Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Ok I was thinking I should give an update on the numbers I have gotten and what has happend.
But first and foremost, out of the numbers I have gotten only of them I am going to actively work. It turned out that girl who I asked to dance at the club and later asked for her number only for her not to give it to me and ask for mine instead called me!
She called monday night and I talked to her for like 20 minutes. She said she was still seeing somebody but she mentioned he gets mad at her when she goes out but he can do what he pleases. I did end up getting her number that night, and I called her the next night and talked for a bout 20 mins also. I asked her if she wanted to have coffee she said sure, but to just call her on the weekend cause she didn't know where she would be. I am going to try and set this up.
But anyway this means
Approaches: 10
Numbers: 5
1st Number - Since the girl was 39 years old I decided not to call her. About 3 months later I was bored and drunk so I called, I told her who I was and she remembered me a little bit. She said she would call me back and never did. I was drunk again one night and I called her. She again said she couldnt talk and said she would call me back and never did. She then called back and told me not to call her anymore because I was just a young boy and she didnt see anything happening. She said "you you are so young plus you took a long time to call me, please dont call me anymore" I hung up on her
2nd Number - Called, left a message saying who I was and when I met her. She never called back. (She lived 2 hours away anyway)
3rd Number - Since I used the girl's cell phone to call my cell phone and the call never came through, I never got in touch with her
This is just some of the bad luck you have to deal with along the way I guess.
4th Number - Called the stripper the next day, and she called me back. We started talking and she seemed nice but she was 36 years old and I knew I didn't want anything long term. I took her to dinner a few days later and she was really into me. I thought she had a great body but I wasnt feeling her face. She called me the next day and I never called her back. Wasn't interested.
5th Number - This is the girl I met at the club that at first wouldn't give me her number but took mine. She is seeing someone but i am talking to her. I am trying to set up a coffee date.
Thanks for all the advice. I know I need to get more ballsy. The funny thing is I saw that one girl I asked out on campus walking around with some big football player type. One of my biggest fears in approaching is that the girls boyfriend is going to start trouble with me.
White Hype, thanks for the support. I will make sure I approach to approach until I hit 100. Then maybe we can work on refining my game. I need to put myself out there more and stop psyching myself out.
Where is this Muttley's thread on how he dealt with the boyfriend?
But first and foremost, out of the numbers I have gotten only of them I am going to actively work. It turned out that girl who I asked to dance at the club and later asked for her number only for her not to give it to me and ask for mine instead called me!
She called monday night and I talked to her for like 20 minutes. She said she was still seeing somebody but she mentioned he gets mad at her when she goes out but he can do what he pleases. I did end up getting her number that night, and I called her the next night and talked for a bout 20 mins also. I asked her if she wanted to have coffee she said sure, but to just call her on the weekend cause she didn't know where she would be. I am going to try and set this up.
But anyway this means
Approaches: 10
Numbers: 5
1st Number - Since the girl was 39 years old I decided not to call her. About 3 months later I was bored and drunk so I called, I told her who I was and she remembered me a little bit. She said she would call me back and never did. I was drunk again one night and I called her. She again said she couldnt talk and said she would call me back and never did. She then called back and told me not to call her anymore because I was just a young boy and she didnt see anything happening. She said "you you are so young plus you took a long time to call me, please dont call me anymore" I hung up on her
2nd Number - Called, left a message saying who I was and when I met her. She never called back. (She lived 2 hours away anyway)
3rd Number - Since I used the girl's cell phone to call my cell phone and the call never came through, I never got in touch with her
This is just some of the bad luck you have to deal with along the way I guess.4th Number - Called the stripper the next day, and she called me back. We started talking and she seemed nice but she was 36 years old and I knew I didn't want anything long term. I took her to dinner a few days later and she was really into me. I thought she had a great body but I wasnt feeling her face. She called me the next day and I never called her back. Wasn't interested.
5th Number - This is the girl I met at the club that at first wouldn't give me her number but took mine. She is seeing someone but i am talking to her. I am trying to set up a coffee date.
Thanks for all the advice. I know I need to get more ballsy. The funny thing is I saw that one girl I asked out on campus walking around with some big football player type. One of my biggest fears in approaching is that the girls boyfriend is going to start trouble with me.
White Hype, thanks for the support. I will make sure I approach to approach until I hit 100. Then maybe we can work on refining my game. I need to put myself out there more and stop psyching myself out.
Where is this Muttley's thread on how he dealt with the boyfriend?
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