I am a lurker here.. from time to time I come by and read up and see what is going on, finding things that I can apply or make me see things from a different perspective than I normally would. I am a high beta, lower alpha, by the jargon of the manosphere. I have good luck with women, and have been with alot of them- and this is before my pre red pill days. I am now 41, still single with no kids.
I just broke up with a woman I've been dating for about 8 months. A good person for the most part- most of the women I have been with have been great women, just really bad wives/gfs/lovers. It amazes me just how terrible even good hearted, smart, caring women are at relationships and dating. The disease has spread so far and penetrated so deeply that it has infected even the women who are born with good traits and kind natures.
So here is what has occurred to me as I sit here looking back on my life and relationships and women in general. Its about authenticity. Women can not handle the authentic, the real. Women have no idea what to do with authentic men, and the reasons why are probably vast and varied. But I
think the main reason is that men value authenticity, the real, the truth because we are forced at an early age to do so. Women today are given a pass and so have no concept of these things, so they never face reality, the truth.
Women respond to game because they have no way to process authentic men. They have no idea how to be authentic in response. Yes, there is evolutionary biology that explains this. But men are also products of their evolutionary biology and yet, by our childhood, from societies expectations we evolve past it and develope higher ideals and standards. We develope an appreciation for authenticity and truth. Women do not, and its so far gone that I think women are stuck in a world where they have to be gamed, and why gamed? because game, as the name implies, is inauthentic.
You have to spin plates, kill the beta, be a mystery, act alpha, blah blah blah.. and it works. But not because it makes you a better man. No, I think thats not the case. Because women can't handle a better man. It works because in the end its a game and as such inauthentic, unreal and kind of fake. "fake it til you make it" right?
You know how women say that men can't handle a strong woman, yada yada?
Like most things female this is a projection. The fact is that women can not handle good men. They are not expected to ever develop that ability, that character. We don't expect much of them either do we? We write off all their behaviors and whims as a product of evolutionary biology. Would we do that with men? When a guy rapes a woman, do we say "well, he's just following his biological imperative to reproduce". Of course not. But rape is a behavior nature has evolved to propagate the species. But we don't accept that excuse. We expect men to actually FIGHT those aspects of nature we deem wrong. We don;t do this with women, we play to their hypergamy, their branch swinging, their 'gina tingles and say.. "well, they evolved that way, they can't help it"
We are in a pickle gentlemen. We are devolving. The worst for us are reproducing at a higher rate than the best of us, and the best of us are learning to act and be like the lowest among us to get in on the action. I have no solutions here, just sadness.. sadness for a two to three generations of good men- and women- led astray by forces that have ruined our society and its highest aspirations. Sadness at generations of good men and women who will skim life on the surface of relationships never to experienced the depth and the authentic connection possible to our species. Generations of men and women doomed to shallow and cynical lives of game playing and pump and dumps and divorces and children left to grow up in dysfunctional homes to dysfunctional parents in a dysfunctional shallow society.
So here is Game in a nutshell- de-evolve. Model yourself after a sociopath as Roissy points out, kill that part of yourself capable of deep connection and feeling so that your ons/gf/wife can have her 'gina tingles. Game your wife so that divorce court wont rape you. De-evolve back to your most primal state of pumping and dumping and mindless effing.Or go MGTOW like some ostracized hermit rejected by society.
We are adapting to our times, yes, I realize that. It may even be necessary. but damn if this is not the very definition of a Pyrrhic Victory.
I just broke up with a woman I've been dating for about 8 months. A good person for the most part- most of the women I have been with have been great women, just really bad wives/gfs/lovers. It amazes me just how terrible even good hearted, smart, caring women are at relationships and dating. The disease has spread so far and penetrated so deeply that it has infected even the women who are born with good traits and kind natures.
So here is what has occurred to me as I sit here looking back on my life and relationships and women in general. Its about authenticity. Women can not handle the authentic, the real. Women have no idea what to do with authentic men, and the reasons why are probably vast and varied. But I
think the main reason is that men value authenticity, the real, the truth because we are forced at an early age to do so. Women today are given a pass and so have no concept of these things, so they never face reality, the truth.
Women respond to game because they have no way to process authentic men. They have no idea how to be authentic in response. Yes, there is evolutionary biology that explains this. But men are also products of their evolutionary biology and yet, by our childhood, from societies expectations we evolve past it and develope higher ideals and standards. We develope an appreciation for authenticity and truth. Women do not, and its so far gone that I think women are stuck in a world where they have to be gamed, and why gamed? because game, as the name implies, is inauthentic.
You have to spin plates, kill the beta, be a mystery, act alpha, blah blah blah.. and it works. But not because it makes you a better man. No, I think thats not the case. Because women can't handle a better man. It works because in the end its a game and as such inauthentic, unreal and kind of fake. "fake it til you make it" right?
You know how women say that men can't handle a strong woman, yada yada?
Like most things female this is a projection. The fact is that women can not handle good men. They are not expected to ever develop that ability, that character. We don't expect much of them either do we? We write off all their behaviors and whims as a product of evolutionary biology. Would we do that with men? When a guy rapes a woman, do we say "well, he's just following his biological imperative to reproduce". Of course not. But rape is a behavior nature has evolved to propagate the species. But we don't accept that excuse. We expect men to actually FIGHT those aspects of nature we deem wrong. We don;t do this with women, we play to their hypergamy, their branch swinging, their 'gina tingles and say.. "well, they evolved that way, they can't help it"
We are in a pickle gentlemen. We are devolving. The worst for us are reproducing at a higher rate than the best of us, and the best of us are learning to act and be like the lowest among us to get in on the action. I have no solutions here, just sadness.. sadness for a two to three generations of good men- and women- led astray by forces that have ruined our society and its highest aspirations. Sadness at generations of good men and women who will skim life on the surface of relationships never to experienced the depth and the authentic connection possible to our species. Generations of men and women doomed to shallow and cynical lives of game playing and pump and dumps and divorces and children left to grow up in dysfunctional homes to dysfunctional parents in a dysfunctional shallow society.
So here is Game in a nutshell- de-evolve. Model yourself after a sociopath as Roissy points out, kill that part of yourself capable of deep connection and feeling so that your ons/gf/wife can have her 'gina tingles. Game your wife so that divorce court wont rape you. De-evolve back to your most primal state of pumping and dumping and mindless effing.Or go MGTOW like some ostracized hermit rejected by society.
We are adapting to our times, yes, I realize that. It may even be necessary. but damn if this is not the very definition of a Pyrrhic Victory.
