Having come across this site and various others about learning to become good with attracting women, I have realised for me the problem comes from more than just learning a 'new set of skills' so to speak. After a hard year last year I have seen my GP recently and been diagnosed with social anxiety or social phobia (for those that don't know, high levels of anxiety are constant when in certain social situations and this is particularly true around women for me i.e. i feel very uncomfortable more than most - in my situation it's slowly materialised since about the age of 16). For this reason the major improvement i can make is just overcoming this social phobia ( I have now started seeing a counsellor) before I can really become good women. It's a damn shame as i'm 20 and at uni and i'm not really captalising on the opportunity of being surrounded by beatuiful women (a lot single)that uni presents - i can't help but feel depressed because i should be doing this automatically. I guess what with the social phobia it's gonna take time to recover and then get good with women. I just hope it doesn't take too long and i end up recovering before it's too late!
Can I just ask has anyone been or known someone in a similar situation to myself? Or even have any opinions/ words of advice? Thanks in advance
Can I just ask has anyone been or known someone in a similar situation to myself? Or even have any opinions/ words of advice? Thanks in advance