Is this a legit blowoff?

[WCS14]

I think this thing was doomed to fail from beginning since i was set up with her by her Mom and StepDad because they did not like the guys she brought home.


Now, this girl deep down could of even liked me, but HAD to reject me as a messsage to her Mom and StepDad....."S

Stay the **** out of my life and let me choose my own guys.

She had no choice to reject me, she did not want to give her,parents the satisfaction they
Were right

Just a,theory and I could be right.

Im a pretty good catch, cant see any other reason

 

[Maximus Rex]

I think this thing was doomed to fail from beginning since i was set up with her by her Mom and StepDad because they did not like the guys she brought home.


Now, this girl deep down could of even liked me, but HAD to reject me as a messsage to her Mom and StepDad....."S

Stay the **** out of my life and let me choose my own guys.

She had no choice to reject me, she did not want to give her,parents the satisfaction they
Were right

Just a,theory and I could be right.

Dude, you're over here acting like you've stumbled upon the Pythagorean theorem or some sh*t. Rex told you the same thing seven posts ago.

 

[WCS14]

Would you believe after 6 days this girl sends me a text sorry for being rude, Ive been super busy with work. How was your weekend?

I dont know what kind of game she is playing. I bet her main interest blew her off and I am the back up. I will text her back, just not today and play along with this game since i have no other prospects.

I will be sure to have zero expectations though

 

[Yewki]

Don't respond for like a week.

Why? Because you can. Ok, more precisely because you want her to wonder about you and she was admittedly rude anyways.

When you respond ignore her apology and her question about your weekend, and keep it brief.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Tell This B*tch to Give You Some P*ssy Pt. II

Would you believe after 6 days this girl sends me a text sorry for being rude, Ive been super busy with work. How was your weekend?

I dont know what kind of game she is playing. I bet her main interest blew her off and I am the back up. I will text her back, just not today and play along with this game since i have no other prospects.

I will be sure to have zero expectations though

Actually there's no reason for you to contact her at all? Why are you so willing to come in "off the bench," for this b*tch? and act as her second choice? Bad move dude. I'm going to copy and paste," what you need to tell ole girl if you decide to contact her, this bit of advice came from this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2105146#post2105146
however, I'm going "remix," it a little so the wording is more pertinent to your situation.

You need to stop being so soft hearted and quit being a rest haven for hoes. Are you familiar with heroin addiction? Well if you aren't, as somebody who's seen a person go through withdrawals, I can tell that you that sh*t ain't nothing nice. When a person becomes a fiend, his only focus in life is to have enough money so he can cop in the morning in an effort to to stave off the symptoms of withdrawals. The same holds true with females, these b*tches need attention like junkies need "hairron." Whether the attention is positive or negative, it's a source of mental sustenance for them.

You, my friend are acting as this b*tch's attention fix and you to stop this sh*t IMMEDIATELY! So what you need to do is the next time you or she contacts one another, tell her to call you. If she's like, "Why?" You tell her that you need to speak to her. If she persists with the bullsh*t, you proceed to hang up on her, download, Mr. Number," or some other number blocking app, and add her number to it, after that you delete her from your social media thingys.

If she calls you, you tell his this, VERBATIM. "Look, you're a cool chick and all, but you're doing some things that are just straight up disrespectful and it's causing me to see you in a negative light." She's going to play dumb and ask you what you're talking about. You respond with, "What you did the other day is flakey and disrespectful behavior on your part. I made plans to kick it with you, but you lied to me about being sick.

Of course she's going to argue to the contrary. Then you hit her with that Fleece Johnson line, "I like you and I want you. Now we can either do this the easy or the hard way. Right now you're choosing the hard way and I have to seriously consider it if's worth my time to even f*ck with you because you're being needlessly difficult. Any chick that I f*ck with gives me 100% cooperation because they know I'm a fun and cool guy to be with, but you're over here playing games and giving me problems." After that little exchange she'll either tell you that she isn't feeling you like that or if she is, she'll stop with the bull****.

