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terran2k

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you guys act like chics more and more each day. why the **** worry about something you cannot change, why give a **** if another guy is better looking than you, or uglier than you and still ****ing hotter women.
f*ck some of you people are so stupid sometimes, it's the same **** over and over and f*ckin over. f*ck me!!!
i swear some of you must be closet fags, i never seen dudes so much into how hot another guy looks.
 

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In my view looks do not determine who you can fvck, marry, whatever. However being good looking is helpful in that process. An average looking guy who is a go getter will likely sleep with more hot women than a better looking guy who is very inactive. But there are even more variables than that. Some guys avoid hot chicks because they think midrange will be easier, so even a really active, fairly attractive guy may sleep with very few hot chicks. Another guy might keep a small trio around for a long time. On paper, he's slept with very few hot chicks, but in reality it was because he didn't feel any need to search.

I advise people to create a good look for themselves and project a desirable image. Physical attractiveness as in what your born with is only one component of this. Some guys try to tell themselves it doesn't matter at all to feel better. If this works for ya, great, but I don't find it a very realistic view. There's a big difference between something limiting your total possibilities and whether or not something matters at all.
 

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terran2k said:
you guys act like chics more and more each day. why the **** worry about something you cannot change, why give a **** if another guy is better looking than you, or uglier than you and still ****ing hotter women.
f*ck some of you people are so stupid sometimes, it's the same **** over and over and f*ckin over. f*ck me!!!
i swear some of you must be closet fags, i never seen dudes so much into how hot another guy looks.
+1

These threads pop up once or twice a week; really no point in them.

everywomanshero said:
being good looking is helpful in that process.
Is really all that needs to be said on looks.


People need some new causes to champion. Both ways....
 

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cordoncordon said:
Maybe the most idiotic, wrong, and delusional statement I have ever seen written on this site. Written by a guy who is either selling some sort of dating help ideas, or someone who has had no success with women. Look, I have dated literally hundreds of girls, had more gf's than I can count, and not once, repeat NOT ONCE, have any of those gf's ever said looks do not matter. In fact every one of them would talk about how hot I am, or how attractive their previous bf's were. Yes, they want a deeper connection most of the time, and someone who will treat them right...but if you think women aren't out after the same thing men are, a hot piece of azz, you are sorely, SORELY mistaken.
Well...I believe that this is one heck of a delusional paragraph itself...And I know the reason...

You are good looking!

Guess how I know that? Because I am GOOD LOOKING too! Women say that I am handsome, cute or good looking. But I like to observe. And when women consciously go after a good looking guy, they CAN fall in love with a not-so-good-looking guy. I have thousands of female friends who prove this fact.

Let me tell you a story. One of my friends, extremely beautiful, has lots of guys going gaga over her. She had a hot boyfriend. But that guy ditched her. Now, another nice guy was interacting with her for a long time. First day, she met him. She told me, how skinny and balding he was. She was not happy with him.

After six months (now), she is marrying that guy, and she says she has never felt the same for any guy before.

Do you now get it? Looks isn't everything!

Looks is a source of conscious attraction. But attraction per se is not conscious!;) ;) ;)
 

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cordoncordon said:
Maybe the most idiotic, wrong, and delusional statement I have ever seen written on this site. Written by a guy who is either selling some sort of dating help ideas, or someone who has had no success with women. Look, I have dated literally hundreds of girls, had more gf's than I can count, and not once, repeat NOT ONCE, have any of those gf's ever said looks do not matter. In fact every one of them would talk about how hot I am, or how attractive their previous bf's were. Yes, they want a deeper connection most of the time, and someone who will treat them right...but if you think women aren't out after the same thing men are, a hot piece of azz, you are sorely, SORELY mistaken.
Well...I believe that this is one heck of a delusional paragraph itself...And I know the reason...

You are good looking!

Guess how I know that? Because I am GOOD LOOKING too! Women say that I am handsome, cute or good looking. But I like to observe. And when women consciously go after a good looking guy, they CAN fall in love with a not-so-good-looking guy. I have thousands of female friends who prove this fact.

Let me tell you a story. One of my friends, extremely beautiful, has lots of guys going gaga over her. She had a hot boyfriend. But that guy ditched her. Now, another nice guy was interacting with her for a long time. First day, she met him. She told me, how skinny and balding he was. She was not happy with him.

After six months (now), she is marrying that guy, and she says she has never felt the same for any guy before.

Do you now get it? Looks isn't everything!

Looks is a source of conscious attraction. But attraction per se is not conscious!;) ;) ;)
 

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terran2k said:
you guys act like chics more and more each day. why the **** worry about something you cannot change, why give a **** if another guy is better looking than you, or uglier than you and still ****ing hotter women.
f*ck some of you people are so stupid sometimes, it's the same **** over and over and f*ckin over. f*ck me!!!
i swear some of you must be closet fags, i never seen dudes so much into how hot another guy looks.

+1 rep as well, I agree with this, its part of the whole metro movement going on in society and guys calling themselves "pretty b*tch" (im dead serious)

On another note, I do agree with Rollo T, that if you work on your physique that will help not just with pre-selection, but health as well

just my 02. cents

Now if we can get someone to post some field reports to read instead of another weekly gay "looks" thread then were making progress.
 

