Is the Night of January 1 The Easiest Day of the Year to Get Laid

[SW15]

I turned down a couple of women cause they were not my type. One was being frisky and likely I could have banged her in my car. But I'm not thirsty for sex since I have a couple plates. Got to keep my standards tight.

Yes, keep your standards in place. Car bangs are not ideal either.

 

[SW15]

It's January 1 again. Is anyone planning to go out tonight and try and get laid?

The Easiest Day Of The Year To Get Laid

In the 2 years I tried to test Roosh's 2011 blog post findings, my results on the night of January 1 did not come close to what he discussed in the article above.

 

[SW15]

It is January 2 now. That means that the dead zone for meeting new women is officially over. For those who need new women, it's time to start making new woman efforts. Time to up the efforts on daygame or nightgame. For swipe app users, there will be a bunch of new women starting to get on the apps to meet men with the memories of a holiday season alone still fresh in their minds. Additionally, they are also starting to think about Valentine's Day, which is only 6 weeks away. They are going to be motivated for Valentine's Day. They don't want to spend that day alone either.

 

[SW15]

Happy New Year!

There has been an idea that has been promoted (see article below) that tonight is the easiest night of the year to get same night sex from bar approaches. The idea is that those who go out tonight will have a more receptive talent pool. The idea is that women who go out on the night of January 1 are horny, likely to be single (if she was coupled up, the night of December 31 would have been her night), and didn't have a midnight kiss/sex the night before.

The Easiest Day Of The Year To Get Laid

Since this article was written in February 2011, I have tried going out on the night of January 1 two times and found it completely dead. I didn't find easier prospects for same night sex. Those nights were in the 2010s and I forget which years that I tried the night of January 1 at the bars.

I think the night of the week that January 1 falls on matters for this. I think it would be a better play in the years where January 1 falls on a Friday or Saturday. This year, January 1 is on a Wednesday night. Many people won't have Thursday off of work and that could dull the potential crowds at the bars tonight.

I have some interest in going out tonight.

Anyway, for seducers, January 1-January 2 is good news. The deadest zone of the year for meeting new people is drawing to a close (mid November - end of year). Some people did use dead zone to meet women, such as @BPH getting from 2 new women during the most recent dead zone. January meets that there are a lot of motivated singles coming off of a lousy holiday season and also starting to think about Valentine's Day in 6 weeks. The busiest days of the year on swipe apps are during early January. Daygame and nightgame are good options too for those who don't like swipe apps (I am one of those).

Even if a man doesn't go out tonight, it's a good idea to have some seduction activity planned for the early days of the year if he needs new women.

 

[DJVision]

In 2011, Roosh wrote an article about that the night of January 1 was the easiest night of the year to get laid at the bars.

http://web.archive.org/web/20150413...v.com/the-easiest-day-of-the-year-to-get-laid

Has anyone here ever tried that? Anyone planning to go out tonight?

There were two years since 2011 where I tried it and didn't get laid. I found things to be especially dead in the years I tried it. The night before, New Year's Eve, is usually the big night out. However, New Year's Eve is often a couples heavy night.

Roosh made the point that women who go out of the night of January 1 are horny, definitely single, and more motivated to get laid.

Yes... Spoke to a chick for around 10 minutes on a dating app yesterday, she offered to come to my house for the night pretty much immediately, with a a bottle of wine in hand. I declined.. However was a super easy NYE lay.

 

[SW15]

Yes... Spoke to a chick for around 10 minutes on a dating app yesterday, she offered to come to my house for the night pretty much immediately, with a a bottle of wine in hand. I declined.. However was a super easy NYE lay.

That would have been a super easy lay on New Year's Eve.

In the 2005-2014 era, women wouldn't have offered to forego NYE out with established friends or at bars for a website/app arranged hookup. Tech based dating/casual sex has become more entrenched now.

 

[DJVision]

That would have been a super easy lay on New Year's Eve.

In the 2005-2014 era, women wouldn't have offered to forego NYE out with established friends or at bars for a website/app arranged hookup. Tech based dating/casual sex has become more entrenched now.

It's an easy choice for woman. NYE on her own with her cats and dogs feeling sorry for herself.. Or a ten minute online conversation, resulting in sex and company for the night.

 

[SW15]

It's an easy choice for woman. NYE on her own with her cats and dogs feeling sorry for herself.. Or a ten minute online conversation, resulting in sex and company for the night.