Here's where you stop b*tchin' out and you reach for the mack within. You tell her that you're coming to pick her up right then and there. If she hems and haws, give a counter date, if she still doesn't accept, tell her "Good Night," then, you hung up and add her number to a call blockin' app. If she accepts, then you get bold and ice cold with the pimpin', and you tell her, "Cool, by the way, before we go out, you're going to give me some p*ssy." She's going to be taken aback by such a forward and bold approach or she might be offended that you think she's a slut, but this does these things.

1) Eliminate this flakey b*tch from your life.

2) Establishes the parameters in which the relationship will proceed.

3) If she gives you some, it probably be some booty movie sex.

When you tell her to give you some a$$, as I said before, she's gonna be like "What?" Then say, "Don't play dumb because I know you heard me, but if you didn't let me repeat for your deaf a$$. Before-we-go-out-you're-going-to-give-me-some-p*ssy. Now that I think about it, I'm also going to f*ck you like an animal." Then you move in to kiss and undress her, if she resists. You'll give the appearance of capitulation, when she gets cozy, you ask for her phone, go to your name and delete it from her contacts, get up, and leave to go home.

 

[LeonSK]

It's a blowoff. Judge by actions. I had similar thing happened to me, she kept saying "I'm not trying to blow you off" but then actually blew me off.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Don't respond for like a week.

Why? Because you can. Ok, more precisely because you want her to wonder about you and she was admittedly rude anyways.

When you respond ignore her apology and her question about your weekend, and keep it brief.

Ahhh another typical Sosuave conditioned reply.

You guys need to start looking at the end goal, notice I didn't say outcome.

In this particular case, its pretty clear that this girl didn't have high interest after they went on a couple dates.

The OP got a little wrapped up, but was able to see the faulty path he was headed down and control his behavior.

Now that he's had a few days to decompress, he should treat her like she should've been treated from the start; an option, not a priority.

Waiting a week will not make her interest level go UP. For that to occur, her interest needed to be healthy to start off with and it clearly was low before she re-initiated contact.

As long as he didn't reply right away, the same effect will occur; she will wonder, her interest will temporarily elevate and he can bang her if he plays his cards right.







PIMP

 

[Yewki]

Waiting a week will not make her interest level go UP. For that to occur, her interest needed to be healthy to start off with and it clearly was low before she re-initiated contact.

You're right but I think waiting a week would be a good exercise for the OP because I'm sure he is very eager to respond... so instead, don't respond. Don't respond in any reasonable time period. Practice being OK with losing a flakey girl. IMO this is already a lost cause anyways.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Why Are You Giving Her Time and Attention

I dont know what kind of game she is playing.

She's not playing a game, she's fiending for attention.

I will text her back,

Why are you texting her? What do you hope to gain by texting her? And how will texting her facilitate eventually dumping your goo on her chest and face?

along with this game

Dude you can lie to yourself, but you can't lie to Don Juans of So Suave, you want to f*ck this girl, so stop it with the "go along with the games bullsh*t. For you to entertain this sh*t implies you don't sh*t else going on in your life.

since i have no other prospects.

Freudian slip like a muthaf*cka and here in lies the truth. Remedy this problem by getting other prospects. You shouldn't regulate yourself to being a centurion in her legion of followers. Have more respect for yourself and most importantly your time.

I will be sure to have zero expectations though

Do you want to know the reason as to why with just 947 posts, Rex has so many green squares under his posts total? No, Rex and I really don't.... Shut up, because good ole Rex is going to tell you anyway. Though your boy boy still experiences approach anxiety and he hasn't f*cked a gang of chicks, it's because as one of the mods put it, "You talk about your personal experiences and not some esoteric game philosophy.," That's one of the biggest compliments that I've ever gotten on this board, though I forget which one, however forgive my digression.

Dude, I can tell you from personal experience, that absolutely NOTHING, AND STRESS NOTHING, will come of this. As a matter of fact, I see this happening to you, http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=73178. And don't say, "Well Rex, you never went out with the chick, while i have." Irregardless of the circumstances, old girl has made up her mind about you and the likelihood of that perception changing is very slim, unless you follow the advice that gave you in my post prior to this one, even then the sh*t is a "Hail Mary. Always remember that old pimpin' proverb, "How you start with a b*tch is how you end with a b*tch."