week 3/day 4,5,6
Day 4
Sick with food poison, stay home.
Day 5
Still feeling a little ill, but go out anyway. Run into HB last night that went snowbaord with me when she was 17 and now is of age. We talked a little a couple of weeks ago and she kept making references to sex and that there was this animal attraction between us, but I am still stalling because she has some other things going on that make me feel like I should stay away. Anyway last night she avoids me but notices me, which I think is cool and again...I am thinking...don't get into relationships with women that have more problems than you do, even a ons.
Go to Borders and troll around for a little while. Run into wing because he stops there on way home thinking I might be there. First set on a friend of wing, she doesn't know wing is there but, I am thinking she does because they work in the same field and he was at a seminar but, she wasn't there. Think I took too many drugs at some point in my life? How did I get to this conclusion?
#1-HBtall
PUA: Hey, do you think girls like DB?
HB: I don't know
PUA: I go into my DB trip over dog rutine, then...we should get together sometime?
HB: yea, maybe
PUA: How do you think we could do that?
HB: I don't know, I can't
PUA: I am thinking I am not that interested anyway so I go. She is somewhere around an HB7 anyway.
#2-HB7-I am sitting at chair reading a book on how to win at casino craps and she walks by, barely sees me, I barely see her and she starts to hover. I think about approach but stall, she keeps hover, I think about appraoch, get up, put book down and...
PUA: Is that your son?
HB: No, why
PUA: Well, you are wearing an orange shirt and he is wearing a orange cap and I thought you were related. (****in stupid ****, I use it a lot, girls love geeks)
HB: Laughs
PUA: Fluff for about a minute, then...You and me should get together sometime and have coffee.
HB: ok
PUA: What's your number?
HB: I don't have a pen
PUA: They probably have one over there
HB: Oh, wait, I have one. Writes number on slippery paper
PUA: Hey, um your number smeared off when I grabbed the paper from you.
HB: Oh, that's good
PUA: Here, write it on this. Writes # on my paper.
HB: This is the first time I have given my number to a guy in a bookstore.
PUA: That's cool, hey I got to get back to reading my book on gambling, fluff, fluff, bye.
HB: See ya
Day 6
Either you got it (chrisma), or you don't and I got it, but sometimes I don't got it. Time for our weekly lair meeting, today's meeting is in SF at the North Beach Street Fair. Get there early and go to live music stage at park. Good band and people are far from stage sitting in a half circle about 40 feet from stage.
people> ( 40 feet ! <stage No guards, or gurard rails so I am thinking how come these lame people are not up front where the action is?
I get right in the center of the stage in the field and cross my arms while holding a quart bottle of water, spread my feet and stand there like I want to draw these people into close to me and guess what. All of a sudden some people start to dance close to me, then more people, then the whole 40 ft area is full of people around me. I am holding my bottle of water up and shaking it at the band and all these girls start to dance around me. One girl I let throw a beach ball and she gives me a big hug right in front of her BF. Two other HB's are a little off to the side but get closer and hover a circle around me, then stop 6 inches away and dance next to me. I wanted to grab one of them and kiss her but I didn't. I am sure I could have gotten her to kiss me.
My point? Sometimes you have to act outrageous and not care what others think. If you can do that, then you will know that you don't have to wear pimp clothes to attract attention, you just have to know that you can attract attention if you want to command a room. My other point? Be outrageous where ever you go, what ever you do. Draw people in crowds to you. Make yourself noticed. The best way to do this is to have fun things to do or hobbies, i.e. bike ride, chess player, artist, skateboarder, roller blade, build model cars, make and fly paper airplanes, be ****ing stupid, it will get you more looks and attention than anything else you can do in public without a lot of effort. Having things to do or play carries out into other parts of life? Get it? If you don't PM me and I will send you my phone number so you can call me and I will tell you stories of the extreme things I do that attracts attention.
On with the sarge...
Have lair meeting then walk to dinner. While walking to dinner I open about 4 sets.