I don't think it is as easy of a choice as you think that it is. Sex has consequences for women. This forum talks a lot about penis carousel riding and how it affects women. Random sex does affect their abilities for bonding in longer term interactions. Many women want longer term interactions at some point.

A lot of women that don't have NYE hookups will go out to bars on the night of January 1 for purposes of meeting men and possibly same night sex. The woman you mentioned just moved that up a day and used tech methods instead of real life methods.

A lot of the stigma associated with tech methods have long since dissipated.

Using tech methods to fill empty time on the calendar in prime spaces (NYE, Halloween, any Friday/Saturday night) seems to be getting more common.

 

[DJVision]

I don't think it is as easy of a choice as you think that it is. Sex has consequences for women. This forum talks a lot about penis carousel riding and how it affects women. Random sex does affect their abilities for bonding in longer term interactions. Many women want longer term interactions at some point.

A lot of women that don't have NYE hookups will go out to bars on the night of January 1 for purposes of meeting men and possibly same night sex. The woman you mentioned just moved that up a day and used tech methods instead of real life methods.

A lot of the stigma associated with tech methods have long since dissipated.

Using tech methods to fill empty time on the calendar in prime spaces (NYE, Halloween, any Friday/Saturday night) seems to be getting more common.

Agreed but how often do these females actually think of the consequences? Not very often. I could have been a serial killer for all this chick knows, yet she was happy and willing to rock over to my place with bottle of wine in hand.

I suppose this loneliness epidemic that we have in the Western world, to some degree forces females to make irrational decisions, they normally wouldn't make.

Lack of community, meaningful friendships, traditional family structure etc.

It's either another night of loneliness at home on NYE.. Or forget the consequences, and have someone to spend time with for the night.

And yes agreed, it's used to be a night out at the bars on NYE, but that required time, money, effort, social skills.

These days, a swipe to the right, 10 minutes conversation, and the deal is done.

 

[GoodMan32]

In 2011, Roosh wrote an article about that the night of January 1 was the easiest night of the year to get laid at the bars.

http://web.archive.org/web/20150413...v.com/the-easiest-day-of-the-year-to-get-laid

Has anyone here ever tried that? Anyone planning to go out tonight?

There were two years since 2011 where I tried it and didn't get laid. I found things to be especially dead in the years I tried it. The night before, New Year's Eve, is usually the big night out. However, New Year's Eve is often a couples heavy night.

Roosh made the point that women who go out of the night of January 1 are horny, definitely single, and more motivated to get laid.

Since you struck out twice using Roosh's strategy, I'd say that speaks volumes as to how seriously Roosh's New Years theory deserves to be taken.

 

[SW15]

Agreed but how often do these females actually think of the consequences? Not very often.

I don't think women think of the consequences very often. Female promiscuity rates have been increasing since the 1970s. Females have also been experiencing more mental health issues in recent times at times. It's likely that the two occurrences are related to each other.

I could have been a serial killer for all this chick knows, yet she was happy and willing to rock over to my place with bottle of wine in hand.

That's unsound thinking on her part.

It seems like women are more willing to take that risk rather than to go out to a bar alone and meet men. In bars/nightlife venues, women are almost always in groups of 2, 3, or more.

During the worst of the pandemic in 2020-early 2022, there were stories emerging of women going straight to a man's home for a date/sex rather than risk a public meeting venue. The pandemic might have loosened the stigma around doing that, a stigma that was common from the 1990s-2010s.

I suppose this loneliness epidemic that we have in the Western world, to some degree forces females to make irrational decisions, they normally wouldn't make.

Lack of community, meaningful friendships, traditional family structure etc.

It's either another night of loneliness at home on NYE.. Or forget the consequences, and have someone to spend time with for the night.

And yes agreed, it's used to be a night out at the bars on NYE, but that required time, money, effort, social skills.

These days, a swipe to the right, 10 minutes conversation, and the deal is done.

Women are more social than men, but even they start to lack community and meaningful friendships in a lot of cases after age 30. Unattached women 30+ often have friends in LTRs, marriages, and marriages with children. These 30+ women lack options with friends and are willing to go on first dates with unknown men in time slots they wouldn't have considered giving up to a new man in their peak years (Fri/Sat nights, holiday/holiday adjacent time).

The conventional wisdom for a time was that first dates (especially ones arranged via tech) were meant for off nights like ordinary Tuesday-Wednesday nights.

Swiping and texting while sitting at home to get laid is easier than going out to a bar and meeting people like it was done in the 1970s-2000s.

Since you struck out twice using Roosh's strategy, I'd say that speaks volumes as to how seriously Roosh's New Years theory deserves to be taken.

