pimpfromdayone
Master Don Juan
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Well, as I always say when dealing with women we want: friends=fuc-ked.
But that only applies to situations where the MAN wants to hook up with the women he is friends with, not the other way around, so there should be no problem with what you're trying to do.
You also say you "like what you have" (the friendship) but you want to date him too. Um, pick one or the other. Obviously, from what you've said, you value hooking up with him more than being his friend, whether you admit to it or not. If you succeed in this, THEN you can try to be his best friend, but you will be more than a friend, but in some cases less than a friend. I think you need to be honest with yourself and get your goals straight.
Why the hell don't you ever invite him over? By him saying that, he doesn't want you to analyze it over and over in your head, it is a call to action! Ask him to come over or hangout sometime, and stop thinking or trying to read between the lines of every little thing. I doubt he is a don juan for "complaining" about you not asking him or even mentioning it, because that is not something we do.... it just sounds weak and shows he cares too much (which for you is good). He doesn't just want to spend time as a friend, but as a boyfriend, and he hates to continually be the one doing the action and asking. I would too. I say again, why do you REFUSE to invite him over? He has given you a big clue and yet you don't even think to follow up on it. Instead, you prefer to think about the simplest line of words ever spoken and wonder if it means something deeper.
Well, that is about all I can do for you, hope it helps some, and, good luck.
But that only applies to situations where the MAN wants to hook up with the women he is friends with, not the other way around, so there should be no problem with what you're trying to do.
You also say you "like what you have" (the friendship) but you want to date him too. Um, pick one or the other. Obviously, from what you've said, you value hooking up with him more than being his friend, whether you admit to it or not. If you succeed in this, THEN you can try to be his best friend, but you will be more than a friend, but in some cases less than a friend. I think you need to be honest with yourself and get your goals straight.
Why the hell don't you ever invite him over? By him saying that, he doesn't want you to analyze it over and over in your head, it is a call to action! Ask him to come over or hangout sometime, and stop thinking or trying to read between the lines of every little thing. I doubt he is a don juan for "complaining" about you not asking him or even mentioning it, because that is not something we do.... it just sounds weak and shows he cares too much (which for you is good). He doesn't just want to spend time as a friend, but as a boyfriend, and he hates to continually be the one doing the action and asking. I would too. I say again, why do you REFUSE to invite him over? He has given you a big clue and yet you don't even think to follow up on it. Instead, you prefer to think about the simplest line of words ever spoken and wonder if it means something deeper.
Well, that is about all I can do for you, hope it helps some, and, good luck.
