J0n's Field Report Log

[mackdaddy27]

.my opinion is...

"You Lost value in her Eyes, The Moment You said "Okay , so what are you doing tomorrow night?"

that line recked of desperation ( from a womens perspective ) and as a result she wanted to end it quick with

"I have a bf"

..In my 2 cents of opinion, what you should have said was "Fcck, I m busy tomorrow night and sunday night too, but listen give me your number and maybe or maybe not I ll call you some day when I get a free day" You had an apathetic attitude you had going on earlier that part was good. but this line today seemed a step backward, but maybe you didn't really care about this approach.

maybe you can pull and play in a way that shows yourself as high social status

I m starting to thing sometime,s that no matter how bad you want a girl sometimes, you just got to act cool and apathetic even though you want her so bad...those are my new thoughts.

Anyway, bro congrats that your still keeping this log 'alive' !

 

[j0n024]

YES I knew that asking about Sunday was bad after I asked about tonight and I totally agree but I just wanted to see if I could do it, I should have asked her to walk with me for a while instead but whatever. Thanks for the input I appreciate it and hopefully I can "Snag" one lol but I am learning.

 

[Snow Plowman]

ME: Hello can I tell you something
HER: yes?
ME: I saw you over here and though you were really cute , whats your name
HER:....well I cant remember lol
ME: Cute name, who are you here with?
HER:My son (Ehh I just wanna fvck so whatever) and his friends
ME: ohh that's cool...say I got a question for you then
HERk
ME: Canned opener ( I use my own question but it is still canned I think)
HER: Answers question
ME: What you doing tonight..me and my friends are going to shooters(it's a bar and I lied , I was going to cancel the shooters and bring her to a movie to try out Muscles tactics lol)
HER: I am going to drink somewhere else(She was going like an hour away just to drink)
ME: I see that as pointless your going to far away just to drink?!
HER: Well ya but there friends
ME:Ok then what you doing tomorrow I wanna take you out sometimej
HER: I have a BF

A lot of what I do now is from my sub-communication so its like very subtle but a lot of it has to do with me being expressive in my voice and facial expression. The content that comes out really depends while I wouldn't be able to give a 100% accurate dialogue I can give some examples on what I might've said.

Example 1
ME: I saw you over here and thought you were really cute , whats your name
HER: Milfty
Me: O crap not another Milfty there are a ton of you guys down here, let me guess you can cook, you can dance, you can brush your teeth, your good in bed, because all the Milfty chicks I come across are so similar...Let me guess your more of the outdoor type than a bookworm
Her: Blah
Me: So who are you here with?
Her: My son and his friends
Me: ...so how's my son david doing, I bet he's all grown up now (implying that your the father of her son lol) is he still throwing food at the dinner table
Her: Blah

Example 2
Me: I saw you over here and thought you were really cute, whats your name
Her: Milfty
Me: I'm Snowplowman *shake hands*
Me: Wow, you have a very unique smile its so high energy...you know what I'm going to make you my gf for the next 5mins *claw her in* So girlfriend why are we here again.
Her: Were here with my son and his friends
Me: Right, he wanted to get his face painted by kooper the clown, I want to thank you for the pork chops last night they were Fan-Tas-Tic. I have wonderful treat for you tonight...O but one thing I forgot to mention, remember cindy the busty bankteller...that sunday morning while you and max was at churcht...I was over at cindy's place...I was trying to fight it but she kept seducing me, I didn't break, even though she tried everything in the book, until finally she knocked me over the head with a pot and had her way with me...
Me: So tell me Milfty what do you like doing for fun?

Example 3
Me: I saw you over here and thought you were really cute, whats your name
Her: Milfty
Me: Thats a nice X(a clothing on her body) your wearing my mother always told me girls who wore X were the adventurous type...and you do look like a bad girl (smirking at this point as if I found her out) I know, I know you have some pretty ADVENTUROUS stories...Ever been camping?
Her: Blah Blah
Me: Yea, just the other day I was with this older chick who was very experienced, we were having our night of passion until her crazy ex came and started fighting me. Me and her was stunned at first at how crazy he was, he kept calling banging on the door, and when he gets in the house he just rushed me. I ended up defusing the situation...the whole time this chick was loving the roller coaster emotions...I must admit her face was looking very adorable...it was so surreal I thought it was a dream...I gotta watch you older women you guys are charming but deadly
Me: It's crazy because I feel so comfortable around you, I don't know why, its like so easy to talk to you and I feel alot of positive vibes. You see if I didn't have to go right now I'd probably would've went with you right now to go sky diving or some daring thing but I'm actually pretty busy, so give me your # and I'll ring you up sometime and we can have some adventures of our own.