Roosh mentioned in that article that he had night of January 1 lays from efforts in 2010 and 2011.

In 2010, January 1 was on a Friday night. In 2011, January 1 was a Saturday night. That likely helped him out a bit. He also mentioned having a wingman in 2011.

Roosh thought it could work any year in a bigger city. Bigger cities often have active nightlife venues on every night of the week.

In the first year I tried it out, January 1 fell on a random weeknight that year. I also tried it out that year with no wingman because none of my friends that year had interest in going out on the night of January 1. Almost all of them had spent all their energy going out on December 31 (New Year's Eve) that year. I remember being out alone, no wingman, finding few approach targets and thinking it was generally a lousy time. It was a tremendous disappointment.

It could be argued that I had a problem with venue selection that time. I was out on Dallas' biggest nightlife venue street at the time when I tried it the first time. I think venue selection was the least of my problems that night.

I think having no wingman and January 1 falling on a random weeknight that year were the bigger problems.

The second time I tried it was also a weeknight January 1 with no wingman either.

Having a wingman helps a lot in bar approaching. Guys with fewer wingman options who approach solo are generally better off doing daygame where women are isolated from their friends. That's even true with daygame having its own set of problems (untarget audience and earbuds in certain venues).

 

[SW15]

I went out last night on the night of January 1 for the first time in many years. For future reference, I'll acknowledge that this happened on a Wednesday night.

I went to a bar that is typically considered to be one of the more active bars. This bar is located in one of the more nightlife active areas of the city.

This bar was more active last night as compared to the 2 times I tried going out on the night of January 1 in the mid-2010s.

Talent pool was rather weak last night. More females were out in mixed set groups with boyfriends/husbands. There were a few groups of 2 or 3 women. One of the groups of 3 women had 1 women dressed in a sweatshirt and sweatpants. She looked like she was dressed to relax in her home alone or in her home with a close, long time friend. She was not dressed to impress. Other women weren't dressed to impress in this venue either.

The women in this venue seemed unmotivated to find a new penis for sex to start off the new year. The ones with boyfriends/husbands were clearly unmotivated but the women in 2-3 set groups were also unmotivated. The 2-3 set groups seemed more interested in keeping to themselves than finding new men.

Other venues near the bar where I went were even less crowded with fewer options than what I saw where I was.

 

[Solomon]

I went out with a plate (who lives 40 minutes from me and rented a hotel room which she paid for)
I didn't go into the city but the local bars, it was as expected nothing but fatties and older cougars already with a man
NYE was fun back circa 2012 when the bars/club scene was popping but now post-covid I rather not go to place just to spend $100
regardless had fun with the plate last night and now try to line up more dates as I've been getting more matches again on dating apps

 

[SW15]

I didn't go into the city but the local bars, it was as expected nothing but fatties and older cougars already with a man

The bar I went to last night would be considered a main city bar. I didn't like how many mixed sets there were and the female display of lack of motivation for new penis.

 

[Solomon]

The bar I went to last night would be considered a main city bar. I didn't like how many mixed sets there were and the female display of lack of motivation for new penis.

Really I'm shocked I find it hard to belive that in Dallas nothing but mids out, do you think maybe you went to the wrong venue? did you have to pay an outrageous fee to get in?

NYE is overrated IME I never picked up a random up maybe got a kiss or make out in my 20s but that's about it
The only time I got laid on NYE is taking out a new plate that I hadn't closed the deal with honestly even though I kept it local where it's cheap I still spend more than I like

However we took Uber's which iMO I saw people paying $100 one way uber due to surge charges while I spend $30 for the whole night driving to and from 2 different bars and back to the hotel

Yes I;'m very frugal lol

 

[SW15]

Really I'm shocked I find it hard to belive that in Dallas nothing but mids out, do you think maybe you went to the wrong venue? did you have to pay an outrageous fee to get in?

Last night (the night of January 1), there were mids at best out at the venue where I went. No entry fees last night.

It's possible I went to a bad venue, but this is a venue with a strong Google rating and a strong reputation in the nightlife scene. I have known of couples forming off of this venue. This is a venue where approaching is known to happen.

Other venues within walking distance of where I went last night were less active than where I went.

On the night of December 31, there were plenty of places with steep entry fees. I didn't go out that night. I will rarely ever pay an entry fee anywhere.

I agree that NYE (night of December 31) is overrated. The night of January 1 (last night) is supposed to be a night with motivated women who didn't have an NYE hookup looking for sex in bars.

