Just Witnessed a girl laugh at some Dude who tried to approach her

[Georgepithyou]

The reject takes 2-3 seconds ... if you approach 100 girls , this means 300 seconds , which is like 6 minutes

The very definition of Insanity is trying the same thing over and over, but expecting different results.

 

[Rocnavy]

But spam approaching tons of women, only to get rejected is not a "waste of time" according to you?

Life is a gamble buddy when you go apply for a job guess what you taking a risk that they might or might not choose you. Will you go just sit at a job fair waiting for employers to choose you? Same goes for women if you see a woman you are attracted to you can wait to see if she will send you choosing signals but what if she's in a hurry? If you cold approach her you will know immediately where you stand with her.

 

[Rocnavy]

The problem is that they want to be lead towards something that will benefit her , not towards something that only benefits you haha

That's why you make her earn what she wants from you.

 

[Bigpapa]

The very definition of Insanity is trying the same thing over and over, but expecting different results.

statistically speaking , if girls like you in general , they will also like you when you cold approach them no matter if she gave you an ioi or not

 

[bat soup]

You said it, you worked as a doorman. I worked in clubs for years, doormen, waiters, bartenders get approached all the time. They don't need to do anything and they will get laid with hot girls, but only in a club environment. Take them out of the club, they are complete nobody. Former bartenders/waiters I know used to get hot girls, now they work regular job, they can't get a 6-7. They have no game, no status, no girls, they are professional Betas. Maybe it's not your case, but it's usually what happens.

So what you are saying is a bit irrelevant in my opinion.

Yeah. What if I don't want to stand outside in the cold all night watching drunks stagger around and fall over?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The only thing I would add is that cold approaching doesn't have to be creepy. You can simply talk to network, honing social skills and providing a larger window for IOIs, you don't have to go straight for trying to pick her up. Worst case scenario she's not interested and you've made a connection.

@Georgepithyou
The chubby guy is still making progress by having the balls to take his shot in the first place. She could have fuucked his brains out, he'd never know til he said something.

There's nothing wrong with cold approaching, it makes a keen guy smoother. If a guy has 500 rejections under his belt he's more likely to have adapted and become smooth af compared to someone waiting for obvious IOIs. The rejections don't even phase him, like others have said, he's numb to it.

Going out for the sole purpose of trying to get lays is foolish, but if you see hotties on your path in life you lose nothing by chatting them up.

If you haven't strayed off your path then you lose nothing by being rejected. In fact you gain insights about her, yourself, and socializing in general.

I liked the Tyler quote about the only thing creepier than cold approach pickup is not knowing cold approach. Lulz.

It's gone from YouTube but somewhere else on cyber space. Tim Samuels did a collaborative with Julien Blanc. He called pickup creepy before talking to hot young women about feet and socks lololol. Hilarious! He was blown away by seeing hot young women asking Julien for his number. It coincides with the secret society of those who get laid and those that don't. I would love to see a Infield of the people who call it creepy. Gun to the head, I can imagine what they would do in set.

**** their pants, wet themselves, be creepy or come off rapey. I don't disagree with the notion of a creepy element in seduction but here we are.

Tim Samuels argued after it works but what about when you are in a ltr and resort back to beta cuck. I agree. Mystery is the GOAT and its well documented the manic whimpering and blue pill fallback. It is so intertwined in the male psyche by tv and evolutionary where man wants to 1. Protect and 2. Provide. Fellas need to train off the following.

 

[Atom Smasher]

"Build attraction out of thin air", I can do that. A really good skill to have.

I understand what you’re saying, but I would say that you are instead leveraging her already existing preferences to your advantage by displaying traits that she is statistically more likely to find attractive. You’re working what already exists in her. Women are definitely the choosers, but we can do lots of things to increase the likelihood of her being receptive.

I’m just against spam approaching, which appears needy. It shows that you are all-in with her, and you will automatically accept her if she will only accept you. I prefer to convey that I can take her or leave her.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

But spam approaching tons of women, only to get rejected is not a "waste of time" according to you?

Mate I know what you mean but wtf the alternative? Wait till she's 30 has baby fever and is done with the hot guys?

I get IOIs and choosing signals going out but not searching for it. I just recognize it and act accordingly. I found searching for it enters spectators mode and it don't end well.

