Is it worth dating a very attractive woman?

[DJ Novice]

Even hot girls get boring or tiresome. It just takes longer than unattractive girls. The most attractive girl is the one you haven’t yet slept with or spent lots of time with.
All girls have issues; it’s just that attractive girls get more of a leave pass.

 

[Travel memoir21]

You want a woman who can not only uplift you mentally, physically, and emotionally but spiritually as well.

You've got to be careful who you mess with these days because there's a lot succubus and Jezebels who will you drain you
Spiritually as a Man.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Dating? Depends.

Fvcking, absolutely.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Is it worth dating a very attractive woman?

What's the alternative? Dating unattractive women?

Questions like these spring from high insecurity. "Is she too attractive compared to me?" "Guys giving her a lot of attention, what if she decide to leave me for one of them?" "Will she realise I'm not that attractive and leave me for someone else?"

Well, I think I'm worthy of dating women I consider attractive. I only date women who crave my company. None of that lukewarm 'I like you'-women for me. If they're not into me, I'm not into them.

And nobody is like me, so the only person I compare myself to is my Past Self. And only to improve my Future Self.

I date some very attractive women without ever wondering if I 'measure up' to them. I'm a man, I cannot compare my appearance to a woman whose job it is to look beautiful. She considers me attractive, even when she is surrounded by aesthetically more pleasing men, so that means I'm more attractive (to her).

Even though I never initiate conversations around beauty and attraction with them, they are not shy to tell me why they are attracted. Because I'm not blinded by aesthetics and care about them with all their flaws. We all like to be seen, and they even made a profession about being seen, but we're rarely truly intimately seen. Seen for who we really are. And to be accepted.

 

[TheGambino]

Its worth it if you got the recourses. Though you better pass all her sh1t tests or she’ll pass you.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Though you better pass all her sh1t tests or she’ll pass you.

Don't fear the congruence tests.
If you don't pass them, you're not authentic, and you need to strife towards authenticity and integrity.
If you're authentic and moving from integrity, you won't 'fail' any test.

 

[TheGambino]

Don't fear the congruence tests.
If you don't pass them, you're not authentic, and you need to strife towards authenticity and integrity.
If you're authentic and moving from integrity, you won't 'fail' any test.

You can make mistakes if she makes you jealous for example.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

You can make mistakes if she makes you jealous for example.

Men have emotional self control.
Jealousy is infantile behaviour.

 

[TheGambino]

Men have emotional self control.
Jealousy is infantile behaviour.

I don’t become jealous anymore, I know game too well and I know women behavior to know how to deal with that kind of situations and why she does it so I stand above that. I just give an example

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I don’t become jealous anymore, I know game too well and I know women behavior to know how to deal with that kind of situations and why she does it so I stand above that. I just give an example

And I'm just stating an opinion. Nothing to do with you, so you don't have to get defensive.

 

[jhonny9546]

This question makes me think about why there are women who maintain relationships with men who obviously have no options. These men do not pursue social circles or other relationships with people; they just focus on family.

This is something we discuss frequently, as a high-value man has options (mainly because he shows them, allowing him to apply dread).

I wonder if it could be related to societal and traditional pressures that keep these women in their relationships.

This is also true for attractive women, not just unattractive ones.

 

[TheGambino]

I get rejected on a regular basis, when it happens it's because I'm just not her type, she is in a relationship or for whatever reasons I can't control, but I never get sh1t tests.

@AmsterdamAssassin is right, you get sh1t tests when you're phony or when you try to impress.

Then you obviously never dealt with a very pretty woman. Beautiful dimes **** test all the time to weed out the phony’s like you say

 

[Jor-El]

Sure. Just know that she is never yours. In my dating experience... the hotter the chick, the worst she is in bed.

There is some truth in this,sometimes,when they are smokin hot,they think that they are so great they can just lie there and you should be happy,nay! grateful,just to have merely climbed on her

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Then you obviously never dealt with a very pretty woman. Beautiful dimes **** test all the time to weed out the phony’s like you say

No, that's not why they test you, and it shows how you obviously never been able to make a woman feel safe and excited at the same time. Which is also why you trip so many of their red flags and why you're still pining after exes as if they're prey that escaped.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

There is some truth in this,sometimes,when they are smokin hot,they think that they are so great they can just lie there and you should be happy,nay! grateful,just to have merely climbed on her

Not really, except when you behave like a worshipper in their presence. Remain unimpressed and that attitude fades away and the real woman comes out.