Basically your doing all this stuff for your own amusement. The reason I do this stuff is because I love fuking with the world by saturating it with my own emotions and I love playing around with chicks. While that is just verbal examples, I tend to kino alot and as I stated before I'm expressive so when I do all this stuff the chicks know what emotions I'm trying to convey. I'm 100% focused on the interaction for what its worth so I never really think ahead, I just go with the flow and just leading and escalating the interaction to where I want it to go.

 

[j0n024]

Hmm wow that is sooo AWESOME! I am going to try that some time man thanks! I really enjoy your advice ...hell I enjoy any advice anyone gives me so thanks everyone and Snow I will try this out next time !!!

 

[j0n024]

Update

Son of a b1tch!

Ok I told people here that on Sprink Break some people can come over since I got a condo for cheap...now I got 3 basic rules that if you do come over I dont care if your older then me by 100 years and am buffer then me you follow them because a DJ has to show respect to another DJ....
1: IF you bring a girl over and you dont want anyone messing with her you do the eye's (Look into the eyes of the males and show that you want her only) other then that she is fair game even if you bring them over to the house..
2: IF you start to fvck the girl PLEASE FVCKING TRY TO STAY CLEAN! I dont want to be walking bare foot in the morning to get a drink of OJ and feel something squishy on the floor!
3: You can fvck wherever you want as long as it's not in another persons bedroom (Unless you got permission) and is not interfering with anyone or freaking anyone out


I bring this up because my cousin has a key to my place since we share the APT (I am the one with the condo I paid full ...well my mommy helped lol) I get home after a long day of sh1t and what do I see when I walk in the room.....my cuz going at it with my other CUZ! (I wrote about this earlier it was the one from Pizza Hut my cuz on my dad's side) on the kitchen table....now I walk in and he doesnt freak out but my girl cuz does and runs to his room, I walk up toward him (He's naked ....I am ok with my masculinity as long as you dont make me suvk your d1ck or something lol) and tell him how he did it and he tells me really fast and I just tell him be careful and clean up...he say's "OK" and goes to his room where they have sex till 10PM

I (this is the big part) go and wipe off the kitchen table (we Help each other he cleaned up when the HBPED came over) and what do I see on the floor but jizz and *** from someone! I look around and everything is all fvcked up! The blinds are open and broken(Dont know how) the pillows are on the floor the tv is on I mean a complete disaster ...I clean up my kitchen counter and get myself something to eat , I talked to him after he was done fvcking my girl cuz and she was gone because I didnt want to be a **** block for him and told him to pick up all this sh1t and that if he cant keep everything orgainzed and clean then hey cant bring any women over he agrees and we leave it at that.....But do you think I am being to lenient on him? I dont care as long as no cops show up and you do PICK UP your sh1t when your done, or do you think I did the right thing but being patient with him?

I am thinking about calling HBPED because of said incident and am feeling kinda turned on (Not because of them but the act ) so I am probably going to call her and bring her over ....but I wonder if she is becoming a crutch or not anyone thoughts on this as well? UPdate to come next weekend or whenever I get the chance Later.....

 

[j0n024]

Update:

I just ended a 2yr LTR right now, and what's funny is that I dont even care....it hasnt affected me like all those other peice's of sh1t that are crying over there break up....I am going out this Saturday so I'll update when I get back....later.

 

[j0n024]

UPdate: Thursday

My cousin is having a 4 day time off so we will be sarging Friday-Sunday

We went to the mall as usual and started to look around but alas it was the weekday and it was late and cold and drizzily so there wasnt a lot of openings.... I eat and we are about to leave when my cousin want's to go into a store to which I reply ..."I am going to walk around".....I am walking around when I see a pretty cute worker and decide to open ..now I know this chick from HS (Not personally but know she puts out pretty easy and she was with another girl so it was a 2 set)

I open them with a canned opener about what I should get for my neice that just turned six ...they give me advice on what to do and what I should get , I dont put all my attention on my target but share it between them by freezing out my target and talking to the other girl but then a coustmer came in and ruined it...so I talk to my target for a while and told her a fib about having a party she gave me her number and I hugged her I told the other girl bye as well and left. I think I did good ...am getting better that's the important part.

