it keeps coming back to haunt you...

[CoRVeTTe6699]

i go to college, i commute, and my gf dorms...

here is a long story made short:

over thanksgiving break she saw her x-bf, after I told her not to, and she promised she wouldn't.

over the winter break, my girlfriend saw the same x-bf (and gave him christmas gifts that she went out to buy with her mom) and then she saw her x-hook up (hung out with him alone, and later in the day with him and all his guy friends). I told her how I felt about this, and she said she was sorry. she blocked her x-bf on aim and said she wont speak to him again.

spring break: she claims she didnt see any of them, but her x-bf happened to be in the parking lot of a movie theatre and she drove away from him.

summer break: summer break is coming, and her x-hook up (different than x-bf) said he wanted to see her. (she still talks to him), but she told him that she couldnt.

**Main point** - this whole bullshti with her x-bf and x-hook up has been coming back to haunt me time to time for 6 months.
she is the sweetest girl you can find, and doesn't mean to hurt anyone. i said nasty things to her for what she did, and she cried but didnt get mad at me. she says how much she loves me ,and says she wants to be with me forever...

*what would you do about this situation that keeps popping up with her x-hookups and x-bfs**

 

[Lost In Translation]

some good advice

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ Your woman in my opinion shouldn't be talking to an ex. It's ok to have men friends but friends whom she used to suck their dycks is not in my picture. “

^^^ wisdom there


she is telling you lies. she is breaking promises.

she is buying her ex boyfriend presents. her mom is helping her.

(hung out with him alone, and later in the day with him and all his guy friends).

dump her

over thanksgiving break she saw her x-bf, after I told her not to, and she promised she wouldn't

dump her

and her x-hook up (different than x-bf) said he wanted to see her. (she still talks to him)

lol another ex she is talking to ? this chick is out of control

has been coming back to haunt me time to time for 6 months

dump her and get some PEACE

i said nasty things to her for what she did, and she cried but didnt get mad at me

yes because she is probably f*cking her ex

guilty maybe ?

she says how much she loves me ,and says she wants to be with me forever

her ACTIONS tell a very different story

you ask her to keep away from her ex's

she makes promises then breaks them

*what would you do about this situation that keeps popping up with her x-hookups and x-bfs**

i would dump her cheating a$$



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[duttylove]

**Main point** - this whole bullshti with her x-bf and x-hook up has been coming back to haunt me time to time for 6 months.

first off, why put your self through that? dump her!

now your girl is a hor, dont believe because she cried and said sorry that she actually is.

I see my ex often and i think she has a new man im not sure because she doesnt talk about it, come to think of it she doesnt talk about anything because she is screwing me all the time! that is what her exs are doing to her. stop being ignorant and get rid of this hor.

 

[duttylove]

forgot to mention, a hor goes to see her Ex for one thing, sex! ive been told (by hors) "its an itch that needs scratching from time to time"

 

[Skullcrusher]

Seems like your girl is still hung up on her ex-boyfriend.

This means several things and I speak from experience since my ex-girlfriend has repeated made contact with me even though I already have a girlfriend

1. Me and her have very good sexual compatibility. My current gf and myself don't, I bang my current out of duty.

2. Me and her have great conversations, while my current gf have crappy conversations. Can we say perma-small talk?

However, a couple reasons why my ex-girlfriend is not for me:

1. Emotionally unstable
2. Financially unstable
3. Can be unreliable and inconsiderate
4. Can be a jealous witch
5. Manipulative and sometimes aloof

Weighing both pros and cons, both my ex and current equal out - but I feel more intimate with my ex, but then I can have more fun with my more considerate current gf.

 

[karaokelegend]

Damn what a b*****. Not good enough for you.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Your the most naive mother-fuvker if you can't see the picture your gf is painting for you!!! Even if she's not hooking up/fuking her x-bf/x-hook up she's disprespecting you REPEATEDLY by seeing them/talking with them. Then she's buying her x-bf X-mas presents, WTF???? Did it ever occur to you that she will lie to you about whether or not she still sees her x-bf and x-hook up now because she knows you don't like it? This is complete bullshyt!! If you had any control over your girl she would NEVER ever do this for fear of losing you, but obiviously she's a cheating slvt bag and then she puts on her "daddy's little girl" act cries and tells you she wants to marry you..LOL please dood!!!

Like I said, you have no proof if she's actually cheating but the writing's all over the wall. Rid yourself of this w-hore, whom you refer to as your gf and find a good girl.



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[CoRVeTTe6699]

thanks for your opinions...plz give your opinion if you havent already. it will greatly be appreciated

 

[NewMan]

Even IF (and that's a big if) she's didn't fvck or play with any of these guys - do you think for one second that they didn't want to get into her pants?

Do you think that they respected her?

Do you think that they respected you?

No.

There is a reason why these guys are ex's. She should remember that.

 

[PRMoon]

Man your girl is weak. If she knows how you feel about her seeign her exes and what not and can still be convinced by these guys to come out and see them cause she thinks shes being "nice" some major red flags should pop up in your mind.

