Is she cheating

[Buzzman]

Shes taking it in the pooper

Prob

 

[HyenaPrince]

lie... she was a sorority girl... i wasnt.

I'd be worried about you if you were.

 

[Buzzman]

I'd be worried about you if you were.

Lol. I wasnt greek

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That is true. There wasnt any knowledge of really any lies b4 marriage. Not admitted. Now i look at and i see that was her game... that she simply denies. I thought inwas dealing with a straight shooter... ive found out though that thatbis not the case.

Nothing about the energy or anything else felt "funny"? You see with those soroties and fraternities it's "them" and everyone else is outsiders. Likely if there is a guy, it's someone from her past from the right frat. Also her sororitie sisters priority and viewpoints will override you, you are kind of a prop. A "Ken doll". If you got alot of game, the "Ken Doll" can have it pretty good. Especially if her sisters are jealous and want to fvck, if none of them would want you, then she wouuld be reluctant and lose interest as well. They all make joint decisions. Key points in your household were likely analyzed by her group.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol. I wasnt greek

That's what he's saying. They aren't going to care about you at all.

 

[Buzzman]

Nothing about the energy or anything else felt "funny"? You see with those soroties and fraternities it's "them" and everyone else is outsiders. Likely if there is a guy, it's someone from her past from the right frat. Also her sororitie sisters priority and viewpoints will override you, you are kind of a prop. A "Ken doll". If you got alot of game, the "Ken Doll" can have it pretty good. Especially if her sisters are jealous and want to fvck, if none of them would want you, then she wouuld be reluctant and lose interest as well. They all make joint decisions. Key points in your household were likely analyzed by her group.

Very true. I had no idea of the GDI...mentality. of its them vs everyone else.

She does talk to her sorority sisters and confides in them more than i couldve imagined...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Prob

Did she give you some of that kind of action?

 

[Spaz]

"Hey. Call me when you get this.. if you can. Jd is taking the boys to the movies at 3pm and wanted to see if were free to get together"

1st mistake.

Then 5 minutes later:
"Oops. I meant to send that to gabby and diana to get together "

2nd mistake, trying to cover up.

Then:
"And to think you were so rude not to invite me to the movies"

For making her less guilty, she blames you and now that she has done it, it's all your fault that she's gonna do something behind ur back.

Of course she's innocent of all charges, women's logic is simply amazing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Very true. I had no idea of the GDI...mentality. of its them vs everyone else.

She does talk to her sorority sisters and confides in them more than i couldve imagined...

Hell, one of them probably asked that she start fvcking you again... Be that "Ken Doll". Even in a more "cleaner" situation, this is what they've done to men. One of the main defences is to have a seriously high SMV where all her girls would fvck you in a second if they could.

 

[Buzzman]

Did she give you some of that kind of action?

Not really. Weve done it a few times

 

[HyenaPrince]

She does talk to her sorority sisters and confides in them more than i couldve imagined...

Damn. Just imagine what kind of crap they're putting into her head. Not that it would make a difference. But they're definitely encouraging her to go through with some dirty things she wouldn't have thought of by herself.

 

[Buzzman]

Damn. Just imagine what kind of crap they're putting into her head. Not that it would make a difference. But they're definitely encouraging her to go through with some dirty things she wouldn't have thought of by herself.

Oh im sure... they were some party girls...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not really. Weve done it a few times

As a treat. Cheaters are kinda crazy. They'll space out days between hubs and her side dude. She might even have you in different holes. Easier for them to compartmentalize.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Oh im sure... they were some party girls...

Group situations always dumb down the individual. The IQ decreases to a common value so nobody has to think for themselves. With women it's even worse. Because they're so insecure they literally go along with EVERYTHING the group decides.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

1st mistake.




2nd mistake, trying to cover up.



For making her less guilty, she blames you and now that she has done it, it's all your fault that she's gonna do something behind ur back.

Of course she's innocent of all charges, women's logic is simply amazing.

It is, they surely have a way to manage things to absolve themselves of any guilt and responsibility.

 

[Buzzman]

It is, they surely have a way to manage things to absolve themselves of any guilt and responsibility.

Oh yeh. I hear all the time..."this is all your fault... u did this"
No matter the fight. I remind her it takes 2 to fight... but shell say its all my fault...
She just doesn't care.
She does now... for the moment

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Oh yeh. I hear all the time..."this is all your fault... u did this"
No matter the fight. I remind her it takes 2 to fight... but shell say its all my fault...
She just doesn't care.
She does now... for the moment

In her sorority culture they build an ego ( narcissistic ) and manage it. So she'll lie more and be more self serving.

 

[Spaz]

Now that I've read most of the thread and ur replies herein, best you start preparing an exit strategy.

No man should endure what you are enduring.

Even if it means leaving ur kids, because ultimately even if you do stay on, the resentments will only build on over time, from you towards her, and her disrespect will continue to get from bad to worse.

And the worst part throughout, if you stay on, your OWN KIDS will disrespect you.

2nd time ever I'm asking someone here to get out of a marriage.

Find the prove 1st before anything, hire a private investigator.

 

[Buzzman]

You sure 100% its your offspring?

No. Not my 1st. He doeant resemble me. He actually has a few characteristics of her ex she left me at the bar for...

I kid u not.

Also. Somehow... she talked me into not naming my 1st after me at all. We went with a unique 1st name but ... the middle name is after her mothers maiden...

She rationalized it... i felt i was being cool...flexible.

But now... it pisses me off and makes me wonder her purpose in that...

 

[Buzzman]

In her sorority culture they build an ego ( narcissistic ) and manage it. So she'll lie more and be more self serving.

Yeh. She has made comments to me like... "next" when in an arguement... like whos next for her..

I looked at her like... wtf...

Im come to hear that next is a greek mentality...

Theres always more put there