#1-HBrio-door person at eating place. (Can't spell restaruant) Where's the spell checker at? Any one seen that moderator? I know he said there would be too many acronyms but spell checker would get use to them...that is lame.
PUA: Is this a good place to eat
HB: Yea come on in
PUA: I don't know, what do you guys think? (wings)
WG's: Let's look around more
PUA: What's so good about this place
HB: I don't know
PUA: Well, if you don't know then I think you should buy us all dinner?
HB: I can't, not on the money I make
PUA: ok then, if you can't do that then I think you should take me on a tour of SF on your day off?
HB: Maybe
PUA: You guys ready to go?
WG's: One starts to EV her
PUA: I am thinking I am hungry, I wish this wing would hurry up
PUA: Wing finishes and we start to walk away, I EC HB as I am walking away for about 20 seconds and she EC's me like right though my soul. I am thinking this girl wants it bad. You ever get that feeling like you could **** her right there on the spot if no one cared?
#2-HBgothic-notice her walking around earlier and I think she notices me because after all there about 20,000 people at the street fair but, I want all the HB's to notice me that I want to notice. (your all on ****in notice till further review, ya hear me, now get out there and sarge)? <alter ego speaking
PUA: Hey, do you think girls like DB? (She is sitting down eating)
HB: I think his wife likes him
PUA: Bla, bla about something, don't remember, start to walk away and..."do you like me? in a loud voice because I am about 20 feet away.
HB: smiles and raises her arms up like, 'I don't know, maybe"
#3-HB10-Before HBgothic, wing and me go up to resturanat, he is talking to here about food and I walk up, look at her move head to right, she moves head to left, I move head to left she moves head to right. (we are facing each other) this goes on for about 30 seconds, we are smiling at each other, I fluff her a little, we leave, eat dinner, then walk back because cars are parked in her direction.
When we get back there is a guy there trying to PU her. We stop and I talk to wing then think...I have to open guy.
PUA: (to guy) This probalby isn't a good place to eat. (logical, blows him out)
Guy: I don't know
PUA: Is this a good place to eat?
HB: Yes
Guy: What do you want a good place to eat or are you looking for a girl to go out with?
PUA: Both
Guy: Signals with hands to me towards HB
PUA: So, hey, I want to take you out?
HB: What?
PUA: I want to go out with you
HB: Mumbles something about being here for 4 days and lives in hotel, doesn't have a phone number and doesn't remember name of hotel she is staying in. She has a Russian accent and doesn't speak english very well.
But, understands that I want her.
PUA: What time do you get off?
HB: 8:30
PUA: ok, I can't take you out tonight because I am with my buddies and we have to go but, I will come back this week and take you out.
HB: Ok
Wing thinks I should go back an get her. Right after that there is another HB10 walking across the street and wing says..."Go get her or something like that". I say Ok.
#4-HB10
PUA: Nice looking hair
HB: Thanks
PUA: Is that your real hair color?
HB: no, I dye it
PUA: Oh, so this week you are a blonde, last week you were a redhead and the week before you were a brunette?
HB: no, it's always blonde, I dye it blonde all the time.
PUA: I am practicing my persuasion skills and...do you have another piece of gum?
HB: no
PUA: It smell like dentyne?
HB: It's big red
PUA: Smells good. Can I smell your *****?
HB: Yes
Not!, on the last two line items, but hey, wtf, who knows maybe it would have worked. Just thought I would throw in a little humor. She crosses the street and walks into a bar.
Wing says I should go back and get first HB10, I don't but, it is after 8:30 and she is not standing outside rusturant trying to solict customers, that is a good sign, she did say she got off at 8:30. He also suggested I should go back to HBrio and work it with a little convo for a couple of weeks.
Did some other approaches last night at Borders with two coffee baristas. One interaction ended with me shouting across the parking lot at one...PUA:"What are you doing later" HB: nothing
Wing suggested I should have closed her. In conclusion I think I need to be working on closes during bootcamp. ck