I go back to my cousin (the store I went into to get the number was just next door lol) and he is talking to some guy about guitars and I see this hb7.7(nice body but ugly face) with like 7 other girls so I decide to approach...I apprach and just talk to them about what to get my neice and they talk to me ..pretty easy stuff, I DID NOT decide to open my target because I think she would blow me off becasue she would want ot save face in front of her friends or sisters but it was still good to keep my skills improving...

ALAS I did not get to use the "APOC" tactic on anyone because I am saving that for "Milfs" and when I see one I will definitely use it!After that we went back to my cousins house and his friend brought Rock Band and we played till right now ...I will have an update tomorrow good luck everyone else.

EDIT: ME and my cousin were sitting down at a bench and a female sat behind us )They are facing away from each other but are back to back) and I open her (She is a 7.4 could barely see her she was behind me) but I let my cousin take over only coming in from time to time....we are going to pick her up on Saturday to go see Cloverfield with us (I am going to bring one of my girls or maybe pick one up there)

 

[mackdaddy27]

UPdate: Thursday


ALAS I did not get to use the "APOC" tactic on anyone because I am saving that for "Milfs" and when I see one I will definitely use it!After that we went back to my cousins house and his friend brought Rock Band and we played till )

What is the APOC tactic...?

 

[j0n024]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137824

 

[j0n024]

Saturday

I went out to the mall again because I wanted to waste time because we were going to see "Cloverfield" (Decent movie) while I was walking around I saw the girl from yesterday (The one with all the girls around her) so it was a lucky break for me, I saw her and she saw me so I kept eye contact and walked up to her saying "Hey," and hugging her instinctively like it wasnt a big deal. I chatted her up for a while

ME: Hey long time no see
HER:Ya really
ME: So what you doing here today?
HER: buying pants
ME: Ohh I see that sound boring!
HER:ya
ME: Ohh by the way I bought my neice ...blah(I lied llol)
HER: Smile....ohh really
ME: So what you doing later
HER: Going to club
ME: ohh sounds cool
HER:Ya but I dont know if I will go(IOI?)
ME: ohh really well we are having a party(Lie) you should come as my girfriend *Puts hand around waist and smiles*
HER:Smiles ok what's your number?
ME: Well give me your phone (She brought it out I guess to call )
I put in the number and I pull out my phone and she says I have a nice phone(IOI?) I tell her I will call her later for the party and put my arm around her shoulder and say we will go in like this so we can be BF/GF and she smiles and we say bye.

I couldnt get more openings becuase the mall was closing so we had to leave! but ohh well

Fast forward to like an hour ago....I call the girl from the mall not at the time I told her but later and made up a lie about how the party got crashed and she said ohhh, So I said "What you doing tommorow" and set something up for Sunday soo we shall see tonight when I get back. I called another girl as well but she apparently forgot who I was so I told her I would take her out as well so she can remember me, I will probably call her during the day and meet her somewhere.

PS: Kino does work so learn to kino and your in! lol

 

[mackdaddy27]

I called another girl as well but she apparently forgot who I was so I told her I would take her out as well so she can remember me, I will probably call her during the day and meet her somewhere.

PS: Kino does work so learn to kino and your in! lol

is the other girl, the one from thursday? you should keep some tally here or numbering system..... your still doing damn good for being a recent DJ..your like 2/2 so far since your last post....hehhe

 

[j0n024]

Ya it's the one from thursday the one I went into the store while my cuz was in Hot topic, sorry if it got a little jumbled.