Get on purpose. Start a biz. Have something more interesting than chasing women. When at the gym, a few sets won't kill you. Opening sets in Walmart, your mosque or church, bar or club. The first thing you want to cultivate is being That guy. If 18, ya man. Spam approach. Chain gun pickup. At 40, you best hit your stride and have other things going.

IMHO the majority of men are so low T they sit when they pee. The sound of their piss hitting the porcelain sounds feminine. Blaming the time suck is a excuse for bad game and scared to approach. This herein lies majority of men.

I'd have no problem if bud is 19 and built Etherium in the garage. Is building a tech start up or a blue collar biz owner HENRY (HIGH EARNING NOT YET RICH). The problem is that, the same bloke complaining its a waste of time is pissing away time on only fans, porn, Netflix, video games or other crap. No excuse for not opening a handful of sets everyday. Obv some more than others.

But I digress. More girls for me. Happy hunting playboy.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I’m just against spam approaching, which appears needy. It shows that you are all-in with her, and you will automatically accept her if she will only accept you. I prefer to convey that I can take her or leave her.

Chain gunning pickup is not ideal after your 20th bday again assuming that the man has something more important to do. The analytics suggests otherwise when you see porn, only fans, youtube, Ig, Netflix, vids, etc. DiCaprio isn't cold approaching. Buddy has status. There's a lot of paths forward (influencer, game, social circle, OLD, etc). I prefer to approach but I don't suggest men source any particular one way. Acquire by whatever means works best for you as long as it'sllaw abiding lulz

 

[darksprezzatura]

Lmfao. Not sure if cereal?

My mate opened a set and a fat girl randomly tried to fight him. On rsd nation, a kid opened a set and got bottled randonly. The guy had shards of glass in his face and a series of stiches.

Pickup is a savage ***** but so is this life. Grow a pair. Man up. "Strap on the big boy pants."- JB

Women are flooded with free attention. They got affirmative action, Derick jaxn, Oprah and beta cucks sing their praise about **** not stinking.

Real talk, she's a broken rubber and big Mac away from expired. Life trolls women harder than you or I ever could.

She wakes up one day and gets slob dropped back into reality post wall. TRASH. There is no do over or running It back. It's over. The culture is banking on female logic and stupidity.


You can step up. Or not. Youtube Jordan Peterson pickup. There's one in a auditorium. He talks about the approach and the man becoming desensitized after fifty. Like, you are literally numb to rejection.

All you or I want to know is who is coming home! Act accordingly.

"get better. Not bitter" - JB

Jordan Peterson drops some gold nuggets everytime.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Jordan Peterson drops some gold nuggets everytime.

Agreed. I know he's blue pill and info is unfinished but I like him even though the tates ran a train on daddy's little girl.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Lmfao. Not sure if cereal?

My mate opened a set and a fat girl randomly tried to fight him. On rsd nation, a kid opened a set and got bottled randonly. The guy had shards of glass in his face and a series of stiches.

Pickup is a savage ***** but so is this life. Grow a pair. Man up. "Strap on the big boy pants."- JB

Women are flooded with free attention. They got affirmative action, Derick jaxn, Oprah and beta cucks sing their praise about **** not stinking.

Real talk, she's a broken rubber and big Mac away from expired. Life trolls women harder than you or I ever could.

She wakes up one day and gets slob dropped back into reality post wall. TRASH. There is no do over or running It back. It's over. The culture is banking on female logic and stupidity.


You can step up. Or not. Youtube Jordan Peterson pickup. There's one in a auditorium. He talks about the approach and the man becoming desensitized after fifty. Like, you are literally numb to rejection.

All you or I want to know is who is coming home! Act accordingly.

"get better. Not bitter" - JB

lol same. I've had some pretty bad things happen in the past through no fault of my own. Not like I was some uncalibrated weirdo when i approached or anything. It's just the way some girls are, especially in certain cultures. (and I did get laid some too)
I live in the UK (where it seems that talking to strangers is already considered a bit weird compared to the US)
I also live in a slightly 'chavvy' violent area.

I once smiled at a girl through a window (hot girl seemed to be by herself) and was about to approach her when her GIANT of a boyfriend turned up out of nowhere (some black guy. About 6ft 8?) who had a crazy look in his eye and was close to caving my head in for looking at his girl lol

Another time I opened a really hot girl in the street and said ''hi! I like your hat'. She was nice, but her fat friend immedittely freaked out like 'Why are you talking to her!!? You don't know her! **** off!! she's out of your league you ugly prick!!'' bla bla bla. Ended up in me strangling some white knight who jumped in to be a hero as me and her were arguing (I told her she was too ugly to be so rude and that she was jealous of her hot friend getting attention and she freaked out and tried swinging at me, so when I held her off, some skinny little dude jumped in so I had to throttle him)

Another time some hot girl danced super close to me despite there being tonnes of room on the dancefloor, so I took this as an IOI. Danced up on her and she PUSHED me as hard as she possibly could lmao. Was so embarrasing!