I understand how she "wants to be with you forever" and that's great that she thinks she'll actually be commited and go through the efforts. But it seems to me (without personal encounter mind you) bases on your stories she's definately a strayer. Meaning one day she'll be out and she'll meet a guy who's "just a friend" and she'll shack up with him, but keep it on the DL behind your back. In her mind she'll be doing okay becaue she'll be making her "friend" happy and you'll be okay because you don't know about it.

If that's the kind of future you're lookin for then by all means stay with her. But other then then that you should find somebody who knows how to respect you and understands how you'd feel if the keep "running into" their exes.

 

[tmpgstx]

I know you want to believe otherwise, but it's a recipe for disaster. If she hasn't done anything yet with these guys, eventually it will happen.

If you don't think anything has happened sexually up to date, then you really need to put your foot down and tell her to cut off all contact with these two. Tell her x's are x's and that's why they're x's (sounds like Algerbra doesn't it?). There can be no half-way point or barganing. Tell her if she values you like she says, she'll dam well cut if off, or else you're out of there.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Man, this one is a toughie. If it was me, I would walk away from it and see what her reaction is. But man, I don't think I could handle my woman buying her ex gifts and such, it kinda indicates that there's still something there. None of my ex girlfriends go out of their way to buy me gifts. And mum went out and helped her? WTF is that about?

Has she bought you any gifts?

I would at least back off a little, at the very least and see how it affects her, because she sure as hell isn't behaving like she wants to 'be with you forever' that's for sure.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Oh geeze, I just looked at your age corvette, you're only 19! That means she's 19 or less than that. Sorry, but 19 year olds in relationships never last. This chick and you will not be together forever, that's absolute rubbish.

At 19, I doubt there is nothing going on between her exes and her.

I would get a few ch*cks on the side at the very least and call them 'just friends.' and see how she likes it.

19 year old women are insane, there's nothing more needs to be said.

 

[Rockadeimis]

Turn around AFC...

Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
thanks for your opinions...plz give your opinion if you havent already. it will greatly be appreciated

Please *run* away, you are a fool if you let her get away with such disrespect. Sickening...

 

[MindOverMatter]

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ Your woman in my opinion shouldn't be talking to an ex. It's ok to have men friends but friends whom she used to suck their dycks is not in my picture. “

Man I miss having P_S around these forums, too bad all those idiots kept flaming him, the guy was awesome at putting afcs in place.

As for the original poster, why are you with this girl?

Ask yourself, why would a girl who's perfectly happy in a relationship with her man keep going back to her past exes and f*ck buddies? It's obvious that she is not 100% into you and that she is still attached to her exes, or has heavy baggage that she cant get rid of. If you are smart, you will leave this broad now, otherwise one day you are gonna get a phonecall from her and she's gonna say "I have a confession to make..." lol.

 

[NewMan]

Man I miss having P_S around these forums, too bad all those idiots kept flaming him, the guy was awesome at putting afcs in place

Agreed.

 

[Lost In Translation]

***BUYS MindOverMatter A BEER***

Man I miss having P_S around these forums, too bad all those idiots kept flaming him, the guy was awesome at putting afcs in place

yeah he always gave me good advice and encouragment

i came back a few weeks ago to see he was banned

and PRL has changed LOL

he has hardened almost as if he is shouldering the burden of posting for PS as well

at least sosuave is blessed to have PRL keeping the AFCs honest

check out my sig. for some classic PS

peace


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“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ Your woman in my opinion shouldn't be talking to an ex. It's ok to have men friends but friends whom she used to suck their dycks is not in my picture. “

 

[CoRVeTTe6699]

i dont think i can dump her

she said she loves me and crys and says she will kill herself if she didnt have me.

she said she dont want to hang out with other guys and all she wants is me.

she said no other girl will love me like her

i dont know what to do

im so confused.

help

 

[tmpgstx]

Wow, that sounds like so many AFC guys telling their girlfriends this!! I could never say this is to a girl, it wreaks of no respect for yourself. Talk about dependent and needy, this sure takes the cake. It's pathetic.

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
i dont think i can dump her

she said she loves me and crys and says she will kill herself if she didnt have me.

she said she dont want to hang out with other guys and all she wants is me.

she said no other girl will love me like her

i dont know what to do

im so confused.

help

If you don't think you can dump her because she threatens you with suicide and what not, she has already sunk her claws into your back. You've got to start digging them out now. Never allow someone to manipulate your actions and feelings with this sort of behavior.

It may seem like you're being the bad man, making her feel unhappy, making the situation worse, taking the choice that creates the most tension. Seriously though, it feels that way only because the so called bad results happen instantly while making peace allows you to delay those bad results. In the end though, the result is going to be bad.

Don't for a second think that the future is predictable, that her love for you will remain constant, that she will try not to fvck with your head. Always leave yourself avenues for escape. Never get trapped. Otherwise it's going to be just like prison.