I called (Hmm what should I call her?.....HB7) her today when i told her I would call her when she got out of work but it was weird...it sounded like she was talking but she said "Hold up I got another call" and it went straight to voice mail so that freaked me out like....she said "I got another call" and then it said "To leave a voicemail " Blah blah blah so I dont know if she just sent me to voicemail or not but I didnt call her after that since it's her loss not mine. I am probably going to next both of them since one of them didnt answer and the other was being a little b1tch (the HBstore I saw her at mall again and she was walking by and saw me so I said hey come over here but she just shook her head and smiled and kept walking so fvck the *****)
I didnt do any set's today because I was tired but ohh well I am getting better so there is always next weekend.

 

[j0n024]

THe girl from the mall is fvcking us so I forgot about her and took her number out my phone...just this morning I got a text saying what's up I texted for like 5 mins then said I'm going to take you out told her the time Id call her and that she should answer this time if she wants to have fun she didnt respond back but I didnt really care (Trying to get a singing voice so I can dominate on Rock Band lol)

I actually got a girls number in like 30 seconds called it later and she answerd and told me to hold on and hung up so I deleted the number and never called back.

I have been doing pretty piss poor lately and havent done any good pick ups which kinda sucks balls but whatever I am going to go out in a little bit and when I get back I will try to upload a pic of what I look like now to see if you guys think I am ugly and that's the reason why I am not getting any success.


Saturday:

I opened a couple of girls with a new canned opener (I started to say "What do you think is harder scuba diving or sky diving" thanks for the idea! lol I forgot who it was though lol)

I opened a couple of people with that but got no hooks which kinda SUVKS!!!!! I saw a fine ass b1tch that was perfect I mean a 9,9 well she would go down to a 8.7 her attitude brought her down (You could tell she thought she was the sh1t since she has so many AFC friends just by the way she walked ) I was going to open her up when she came out of the store but she never came out so that was a bust ohh well hopefully I have a better ratio today so it was maybe like ....... 4 opens and 0 closes .

 

[Snow Plowman]

Liking the opener as because both I'd love to try.

The thing about openers though is remember there just to start conversation, so don't get caught up on dragging the opener out. You can quickly drop the whole thread after she answers or after a min or two. Many people lose sets because they sit there still stuck on there opener and never moving past it.

So if your doing that try to move forward instead of sitting on the opener for to long because once something is said, then basically the conversation as started.

 

[j0n024]

Hmm actually now that I think about it I have been stuck on openers lately ohh well fvck it lol thanks for the insight snow always nice to hear helpful sh1t.

Here is me .........

(no stache)

Today I was having a good day but I didnt get any openeings so that was kinda a bust, I was with my cuz at the mall because we were waiting to see something and we were just about to sit down to eat when I saw 2 very very hot girls (easily a 8 and above both of them) I was starting to sit down when they passed and just said very cooly "Hey you guys are pretty cute why dont you sit with us" and they smiled and said no and sat maybe a couple of chairs away...guess they didnt despise us huh. So my cuz finds out they are about to close (ALWAYS GET THERE TO LATE!) so we decide to leave and before we do go I go talk to the girls again saying "Hey it was nice meeting you guys hope to see you someday in the future " I then asked them if I could get a picture with them lol and they said no so I said ok bye and left.....

4 hours later

I saw a very dissapoint thing and was pissed (I am tryng to learn to sing and had a very tired voice so it sounded ugly) and I decide to call the girl that sent me a text earlier in the day...it was the time I told her I would call and I did...

HER: hello
ME:Hey
HER:hi
She forgot who I was I guess or was playing around I told her how we met and she remembered now I did text her earlier about going out so I told her

ME: So where you at lets get toghetor
HER:I dont know I barely got out of work
ME: ok well then met me somewhere then
She began to make up some sh1t ass excuses so I didnt really feel like hearing them so I just said

ME: Well let's do something for just an hour
HER: I have a boyfriend that I got today
ME: oook well that good let's meet come on
HER: Noo I dont know I dont want to go out right now
ME: Well how about you come to my place and watch a movie then
HER: I am not a movie person
ME: well we dont have to watch the movie
HER:....Uhh you know what I got to go bye
I hung up

I deleted her off my phone and burned a "Bridge" so whatever ohhh well fvck it there is always next time...but can some people look at me and tell me if I am uglier then the norm or what because I cant hook for SH1T!!!! Later guys good luck with your sets.