Another time my friend who lives in a much nicer area was visting me for the night and he approached 2 really hot teens who were seated, and he got a ****ing brutal rejection lol. He was so shocked!! haha

There's lots more. Nightgame in the UK can be brutal unless you're blessed with very good looks

Damn bros y’all killing yourselves out here over some puss. I’d rather redirect that energy elsewhere, that garbage ain’t worth it. Clubs are completely dead here in the US unless you know where all the underground ones are at, but they’re more akin to brothels tbh lol.

@apotheosis have you been to the US? You guys still have 3-4x the marriage rate as we do, I doubt you’re worse than us. Come over here and try running daygame without sporting a British accent (cuz that’s cheatcodes over here) and report back. Rome is burning here.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Acquire by whatever means works best for you as long as it'sllaw abiding lulz

I've taken a vow of silence. That means vocals.
One day has passed. It's meditative. I love it. Doing it again today. Taking it one day at a time.


Been monk mode since couple of months. Thought NY means time to fvck sh!t up.

Hit up all OLD apps. Social media. Community center hangouts. Went upto a girl said nothing, smiled showed her my phone. Motioned her to put her number in.

Smiled, fist bumped and left.

Got 2-3 matches a day online.

This week devoted to max volume.

Got 5-10 women rotating, haven't escalated w any yet. Aloof game. Sowing seeds. Getting digits. Not even bothered.

Focused more on silence and trolling than sex.

Be whatever it might be.

Hitting weights, max protein, grooming.

All silent.

It's an interesting practice to have restraint on word and speech.

Try it sometime.

 

[King Lion]

The very definition of Insanity is trying the same thing over and over, but expecting different results.

Indeed!

That's why the simpletons that can't understand and/or learn from these most basic of lessons will always be seen and referred to as Mor-ons!

 

[King Lion]

I've taken a vow of silence. That means vocals.
One day has passed. It's meditative. I love it. Doing it again today. Taking it one day at a time.


Been monk mode since couple of months. Thought NY means time to fvck sh!t up.

Hit up all OLD apps. Social media. Community center hangouts. Went upto a girl said nothing, smiled showed her my phone. Motioned her to put her number in.

Smiled, fist bumped and left.

Got 2-3 matches a day online.

This week devoted to max volume.

Got 5-10 women rotating, haven't escalated w any yet. Aloof game. Sowing seeds. Getting digits. Not even bothered.

Focused more on silence and trolling than sex.

Be whatever it might be.

Hitting weights, max protein, grooming.

All silent.

It's an interesting practice to have restraint on word and speech.

Try it sometime.

I have - It's challenging at times, but well worth it!

People can learn quite a lot about themselves and others when being silent and just listening!

 

[Rocnavy]

This isnt really necessary. Obviously it will help your success rate but it will destroy your opportunism.

Yep but they too afraid to cold approach cause they scared of rejection like come on man up life is a gamble. A bunch of weak beta males

 

[Georgepithyou]

it will destroy your opportunism.

FOMO
Fear of missing out
A form of social anxiety - a compulsive concern that one might miss an opportunity or satisfying event.

Yep but they too afraid to cold approach cause they scared of rejection like come on man up life is a gamble. A bunch of weak beta males

So spending your entire afternoon spam approaching women, makes you an "alpha male"?

Do you see high status men like Leonardo DiCaprio out there cold approaching women?

 

[Rocnavy]

FOMO
Fear of missing out
A form of social anxiety - a compulsive concern that one might miss an opportunity or satisfying event.



So spending your entire afternoon spam approaching women, makes you an "alpha male"?

Do you see high status men like Leonardo DiCaprio out there cold approaching women?

Just admit you scared of rejection and your game must be weak if you don't wanna cold approach women. Go head and wait on choosing signals

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I've taken a vow of silence. That means vocals.
One day has passed. It's meditative. I love it. Doing it again today. Taking it one day at a time.

Dark mate, that is cool. What inspired you to be doing this?

