came the attitude!

I literally felt like I have no choice but to kick her the fuk out.

 

[EyeBRollin]

When you told her to get off Instagram, what were your exact words?

 

[soulforge]

When you told her to get off Instagram, what were your exact words?

I simply said.. I don't mind you using your phone all you want in my house. However when I have cooked, at the dinner table, I have a rule about putting social media aside, and enjoying the meal with conversation.

She didn't like me laying down that boundary and became argumentative and agressive.

She tried to kiss me all night, but it was too late.. I simply lost all attraction for her. She turned me off, so I kicked her rude disrespectful azz out.

She literally gaslighted me, and blamed me.

This not the type of woman I want to associate with

 

[member160292]

You gaslight the heck out of this forum

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Maybe avoid Russian and Ukranian women OP? These women don't exist without their ancestors being cold, hard phucks.

 

[soulforge]

Talking about harsh. Do you think it was Harsh of me to kick her out at 3am? Or should I have let her wait till the morning.

My initial intention was to get her to leave first thing in the morning, but when she began arguing at 3am, I kinda felt like she forced my hand.

I feel somewhat bad now, as I had few drinks too and getting someone really pizzed off when they are a little drunk is not a good idea.

My decision to exit her was correct however maybe I should have let her wait till the morning.

 

[Bingo-Player]

OP you seem to be attracting a lot of these types of women into your life

I would strongly recommend you look at your screening process as its clear your current "type" isn't working out for you

You have to remember at this stage some females are so corrupted by dual lives on social media they are not really reparable and instead will damage your own life

 

[AureliusMaximus]

she kept going on her Instagram. I asked her politely not to do that as I want to enjoy this meal without social media in the way!

How did she respond? Well she became agressive, argumentative, gaslighting etc e

Just WOW.
Any girl doing this will also be kicked out by me.
Its also like a good shyte test of chicks btw..
Close/put down the phone etc..

 

[soulforge]

OP you seem to be attracting a lot of these types of women into your life

I would strongly recommend you look at your screening process as its clear your current "type" isn't working out for you

You have to remember at this stage some females are so corrupted by dual lives on social media they are not really reparable and instead will damage your own life

I screen the best I can.. I had no idea that she wouldn't agree with me on this matter.

Last weekend while eating a meal on my kitchen table, she on a good few occasions checked her social media, I didn't say anything and let it go by.

On this occasion I simply said, hey I think from now on, it's best we both leave our phones aside at the dinner table, let's just enjoy a meal without social media.

Anyway she became defensive, kinda twisted things a little, which lead to a little argument. I simply Shut the conversation down so it didn't get too out of hand.

 

[Epicenter]

I screen the best I can.. I had no idea that she wouldn't agree with me on this matter.

Last weekend while eating a meal on my kitchen table, she on a good few occasions checked her social media, I didn't say anything and let it go by.

On this occasion I simply said, hey I think from now on, it's best we both leave our phones aside at the dinner table, let's just enjoy a meal without social media.

Anyway she became defensive, kinda twisted things a little, which lead to a little argument. I simply Shut the conversation down so it didn't get too out of hand.

I think you were wrong. I guess you are so boring for her that it hurt her without social media. Why should she be in pain because you have stupid rules which you did not say before she came? Then you became a *****. Like the other guy said you have to screen better.

Of course she is wrong too for being an addict without telling it.

So you both were wrong.

 

[Gamisch]

I don't know mwhennnn. How does it feel? Imo YOU lost control and projected it by lashing out on her.

If it was my sister I'd beat the feck outta you. You must guarantee safety to a woman to some degree.

I do think she's disrespectful for doing this. But at least give a strike 1 and 2. " look I'd appreciate it if you put down the phone. " ONE.

"I've asked if you yadiya " TWO.

"Look..iam done with this I've asked you twice to yadiya " THREE.

You spoken to her already ? She is young and hot. Little things like this are enough to make you insecure. Got to always stand above her.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I swear y’all pick the dumbest things to fight over with women.

 

[Westminster]

You should've asked her to leave in the morning. Kicking a woman out at 3.00 am doesn't look good. It's not rational and potentially puts her in danger.

As with most things, there are better and worse ways of telling somebody to get out.

 

[soulforge]

You should've asked her to leave in the morning. Kicking a woman out at 3.00 am doesn't look good. It's not rational and potentially puts her in danger.

As with most things, there are better and worse ways of telling somebody to get out.

I agree with you man. I actually regret telling her to get the F out like that.

Honestly I would not have normally done that, but I had alot of vodka to drink that night. I should have waited till morning and simply asked her to leave.

But the alcohol clouded my judgement and as you know alcohol makes more agressive.

I did offer her Uber money. I wish things didn't go the way they did.

 

[Westminster]

It's a good point. We all get it wrong sometimes, but it's about learning from mistakes.

 

[soulforge]

Why did you make dinner for a girl you've been seeing for 6 weeks? You do that to a gf as a reward for good behavior for months, not to a girl you're seeing for 6 weeks. For that girl of 6 weeks, you two should have been cooking together, not just you for her.

You did it a good gesture, but in her mind she saw it as you making dinner for her majesty. You kicked her out because in your expectations you thought she should had been appreciative of that, but again, she took it like you putting her on a pedestal by making dinner for her as a gesture for her to like you even more, proving yourself to her which never a good place to be.

What's done is done, now you gotta learn from your mistakes as we all do.

Bruv it wasn't a slap up grandiose meal... It was literally burger and chips lol and I made it for myself and she happen to be coming, so I slapped two burgers on.

You guys don't ever feed your guests lol

It's pretty simple. My house my rules.

If you're constantly going to be on your phone, I will be patient, I will let it fly a few times. But when it's something regular and we sat down to eat, I'm going to call you on that.

Her response should have been. Yeh sure that makes sense seeing as we are about to eat.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You should have kicked her out earlier. From your previous thread I said maybe you are already bored of f0cking her, this was just the last straw. Im glad you kicked out that disrepectul b1tch anyways.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Try Having her cook dinner with you don't cook for her. Subtle difference but it changes the dynamic.

Sounds like she deserved it and really isn't worth bothering with anymore.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why did you make dinner for a girl you've been seeing for 6 weeks? You do that to a gf as a reward for good behavior for months, not to a girl you're seeing for 6 weeks. For that girl of 6 weeks, you two should have been cooking together, not just you for her.

You did it a good gesture, but in her mind she saw it as you making dinner for her majesty. You kicked her out because in your expectations you thought she should had been appreciative of that, but again, she took it like you putting her on a pedestal by making dinner for her as a gesture for her to like you even more, proving yourself to her which never a good place to be.

What's done is done, now you gotta learn from your mistakes as we all do.

Exactly...I ways cook with women and make them my kitchen assistant

 

[logicallefty]

When they get phones out, I don't say anything if they just check it real quick here and there. But if they are on it for a while, like 10 mins straight or more, I will get annoyed. Sometimes I will just get on mine and stay on mine and ignore her until she puts hers down. Or, other times I might make joke out of her being on it. A joke such as "Dang I see smoke coming out of that thing. Is it getting hot? Maybe it needs a break!". Usually this gets the hint to her without any kind of confrontation.