PS: on a side note I talk to a girl that was working at a restruant picking up sh1t (like 2 am) and told her
ME: hey can I tell you something
HER: ya
ME: I think your cute what's your name (I said this while still sitting down with my cuz and his friend)
HERhh thanks my name is......(Blank forgot)
ME: that's cool so when do you get off I would like to take you out sometime so I can get to know you better.
HER: I have a boyfriend
I basically push through this and after a while of talking she says

HER: your lying
ME: Why would I like about that?....you know what when you reach a decision on wheter you want me to take you out or not come back ok
HERk

When I was leaving I walk up to her and say
ME: you reach a decision yet?
HER: Why dont you give me your number?
ME: Nah it would be easier to get yours
HER: just give me your number
ME: How about I call my phone from yours and you will have mine
she says something I couldnt hear
ME: ok whatever then bye
I walk off not looking back

 

[mackdaddy27]

first off,

let me say, thanks for posting. Your doing a good job of keeping rolling. But I have some advice that others have told me that may help you as well. First off, you are more experienced than me , and i think you've got skills, you got persistence which shows confidence,....

About the looks, i dont know man, I feel ya. I having a similar thought pattern previous few weeks. ...we have similiar looks,... I can certainly understand where your coming from, i just don't have a definitive answer to your question, I think you DO look pretty good in your second picture when you took it straight on. You have the Whole Matt Dillon look from Theres something about Mary going on. I dont know if its holding you back or not. but certainly your not a model and neither am I ..which have the easiest time.. For me, I am trying a few things to try and improve my looks to the point where its not a 'holding me back thing' , like I am trying to lose weight, tried a different hairstyle, working out. Its a slow process, so i will take some time to improve looks, but will keep you posted.

NOW this next part , IS VERY GOOD ADVICE A MASTER DJ once told me, ( BUT listen, I m not a master DJ, so Take This with a grain of salt and think for yourself if it helps you or not)

Heres the good. Your persistence, you dont give up , that shows confidence. BUT listen carefully, You Need To Slow It Down. Re-read that. You Need To Slow It Down. In stead of getting right to come and met me now thing. Keep her talking, build some comfort, keep asking her questions etc and ease her worries. As Long as shes talking, Its Game. Bro. You got to know when to ask her to met, is when YOU KNOW SHES going to SAY YES, like you can read her emotionally. But you shouldn't burn bridges so suddenly be sutlely aggressive ... . Like what I would have done is get her talking about random stuff, subtlely drop a line that you should met today, and if she says shes busy, tell her I M BUSY too, listen i have another call but I'll call you again next week.. SEE, you leave open the chance that you'll meet again. If she doesn't accept next week, then next the biatch. But in your case with the Text messaging girl, I would have talked to her a bit find out a little about her and then pop the question. Same with getting an email, she doesnt trust you right away, so you have to exchange a few emails, then slowly get her IM, and then slowly get her number. its sometimes a slow process, but that is what I see that might work for you. It might not be something so simple as not rushing and just working through the process.

But dude keep at it, I see you improving your game, and dang if I was in Austin right now, we'd wing together I'd definetly have you hooked up to the best clubs, events or whatever resources to get acccess to the hott babes, but unfortunetly i moved from tx 4 years ago..

Peace

 

[j0n024]

haha YA I hear you but I dont know I think I look weird...eh whatever. But I can see what you mean I will try to slow things down thanks for the advice man and I am trying to lose weight as well and put on some muscle which as you said takes time...but it would be a hell of a lot better if it came faster! lol thanks for the input man good luck on your DJ'ng as well.

 

[j0n024]

Saturday

I went out and some more of the same sh1t...I approach , I fail and I find a new one and the thing continues! I am seriously getting frustrated by this sh1t seriously! I can talk to women easy and AA only hapens on the first set but I cant HOOK any, I mean I dont know what to do besides stopping. I opened 8 sets and got 0 numbers I got sh1t but wasted time...ohh man this is so ****ing gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[mackdaddy27]

the one thing you dont want to do is stop or take a long extended break, i know from my experience, once i took a long break. i had a hard time, getting up and approaching again and re-aligning my confidence, which was working for me at some point in time.

 

[mackdaddy27]

keep it up dude, you were doing good.. I 'll keep my comments to the min, , but you should post your reports more. ....I think your definetly improving..and dang they make for good reading !