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cordoncordon said:
Maybe the most idiotic, wrong, and delusional statement I have ever seen written on this site.
There was a guy that used to post here that thinks Jews and Nazis joined forces in order to slaughter 3,000 innocent people on 9/11. Anyway, I'm very sorry that you have a problem with science backing me on this topic and not you, but that doesn't make the facts idiotic or the scientists who discovered them delusional.

not once, repeat NOT ONCE, have any of those gf's ever said looks do not matter.
I've never had a girlfriend/f.uck buddy or any girl PERIOD tell me that looks do or do not matter, so I guess my experiences nullify yours and we're back to square one. Well, you are I suppose. I've already unplugged myself.

but if you think women aren't out after the same thing men are, a hot piece of azz, you are sorely, SORELY mistaken.
Hey, don't tell me...tell that to Julia Roberts and Heidi Klum.

Falcon25 said:
Anyone who reads your threads should not take you seriously.
This coming from the guy who thinks that nothing is more important to women than looks, and consequently in order to get bush a good-looking guy needs to 1) show up 2) smile 3) say hi. And I'M the one who shouldn't be taken seriously, huh? Not to mention the 72 Nobel Prize winners that back me up on this? Let's not also forget about your claim that selling drugs is a viable way to get chicks to sleep with you.
 

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I said selling drugs was a way to get girls? Learn how to read you fool.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
There was a guy that used to post here that thinks Jews and Nazis joined forces in order to slaughter 3,000 innocent people on 9/11. Anyway, I'm very sorry that you have a problem with science backing me on this topic and not you, but that doesn't make the facts idiotic or the scientists who discovered them delusional.



I've never had a girlfriend/f.uck buddy or any girl PERIOD tell me that looks do or do not matter, so I guess my experiences nullify yours and we're back to square one. Well, you are I suppose. I've already unplugged myself.



Hey, don't tell me...tell that to Julia Roberts and Heidi Klum.



This coming from the guy who thinks that nothing is more important to women than looks, and consequently in order to get bush a good-looking guy needs to 1) show up 2) smile 3) say hi. And I'M the one who shouldn't be taken seriously, huh? Not to mention the 72 Nobel Prize winners that back me up on this? Let's not also forget about your claim that selling drugs is a viable way to get chicks to sleep with you.
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Falcon25 said:
I said selling drugs was a way to get girls? Learn how to read you fool.
Please. You're splitting hairs. You said having access to drugs helps you get chicks. Don't act like your sentiment doesn't apply to drug dealers.

Ice882 said:
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Me too, man. Me too.
 

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Ummmmmm.............yeah, if you got out of the house you would know that just about any hot girl loves coke. This doesn't mean that all do. But most do. But see, I can't explain real life to you. No matter what I say, you will always disagree. Because you haven't experienced it. It's like talking to a fuvking wall. I'm done with you dude. But I seriously mean this cause I don't know you personally, try to get out there and experience some real shivt. Put yourself out there and see what is going on. Stop reading, and start watching.
 

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Nothing is black and white.

Most normal people have the common sense to realize that a mans looks matters only to a certain extent. Its degree of importance to a womans attraction towards a man depends on the woman's upbringing, her intentions (LTR or STR), the environment in which the interaction is taking place, and her social conditionings from friends and family.

To say that all women place little or no importance on a mans looks is just as misleading an arguement as someone who claims that a man's looks are all he needs to get women.

Just a Shot Away....

Why don't you focus your energy on actually trying to get girls (which you still claim to struggle with) rather than flaring up and hysterically ranting on every single looks thread. And I don't want to personally attack you or anything but your obsession with this topic and this whole "Defender of the Holy DJ Bible/Unplugged From the Matrix" theme you have going makes me think you don't really get out of the house much.

My point is....you're probably a really wierd dude in real life and that offsets any of your supposedly "handsome" looks.
 

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Guess how I know that? Because I am GOOD LOOKING too! Women say that I am handsome, cute or good looking.
I've been told this countless times. It means nothing.

Somebody once said on here (paraphrase): Don't think anything of a woman's compliment on your looks until she says it after you just fvcked. Words to live by.

Girls say that sh!t all the time. They patronize.

There ARE TIMES someone will not be successful with the #1 reason being looks. More times than a lot of people here seem to think. The biggest douches in the world get laid if they look good, and they've never heard of 'pick-up' or even being ALPHA MALE RAWR.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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If all it took was a great sense of humor, charm and attitude, guys like Louie Anderson, John Candy and Danny DeVito would be swimming in a sea of pussie.

Just ask Carrot Top
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Stable (critically thinking) women want Proof that you're the sh!t (stable money maker) before they'll think about jumping your balls. Fast (dumb) women are easily duped into giving up the poon through various means.
 

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Game.

Looks.

Assets.



Any two of these will do. One's not enough, three is best.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Game.

Looks.

Assets.



Any two of these will do. One's not enough, three is best.
You would take looks over confidence? Wow, man. If my goal is to bang as many women as possible, I'd take confidence any day of the week and twice on Sunday over having a jawline. That's just me, though.
 

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You would take looks over confidence?
Confidence would be implied by "Game", which was the first thing Rollo mentioned.

JASA, I have a question, however:
You say looks do not count for men, and deny that good looks indicate healthy breeding stock that a woman might want to procreate with.

If this is so, then why do men find good looks in women so attractive?
Good looks in women indicate youthful good health for good breeding stock, and the ability to carry a baby. Obviously men cannot carry a baby, but why would the rest not still apply?
Why would women not find a good looking, healthy looking man good genetic stock for her child, and thus be attracted to him?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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