One of my mates, he went to a silent yoga retreat. The sec the vow of silence initiates, he is hit by "lightning bolts" of attraction like Michael Corlone in Sicily in the movie God father II walking up the mountain seeing Apolonia. He was enamored and apparently she was too. After the week retreat, he was forced to approach. Lulz bitter sweet outcome. She didn't speak English. They still had some fun.

Been monk mode since couple of months. Thought NY means time to fvck sh!t up.

Hit up all OLD apps. Social media. Community center hangouts. Went upto a girl said nothing, smiled showed her my phone. Motioned her to put her number in.

Smiled, fist bumped and left.

Got 2-3 matches a day online.

This week devoted to max volume.

Got 5-10 women rotating, haven't escalated w any yet. Aloof game. Sowing seeds. Getting digits. Not even bothered.

Focused more on silence and trolling than sex.

Be whatever it might be.

Hitting weights, max protein, grooming.

All silent.

It's an interesting practice to have restraint on word and speech.

Try it sometime.

I heard RSD Tyler did this on a boot camp in LA. It wasn't Tyler who mentioned it. It was Elliot Hulse who was jaw dropped by his approach. Good on you. I think a man can approach, be man to woman and step to her with not a spoken word to pickup.

I shared with another mate a outing with a wing. We got girls. We pulled. We left and went to go get more girls at the club. My mate said that he was taught by his father to focus on purpose. Twenty years later, he recognized how valuable and all encompassing that message was. He went onto say, he rather not bust a nut, even turn down the gf, and go lift, pray and or meditate. He once went on a abstinence pledge. Full year. No sex. All he did was lift, meditate, eat, sleep, and pray. I never saw a person get more gains physically and aesthetics not on gear.

There's something to be said about this path. It comes as I am coming of exploring consciousness, tripping, and a deep dive into my own meditative practice. I recognize that ability to pursue VS AA/low T/shook. There's a difference in can and have gone through the fire only to pick your way forward.

I am vocal about my thoughts on monogamy and marriage. If I were to ever change my mind, I would have gone through the fire and back. A man can make a informed decision. I highly recommend it should a man dare choose to be domesticated.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Dark mate, that is cool. What inspired you to be doing this?

One of my mates, he went to a silent yoga retreat. The sec the vow of silence initiates, he is hit by "lightning bolts" of attraction like Michael Corlone in Sicily in the movie God father II walking up the mountain seeing Apolonia. He was enamored and apparently she was too. After the week retreat, he was forced to approach. Lulz bitter sweet outcome. She didn't speak English. They still had some fun.



I heard RSD Tyler did this on a boot camp in LA. It wasn't Tyler who mentioned it. It was Elliot Hulse who was jaw dropped by his approach. Good on you. I think a man can approach, be man to woman and step to her with not a spoken word to pickup.

I shared with another mate a outing with a wing. We got girls. We pulled. We left and went to go get more girls at the club. My mate said that he was taught by his father to focus on purpose. Twenty years later, he recognized how valuable and all encompassing that message was. He went onto say, he rather not bust a nut, even turn down the gf, and go lift, pray and or meditate. He once went on a abstinence pledge. Full year. No sex. All he did was lift, meditate, eat, sleep, and pray. I never saw a person get more gains physically and aesthetics not on gear.

There's something to be said about this path. It comes as I am coming of exploring consciousness, tripping, and a deep dive into my own meditative practice. I recognize that ability to pursue VS AA/low T/shook. There's a difference in can and have gone through the fire only to pick your way forward.

I am vocal about my thoughts on monogamy and marriage. If I were to ever change my mind, I would have gone through the fire and back. A man can make a informed decision. I highly recommend it should a man dare choose to be domesticated.

The vocal vow of silence is a great tool to emphasise focus on my body language and be more aware of my surroundings and people.


Instead of approaching, today I went to the gym and just motioned a girl to come towards me with my hand.

I obviously didn't speak.

She just walked to me and without saying a word I just corrected her deadlift posture by enacting.

No digits acquired, but the message was clear to me.

Ice can be broken and compliance generated without words.

You and your mate got it right. Purpose is key. It's not an excuse for not approaching either.

Your posts on meditation rung a bell with me.

I'm using this way to meditate. Try it. It's peaceful.

My only reason for monogamy would be children. I don't want any. Folks don't realise how expensive it is. Fatigue, lack of sleep. People like other people's kids. Think fomo. It's societal conditioning.

There's a time for something like this. For me, maybe early 40s.