Is it wrong to steal girlfriends?

jt the azn

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If I implicitly seduce a girl, so that she feels attraction towards me, a.k.a. going under the radar, is it wrong to steal a girl from a guy?

Who's fault would it be if it escalates?
 

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Nope nothing wrong with it. Consider the fact that most women are in fact somebody's girlfriend. Most if not all attractive women are "taken." Therefore the only way to get an attractive women is to take her from her current (temporary) BF.
 

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Love is a game. If you can steal a girlfriend, you're making your way to becoming a master playa.
 

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if u know and are friends with the guy, then yes. If not, just assume he is doing wrong by not pleasing his girl properly and fill that void.

Also dont turn into a psycho if and when ur girls cheats on you. Its how the game goes sometimes
 

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In 20 years, neither you nor the guy you stole her from will care.
 

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Wrong or right is up to each person to decide for themselves.

A true DJ has many options to choose from so it only makes sense that a DJ would go for the most hassle/drama free option that being one of the many single chicks he knows.

Going after some chick thats in a marriage or LTR screams of being a bottom feeder who is scraping for anything he can get. Thats not DJ thats pathetic.

Plus if the idea is to secure a relationship with this chick guess what you are now involved with someone whose character is that of a cheater which makes the odds high that she will eventually cheat on you too if something she perceives as better comes along.

If a DJ is just in it for sex though wrong or right depends on how he will feel about himself in the morning.

Will he feel like a man or will he feel like a piece of sh!t that just did something he would never want to happen to him?

And hey if its the first answer then more power to that guy.

I couldn't look in the mirror the next morning after doing something like that and still feel like a man or a DJ.

I'd feel like bottom feeding scum that betrayed my own values.

So to close again it all depends on what you can live with.

Its an individual answer.
 

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F*ck her if you can.

"All's fair," y'know.

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I don't like stealing women just to do it.

I've been on the other side many times. It's painful to see the girl I'm interested in being seduced by someone else. Once I even had a guy break up a relationship I was in, that we were both happy in, by convincing her he wanted to date her. They slept together for a few weeks and he left her.

Overall, individual rules may vary, but I will only break a relationship up - or try to - if there are problems in the relationship, and I believe I can treat her better.

I don't ONS other guys' girlfriends.

I don't hit on married women either though, which I've been called conservative for. Whatever.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Wrong or right is up to each person to decide for themselves.

A true DJ has many options to choose from so it only makes sense that a DJ would go for the most hassle/drama free option that being one of the many single chicks he knows.

Going after some chick thats in a marriage or LTR screams of being a bottom feeder who is scraping for anything he can get. Thats not DJ thats pathetic.

Plus if the idea is to secure a relationship with this chick guess what you are now involved with someone whose character is that of a cheater which makes the odds high that she will eventually cheat on you too if something she perceives as better comes along.

If a DJ is just in it for sex though wrong or right depends on how he will feel about himself in the morning.

Will he feel like a man or will he feel like a piece of sh!t that just did something he would never want to happen to him?

And hey if its the first answer then more power to that guy.

I couldn't look in the mirror the next morning after doing something like that and still feel like a man or a DJ.

I'd feel like bottom feeding scum that betrayed my own values.

So to close again it all depends on what you can live with.

Its an individual answer.
we need more guys like you..

people these days just do what other people tell them to do or whatever other people say they should do..

imagine if they listen to you..

what better world will have!~
 

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vagrant said:
we need more guys like you..

people these days just do what other people tell them to do or whatever other people say they should do..

imagine if they listen to you..

what better world will have!~
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Kumbaya, everyone!!!

How about a "better world"?

Let's all make one.

HAHAHAHA!!!!!

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you cant steal girls from other dudes
the girls willingly come to you
the do it on their own will
 

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SayWord? said:
you cant steal girls from other dudes
the girls willingly come to you
the do it on their own will

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good point, dude
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Kev07 said:
Shut the fvck up.


And no, I wouldn't steal another guy's girlfriend, unless he's a douche.

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So, if he's a "douche," it's OK?


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Hey aliasguy I saw you and jophil kind of get into it in a thread a while back and while Joe and I agree on things I just want you to know I personally don't hate you for your mindset as I think you may of suggested those of us with opposing views hate guys like you for it.

Really its like I said in my post above its all about what a person can live with.

I'd hate myself if I lived your way as I'm sure you'd hate yourself if you lived my way.

I respect your views as you respected mine in that one thread and made it clear even if we don't share eachothers views.
 

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jt the azn said:
If I implicitly seduce a girl, so that she feels attraction towards me, a.k.a. going under the radar, is it wrong to steal a girl from a guy?

Who's fault would it be if it escalates?

imo, if they've already got something going on (serious) and they're both happy, I wouldnt want to mess that up, karma is a b!tch. But if it's a rocky relationship and the girl is obviously not happy, you got the green light man, just make sure her boyfriend isn't one of those psycho guys with the mentality along the lines of "if I cant have you, no one will" <-- Wouldn't want to p!ss someone off with a unstable fuse...
 

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KontrollerX said:
Hey aliasguy I saw you and jophil kind of get into it in a thread a while back and while Joe and I agree on things I just want you to know I personally don't hate you for your mindset as I think you may of suggested those of us with opposing views hate guys like you for it.

Really its like I said in my post above its all about what a person can live with.

I'd hate myself if I lived your way as I'm sure you'd hate yourself if you lived my way.

I respect your views as you respected mine in that one thread and made it clear even if we don't share eachothers views.
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Hey, dude, that was a really nice post. Thanks. No hard feelings, man.

Ditto. (Sorta.)

Mutual respect here, I like it.

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No it's not wrong.
Alls fair in love and war
just remember though, she will probably do the same thing to you.
Karma's a *****, but then again I always knew she was...
 

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Yep, all's fair in love and war.

For me if she's not married, and she's not a bro's girl, it's all good. When I hit on chicks and know they have a boyfriend, or even if they tell me they have a boyfriend, I still do it exactly the same as if they were single.
 

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It's only wrong if its a friend of yours. Otherwise its all good.
 
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