 

[Solomon]

Last night (the night of January 1), there were mids at best out at the venue where I went. No entry fees last night.

It's possible I went to a bad venue, but this is a venue with a strong Google rating and a strong reputation in the nightlife scene. I have known of couples forming off of this venue. This is a venue where approaching is known to happen.

Other venues within walking distance of where I went last night were less active than where I went.

On the night of December 31, there were plenty of places with steep entry fees. I didn't go out that night. I will rarely ever pay an entry fee anywhere.

I agree that NYE (night of December 31) is overrated. The night of January 1 (last night) is supposed to be a night with motivated women who didn't have an NYE hookup looking for sex in bars.

I'm speculating here merely on past experiences and biases SW15 If I'm wrong then so be it as I don't know the scene in Dallas, but I will be there this year to do a "reckon" mission sometime this year.

The "Baddies" were probably at the expensive venues costing $100 plus to get in or at private exclusive parties
I also went to the free events but mind you it's in a small town in a Tier 2 city unlike Dallas so me seeing mostly fatties and hot married cougars is expected

I think if I went to the venues that cost I would have seen hotter women but to me I didn't care about that since I had a plate who just wanted to be out have some drinks and fun which she did (I was bored) I think this is a perfect example of access the hot women are going to be at the places where it's exclusive or expensive. The ugly or "MID" women are going to be at the places that are free or cheap

 

[SW15]

scene in Dallas

I know you are aware of the following thread. There might be some unaware of the thread below on this forum. It is a good guide to the mating scene in Dallas. It covers a lot of topics and gets updated.

Observations on Dallas' Scene

Based on @Jesse Pinkman's write ups of New York City, Miami, and large state universities, I thought it would be worthwhile to write up Dallas, the city I call home. The Dallas-Fort Worth metropolitan area (DFW) is the 4th most populated metropolitan area in the United States. Dallas and Fort...

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The "Baddies" were probably at the expensive venues costing $100 plus to get in or at private exclusive parties

There's a good chance that was true on NYE (December 31). A lot of those women likely had boyfriends/husbands paying their $100 cover to get in.

I thought about going to one themed party in a bar that was $30+ to enter but didn't go to it. NYE is mostly overrated so I don't feel bad about that choice.

I think this is a perfect example of access the hot women are going to be at the places where it's exclusive or expensive. The ugly or "MID" women are going to be at the places that are free or cheap

That was applicable last night on the first full night of the year.

Perhaps a lot of the baddies stayed in to recover from NYE. Additionally, many people had to work on January 2nd and didn't want to go out last night.

 

[Solomon]

I know you are aware of the following thread. There might be some unaware of the thread below on this forum. It is a good guide to the mating scene in Dallas. It covers a lot of topics and gets updated.

Observations on Dallas' Scene

Based on @Jesse Pinkman's write ups of New York City, Miami, and large state universities, I thought it would be worthwhile to write up Dallas, the city I call home. The Dallas-Fort Worth metropolitan area (DFW) is the 4th most populated metropolitan area in the United States. Dallas and Fort...

www.sosuave.net

There's a good chance that was true on NYE (December 31). A lot of those women likely had boyfriends/husbands paying their $100 cover to get in.

I thought about going to one themed party in a bar that was $30+ to enter but didn't go to it. NYE is mostly overrated so I don't feel bad about that choice.



That was applicable last night on the first full night of the year.

Perhaps a lot of the baddies stayed in to recover from NYE. Additionally, many people had to work on January 2nd and didn't want to go out last night.

Oh you went out last night on 1/1/2025

Yeah OP I could have told you that was a waste of time most people are recovering from drinking and make no mistakes women are recovering from drinking and getting stretched out.

It's a New Year though, time to make plans and be strategic anyway bro Good luck with your endeavors

 

[SW15]

I could have told you that was a waste of time most people are recovering from drinking and make no mistakes women are recovering from drinking and getting stretched out.

The theory that this thread is based on is the idea that women who go out on the night of January 1 are motivated to get sex. Roosh proposed that idea in 2011 because he got laid on the nights of January 1 in 2010 and 2011.

I didn't see the motivation among anyone out last night.

It's a New Year though, time to make plans and be strategic anyway bro Good luck with your endeavors

January is supposed to be Go Time.

Many women are supposed to be motivated singles coming off of a lousy holiday season. It's a new year and a lot of women would like to start a new year in a better mating situation. Additionally, Valentine's Day is only 6 weeks away.

Online, daygame, and night game should all improve in the next few weeks.