Is sex really all that better?

[ElStud]

Just wondering man, is sex really all that better than your right hand? I'm asking because lately I haven't gotten much satisfaction out of jacking it. Infact, it's starting to get to the point where I'm asking myself, "If this is the reward? Is it really that great?". I mean sure dude, getting it up and everything is great, but after that, you just don't feel any satisfaction. It's a feeling like "I did all that... for this?". I'm just really wondering, is sex that much better than your right hand?

 

[Desdinova]

Moved to AE...

 

[backbreaker]

is driving a porsche better than controlling one on your playstation?

 

[backbreaker]

to answer your question, if you are just looking for a sperm deposit.. probably not.

however when I have sex, I like the little things that you can't get when just beating your meat up... the way she smells, the sweat, the way her legs wrap around you..head, can't beat that , the sounds she makes.. thoose are things you just can't get when you are beating it with the hand.

with that said, sex is extremely overated.

 

[wayword]

I've never tried the first, but from what I've heard in terms of sheer physical pleasure:

Fleshlight > puzzy > oral > hand

 

[djSlvt]

There is a lot more stimulation with sex, before, during, and after. You don't get that with your right hand, or the left one. That is provided you're totally compfortable with it. I mean with sex, getting a girl to bed, and then just being compfortable around her.


But you right, there is no woman out there that can do it better then I can to myself.

 

[mahon83050]

Just wondering man, is sex really all that better than your right hand? I'm asking because lately I haven't gotten much satisfaction out of jacking it. Infact, it's starting to get to the point where I'm asking myself, "If this is the reward? Is it really that great?". I mean sure dude, getting it up and everything is great, but after that, you just don't feel any satisfaction. It's a feeling like "I did all that... for this?". I'm just really wondering, is sex that much better than your right hand?

I think your hand is actually better. However, maybe it is because I have not had sex with someone super hot or whom I really liked. The last time I got laid (about 5 weeks ago) by a 41 year old woman, I remember thinking: Man, jacking it is so much better.

Sex seems overrated my friend.

 

[backbreaker]

once you get a hot woman in bed.. the hotness factor wears off.. i mean cute/hot are pretty much all in the same then. she's a naked woman, under/on top of you.... I'm not fvcking her legs or anything

 

[seanchai]

Sex is too much work, but I like everything that goes along with it: the bite marks, the wrestling, the screaming (for help)...

It's usually overrated, but when it's good it's better than anything you can do to yourself.

 

[Ll Principe]

Elstud: After reading your first few sentences I glanced to your profile and your AGE stuck out , 17. The way you described this thread suggested it was someone of this age. Hey, Dont take this the wrong way Im not saying thats a bad thing.

When I was 17/18 - (Im now 20) after being with MANY MANY girls I started thinking, *damn* I actually prefer touching her *boob* than receiving a ******* and all kinds of WEIRD things. Im not sure what your stats are currently but Im sure most young people 16/17/18 that have had many partners (doesnt have to be sex, kissing counts too you know) have come across the thoughts of DAMN, this isnt as GREAT as the media/public perceive it to be... Cos' Elstud; those thoughts have crossed my mind before.

Before I got laid it was so hyped up, one person in my grade had sex and it was like he had just won the lotto! Than, a few months later, I got a girlfriend, had sex with her and thought to Myself --- What's ALL this FUSS about sex for ---

Its like ANYTHING in life, Balance. Too much or Too Little of ANYTHING is bad, and therefore having MANY woman is UNBALANCED and therefore the thoughts crept up... but after a further year or 2 , leaving school, into college life... ALOT HAS CHANGED, The step you take from high school to college is a MAJOR MATURITY step in your life (Or so I found so). So , for you to think of this is not Uncommon @ all. However, I would suggest that Sex is better than your right hand mate; if you cant get more pleasure from having sex with a woman than maybe you should question if you gay or not?

BUT...

A ******* can be JUST AS stimulating as sex in my opinion. Infact I once Kissed a girl for hours and hours and I found that appealing. Did I orgazm from kissing? No.

Its all about what you WANT at the TIME, that is my voice on this subject. Sometimes I have this urge to lick a girl, and Id rather do that then have sex with her.

I think Im drifting from your question...:crackup: ... So...

"Is sex really all that better?"

Me: "It depends."

Sex is the HIGHEST level you can go on the charts. Its like is a Ferrari better than a Golf? Well if Golf is at level 3, the Ferrari is at level 5. To make you understand my comparison a Handjob is at level 3 and Sex is at level 5. To further comprehend for you...

