It’s 2025, I’m going through a I hate women phase. I have to vent here.

[LSUtiger1776]

dang this sucks OP

 

[zekko]

They are not equal to men:
I hate that they feel like they are in any way equal to men. Why do we have women police on officers?
I’m 6,1 240 lbs with 20 years of weight lifting under my belt, there isn’t a woman that could subdue me on earth without use of lethal force.

If I was a cop I’d be so pissed to be assigned a woman partner, she would literally be a liability in a 2 on 2 situation.
The point is, we allow women to have jobs and careers they biologically aren’t suited for just because “everything has to be equal”

I'd say rather they are not physically equal to men. Your cop scenario is a good example of this. Men and women have different strengths.

Well her and her friends decided I’m “controlling and insecure” I blocked her.
They throw around that “controlling & insecure” **** at anything you do that shows you have balls.

Calling you "controlling and insecure" is just their way of manipulating you. It's very effective. Of course that doesn't mean the guy isn't being controlling and insecure, in some cases he is.

 

[Solomon]

@cola I share many of your sentiments.

I have recently went on at least a dozen dates with various women, wasted time and money for drinks obviously, and just gave up going for the smash in the end because I knew none of these were long term material. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

My best advice would be if you notice active social media usage from any new prospects, just immediately drop them.

Social media has really done a number on the dating market. It's not just young women but I noticed older women are addicted to it as well particularly Tik Tok. Unpopular taken in todays dating game you either have to be ruthless on some borderline sociopathic levels or you gotta have your shyt together in all aspects anything in between is hoping for a unicorn.

 

[needimprovement250]

Living in a big city (and riding public transportation to work), I cross paths with many a woman.

I crossed paths with even more gals when I worked in stores.

Yet I've still had bad luck. 2 dates (and only one instance of free sex) in the past 9 years.

I live in a big city too and I think that makes it even more frustrating because I’m never around women despite living in a densely populated area, its not like I’m living in a rural area with hardly any people around. I think it has more to do with my day to day life and what I’ve done for work. The jobs I’ve had I was either working alone, with other men, or older people who are working for some post-retirement income.

You still had better luck than me at least, that’s more dates and sex than my last 10 years.

 

[needimprovement250]

It's good I had some initiate, yeah.

As another poster said in response to you, however, having a woman initiate at the low levels we've had is nothing but statistical noise.

Wheat Waffles tried to get me to pay extra for a plan of what I could do better. I declined. He's a con artist. He probably purposely lowballs a man's looks score so the man will pay extra for the add on.

True its not like it has happened constantly to either of us, but it would be interesting to see how often it would happen if we were both more regularly in scenarios where it could happen since I’m never around women as I already said and women aren’t likely to initiate on public transit too.

WheatWaffles is totally scamming then. He’s trying to get more money out of desperate incels by undervaluing a man’s score so they’ll give him even more money.

 

[Travel memoir21]

You guys need to meditate and do some ‘ Natural Grounding’ - (The art of meditating on Naturally, God Loving feminine women’)……On these types of women, not the ho bags you guys are usually chasing,

 

[GoodMan32]

I live in a big city too and I think that makes it even more frustrating because I’m never around women despite living in a densely populated area, its not like I’m living in a rural area with hardly any people around. I think it has more to do with my day to day life and what I’ve done for work. The jobs I’ve had I was either working alone, with other men, or older people who are working for some post-retirement income.

You still had better luck than me at least, that’s more dates and sex than my last 10 years.

I don't have much of a social life.

Come to think of it, if I owned a car (and drove everywhere), as well as worked a job with little to no female contact, I'd barely cross paths with any gals.

So I totally get why you barely cross paths with any.

 

[GoodMan32]

True its not like it has happened constantly to either of us, but it would be interesting to see how often it would happen if we were both more regularly in scenarios where it could happen since I’m never around women as I already said and women aren’t likely to initiate on public transit too.

WheatWaffles is totally scamming then. He’s trying to get more money out of desperate incels by undervaluing a man’s score so they’ll give him even more money.

You might be surprised about a woman's likeliness to initiate on public transportation. I got free sex once because a woman chatted me up while catching a ride on public transportation. She then basically followed me home and got naked.

I've had gals comment on my attractiveness while riding (or catching a ride). Had I done more to escalate, it's possible sex/dates might have been on the table.

 

[Solomon]

I don't have much of a social life.

Come to think of it, if I owned a car (and drove everywhere), as well as worked a job with little to no female contact, I'd barely cross paths with any gals.

So I totally get why you barely cross paths with any.

Those are your main issues right there if you focused on having a car and a social life you would have a girlfriend within a year or two. If you're only meeting women on bottom-of-the-barrel swipe apps it explains your lack of success

I highly recommend anyone reading this post in 2025 work on our lifestyle/social life the effort is pain, blood, sweat and tears but speaking from personal experience it's ****ing worth it!

 

[cola]

Those are your main issues right there if you focused on having a car and a social life you would have a girlfriend within a year or two. If you're only meeting women on bottom-of-the-barrel swipe apps it explains your lack of success

I highly recommend anyone reading this post in 2025 work on our lifestyle/social life the effort is pain, blood, sweat and tears but speaking from personal experience it's ****ing worth it!

Hey I think we are around the same age..
That’s one issue I’m having. I used to get a ton of sex off social circle. Basically, if I hang with a mixed group of guys and girls I’m going f*ck a girl in the group for sure, possibly multiple girls in that group.

But I don’t have that anymore because a lot of my guy friends are either married with kid(s) or super career focused .. what are some ways to find a new social circle to infiltrate at this age?

I don’t really wanna become a regular at a bar either as that’s seems the normal way around this age because I’m basically California sober ..
Maybe drink once a month on an nfl Sunday not really interested in drinking more often..

Also not just meeting new girls, I miss getting a random phone call from the boys “yoooo, let’s go bowling, or to this event or whatever”