Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
Speaking from painful personal experience the fact that she left her boyfriend to be with you would've marked her as someone not to get emotionally attached to.
I could never really trust any of the women who left their BFs for me.
Chin up tho mate,at least you found out early on before you really became invested in the relationship.
Spark up a fattie and chuckle to yourself as you think of the poor bastard she's going back to
I learned this sh*t the hard way, and it would appear so has Jariel.
To quote PuertoRican_Lover,
"Say no to hos!"
"The 'average' young woman these days is a hor and should be respected as such. The minute a man starts to regard her as an equal, or a mate, his ass will get burned and cry out for revenge."
Personall, I've slept with and fooled around with far too many young women who are supposedly in 'committed' relationships to take any of them seriously.
Before, I would expect a relationship and get burned. Now, they are the ones who get burned, because after I fool around with them I walk like nothing at all happened, and in many cases show up in front of them with other hors. Then it's the girl who gets burned because it then dawns on her that she is, in fact, a HOR.
Jariel - don't let her manipulate you anymore than she already has - she is trying to shift the blame onto you. Granted, you stormed off, which was NOT cool. Don't let the ladies get to you like that.
However, given how much she disrespected you that night, you were right to be angry, however, as a man, women will try to push your buttons. You still must remian calm.
Still, your infraction was minor. However, this woman is the type that will blow your minor transgressions way out of proportion all the time, so that when she does something that is in reality far worse, she will always have something to point at and use as an excuse, "Well, remember the time you did THIS and THIS and THAT." is what she'll say, thus exonerating herself from her own shoddy behaviour.
Believe it, women do this sh*t to rationalise and get away with murder, and they do it all the time.
My ex was precisely like this, and that is why she is my ex. Women like this invariably destroy any relationships that they have and end up alone and fat, like my ex.
Be civil, calm and cordial to this woman, hell even be polite. But keep her at arms length at all times. Most important of all, keep on your guard for women like this!