Heck, a golf has its benefits (just like a handjob) but its not the ULTIMATE ride, some things arent there- a tiptronic gear box for instance...

AND SO..

The ferrari has most of the benefits! Do you understand what I am saying? However, CRASH the Ferrari and you will PAY out your pocket for the damages MORE than for the golf... So having sex , get the girl PREGNANT and you will PAY "out your pocket" for the "damages" MORE than for the handjob.

 

[sparky0000]

I think your hand is actually better. However, maybe it is because I have not had sex with someone super hot or whom I really liked. The last time I got laid (about 5 weeks ago) by a 41 year old woman, I remember thinking: Man, jacking it is so much better.

Sex seems overrated my friend.

Props to this dude for being honest. Sex is more of an emotional thing than a physical one. Even for males. Getting off is getting off. Doesn't matter if you do it with a stuffed animal or your dream girl. The mind is what can take it to another level. That is the reason I have major issues with what 99% of the "studs" in here are telling some of you.

If you are a virgin and simply want to have sex so that you are no longer a virgin you are an idiot. Seriously. Lie if it makes you feel better. Making a fool of yourself in order to get a chub is not what you deserve. Real life is not like the movies or music videos.

The Porsche comparison is lame. Few if any of you are getting Porsches. Especially if you are living in America. Most of you are getting Ford Pintos. Old ones that have been driven by 5 or 6 other dudes before you ever got behind the wheel. The odds of getting to drive a new "Porsche" in the USA is slim to none. You gotta go where "Porsches" are produced (I ain't talking about Germany ), and where they are really cheap. Think about that for a second.

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

Truthfully, and this might only be "me", but after having sex at 17, and now being near 27, condoms make it like jerking off, and my gf is hot, tight as hell, wet as hell, and freaky as hell. But if I'm going at it for awhile, and the condom is on awhile, its useless to me. I'm rock hard, no doubt. And Ill throw safe lube in and out of the condom, but NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING compares to CONDOMLESS sex. It's how it was meant to be. Obviously sex > than jerking it, but...truth be told, you're having sex with the condom, not your gf. Sure, you feel her tightness, and the wetness of her puss makes sticking it in fun, wet and slippery, but, in the end, its rubber, and the wetness is shielded from your prick.

It's no doubt better. It's incredible. But guys who fvck around that much, really are using women as fvck dolls, because the condom is still the same, it's only her tightness or lack thereof which alters that. If you get a particularly turned on or wet girl, then you may feel alot more than you normally do, but condoms matter, too.

Thankfull, I love my girl, and she loves sex, perhaps more than I do, so it's always good and I feel pleasure. But before her, when I was dating around and for shorter relationships, I'd realize without some feeling for the girl, I'd never finish. With condom on, emotional connection, a good feeling about the girl, and physical attraction are imperative. Without it, any chick with a wet puss can get a guy off. I'm not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing, it's just a thing.

This isn't an advertisement to go commando by any means, and there's alot of "initial" pleasure when you enter, but I find the desensitization condoms create is so great, I know why people throw them off after awhile and risk it. It's truly night and day. And you could say, condom-sex with a chick you don't like is < jerking off. Yeah, I'd buy that. At least you're not risking disease or pregnancy with someone you don't want. But, hey we all have different nuances with the women we date.


A-Unit

 

[backbreaker]

lol, few if anybody here is getting ass either...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

is driving a porsche better than controlling one on your playstation?

As if he could relate to that either....

 

[Master Bates]

The Porsche comparison is lame. Few if any of you are getting Porsches. Especially if you are living in America. Most of you are getting Ford Pintos. Old ones that have been driven by 5 or 6 other dudes before you ever got behind the wheel. The odds of getting to drive a new "Porsche" in the USA is slim to none. You gotta go where "Porsches" are produced (I ain't talking about Germany ), and where they are really cheap. Think about that for a second.

...highschools?

 

[backbreaker]

who said it had to be new? shoot you can get a 02 porsche with decent miles on it for under 20k

 

[Ll Principe]

backbreaker: You mean to say nobody on this forum are getting girls?

 

[backbreaker]

it was a joke, although alot of guys here seem to be more caught up with the theory of getting women moreso than actually getitng women, but that's for aonther day

 

[itishe]

No. It's probably one of the most overrated things you'll run into in life. It's better then beating off if the sex is good though. Nothing like a wet vag and the initial thrust.

 

[backbreaker]

nahh.. there are couple of things that are more overrated.. Clubs are overrated. Xbox is pretty overrated if you ask me.

baseball is pretty overrated.. But sex is up there. I'd take a good massage followed by a hummer anyday over sex