There exists a hidden world that some men and some women live in and understand. It’s a world that can’t be described, but only hinted at.
It’s very similar to trying to explain and picture a fourth dimension. In our three dimensional space/time continuum we can conceptualize a fourth dimension and visualize a shadow of how a 4 dimensional object may look, we cannot fully grasp it and perceive it and interact with it because we are not equipped to perceive it fully since we are three-dimensional beings.
When a man discovers a “crack” in the dimensional perimeter (usually only attainable with drugs), he is able to visit the fourth dimension, but when he comes down from the experience he is back within his original confines of perception.
Either Atom Smasher has finally flipped his lid, or he is talking about something that is real but completely hidden to most.
The hidden world requires no idea of “cold approach”. It’s just a natural state of being wherein the inhabitants have an instantaneous mutual understanding of attraction. We all know instantaneously who is a cohabitant and who is not. This could also be thought of as a secret “society”. I would say that within this world, most men know how they got there but cannot articulate in words how they did, while zero percent of women know how they got there, nor do they even know that they are a habitant. They just exist without question in a very childlike way.
Within that hidden world, men don’t give any thought at all about how to attract women. They just walk around throughout their day, improving their lives, and they simply enjoy an abundance of women who are attracted to them, the women who are members. The “signals” or “invitations” are for those who are just discovering this hidden society. Full-fledged members just instinctively know.
I went from being utterly hopeless with women to a member of this hidden world of abundance, and I know how I got there but I’m incapable of articulating it in words. All my life the only thing I “knew“ about women was that there was a cosmic law in play that all women despised me. In my perception, this was as real as the law of gravity.
The only way I can articulate how to open up a crack of entry into this hidden world is twofold. First is to train oneself to recognize the subtle, almost imperceptible signs that women give out, and second, to cultivate a presumption that flies in the face of objective “reality” that women can and do find you attractive. It is a state of being like driving a car. Once at your destination you gave no thought whatsoever as to how you got there. You drive completely on instinct with zero conscious calculations as to how you drove.
Of course, the more I try to explain it, the more confusing and convoluted it becomes because ultimately it is inexpressible. You have to develop an inner knowing, and the only way to do it is to shift out of conscious thought about how to do it (the mechanics of cold approach) and just flow with the abundance that’s there for the taking.
So in the crude language that we are confined to, it seems to me that the tangible jumping off point into this hidden world that I and others live in is to learn to perceive these ultra-subtle signs of attraction that interested women broadcast, and to shift oneself into a state of being and doing, forgetting about cold approaching but rather creating easy, relaxed fun and amusement for yourself in your interactions with others.
The closest guy here who was able to partially articulate this would be da dynamically. He has a deep understanding of this hidden world, but he can never stick around here long enough to continue his writings because he cares to much what his detractors think. I’ve told him that is his Achilles heel.
I on the other hand couldn’t care less what my detractors think. A handful of you know that I’m onto something real here. Those are the ones who are well on the way toward enlightenment and abundance. Some will say it sounds like Uncle Atom has been hitting the mushrooms again, and that’s fine. I sound crazy to those who either aren’t ready yet or who never will be.
Are these the ramblings of an out-of-touch madman, or are they the writings of a man who has worked his way into a higher state of abundance but lacks the ability to articulate how to get there? You decide. All I know is that my little world is a great place to live. My current mission is to move other aspects of my life into this world of abundance until I’ve attained a reasonable state of balance across the board.
Take the hammer and chisel to yourself.
Present yourself to the world as a man who has self-respect.
Assume a virtue if you have it not.
Move through life with an easy air of self-generated amusement and fun, but require respect.
Learn to recognize women’s signals.
Develop faith in yourself, an inner knowing that you can succeed, even if your situation seems dire. This is called Creating Your Reality.
Learn to live with cognitive dissonance until your seemingly “unreasonable” faith in yourself becomes your reality.
Learn about mechanical discipline and the power of habit.
Learn the power of baby steps.
Pay attention to your relationship with our Creator.
All of these things will elevate you to a higher plane in many aspects of life. And to the issue at-hand, attraction and whether or not to cold approach, you will find that cold approaching is entirely unnecessary because responsive women will become visible to you, and you to them, and you will know their receptivity before a single word is uttered.
