Is it really worth it to go after hot chicks?

[skinnyguy]

Like many of you, I am guilty for going after women who are better looking than I am. This has led me to a very dark place in life, filled with self-hate. I have recovered from the most part, but I can see how this vicious cycle can kill a guy's confidence. If you go for these girls you're just setting yourself up for failure and will at some point end up on SOS.

I've come up with a list of reasons not to go after hotties:

1. Facebook attention wh0ring
2. They will drain your bank account
3. Always on their iPhone, not paying attention to you
4. They'll cheat on you with someone better looking
5. High maintenance/drama
6. Can't talk about any topic other than clothes and shoes
7. Taking selfies and posting them on instagram for her beta orbiters
8. you'll get tired of fvcking them at some point

Most of us on here spend tons of energy and money going after these broads, but for many of us it is just sending us further down. We are mesmerized by their looks but eventually they either take advantage of it or reject us for a dbag with tattoos.

What do you think? Is there an alternative to going after the ones you find physically attractive but have no personality?

I know that if you try to stop, you'll end up going after them at some point because we think with our ****s. But, there must be some kind of solution as it's really destroying a lot of decent guys.

 

[LandingWood]

You're putting them on a pedastal. Once you see they're just regular hoes with above average looks it's really not that big of a deal. You're listing traits of all women. Sounds like you're just insecure and need to work on inner game. You're probably approaching these chicks like theyre hot when you need to treat them like they're children.

 

[skinnyguy]

You're putting them on a pedastal. Once you see they're just regular hoes with above average looks it's really not that big of a deal. You're listing traits of all women. Sounds like you're just insecure and need to work on inner game. You're probably approaching these chicks like theyre hot when you need to treat them like they're children.

Maybe I was putting them on a pedestal. But even if you approach them like they're ugly, they still won't give you the time of day if you're not good looking. What I'm finding is that the non-good looking guys are going after them and it's setting them up for failure. Having high standards for looks while not being attractive yourself is a recipe for disaster. Wouldn't you agree?

 

[LandingWood]

No. It's all about attitude. More attractive women are more keen to fakes. Your confidence and demeanor has to be real and dominant. That's why ugly guys don't have success.. not because they're ugly.. buy because they don't have real confidence when approaching.

 

[skinnyguy]

No. It's all about attitude. More attractive women are more keen to fakes. Your confidence and demeanor has to be real and dominant. That's why ugly guys don't have success.. not because they're ugly.. buy because they don't have real confidence when approaching.

Personally, I think it's extremely difficult to be ugly and confident/alpha. I mean your personality is shaped by your environment. The hotties are so confident because they are getting so many likes on Facebook, getting hit on at the club, etc. If a guy doesn't get any kind of attention like that how in the world would he be confident? If he did try to act confident he'd surely be a fake. I don't see how an ugly guy could ever be as confident as Channing Tatum.

 

[LeonSK]

To me. Yes. Life is too short. Not gonna settle for less. Plus I have dated hot girls.

1. Facebook attention wh0ring
Don't give a damn.

2. They will drain your bank account
That's why you need to make a lot of money. You need deep pocket of course!

3. Always on their iPhone, not paying attention to you
Will change once you capture her heart.

4. They'll cheat on you with someone better looking
Then I go for better ones than her. First of all, if girls fall for me just because of my physical appearance, I won't make her my gf. She has to like everything of me.

5. High maintenance/drama
Once she falls for you, this will end.

6. Can't talk about any topic other than clothes and shoes
Find hot girls that can.

7. Taking selfies and posting them on instagram for her beta orbiters
I don't give a damn.

8. you'll get tired of fvcking them at some point
Be creative. Unless you are married, you can always change gf. More importantly, i'd rather get tired of fxxxing a hot chick than average ones.

 

[adam225]

It's all about how tight your game is and how you can make her feel. She needs to know from the very start that you're not the average idiot that she'll walk all over and that you have other options as well as her (that are better looking - make it up if needed). She needs to know that if she chooses to play stupid little mind games then it's her ego that's going to be hurt - not yours. You MUST stand out against all the other desperate idiots out there. You MUST not excuse any of her SH1T just because of her looks. You MUST be prepared to dump her if needed....

If you're a true DJ all this will come without thinking. You'll be able to put yourself into a position where it's her chasing you (like it suppose to be).

The bottom line --- You just need to know how to work the mind of the female. :crazy:

 

[CrimsonPanther]

To me. Yes. Life is too short. Not gonna settle for less. Plus I have dated hot girls.

1. Facebook attention wh0ring
Don't give a damn.

you better give if you want LTR. their profile says a lot about them. for pump n dump, not really.

2. They will drain your bank account
That's why you need to make a lot of money. You need deep pocket of course!

lol? you need to make lots of money to spend it on hoes? really?
i make a good amount of money, but i would never spend them on facebook queens. or women in general. to me it seems like throwing them away for nothing. spend it on yourself, get better car, fine clothes etc, and these broads will cling onto you hoping they get something. but the only thing they get is a wiener in their holes. coz that is their worth. god knows i am not a woman hater, but this type of females aren't worth that much.
if you spend a lot on these, you are better off paying for an A list escort. you will get better treatment for less money.

for me, 8+ women are pump and dump materials. the competition is just too damn high, i don't need the stress/drama, they are overly self entitled, their head is empty, and will never make for a good wife. of course if i ever meet someone different, i will resent. but for now the only guys saying they have met the angels on earth, are delusional afc's building the pedestals for hoes.

3. Always on their iPhone, not paying attention to you
Will change once you capture her heart.

capture their heart? only girls say things like these. you don't wanna capture hearts, you wanna bang possies. THE GIRLS should want to capture hearts, or cardiologists on meth.


4. They'll cheat on you with someone better looking
Then I go for better ones than her. First of all, if girls fall for me just because of my physical appearance, I won't make her my gf. She has to like everything of me.

so how do you know? they sure as hell won't tell you. the only one who likes everything about you is your mother.

5. High maintenance/drama
Once she falls for you, this will end.


it will never end. she "falls for you"? women fall for people and fall out of people in matter of seconds. especially if they think they have choices.

6. Can't talk about any topic other than clothes and shoes
Find hot girls that can.

good luck with that.

7. Taking selfies and posting them on instagram for her beta orbiters
I don't give a damn.

same as facebook

8. you'll get tired of fvcking them at some point
Be creative. Unless you are married, you can always change gf. More importantly, i'd rather get tired of fxxxing a hot chick than average ones.


it's the same really. makes no difference. you get tired, you get tired. i am not saying not to pursue better looking females, just don't think they are something more. they are not. and in most cases they are less.

answers in bold btw how old are you?

 

[Vantagepoint34]

I'll personally tell you there is no better feeling than going out with the Kate upton's and Cameron Diaz's of the world

 

[DarkDetective50]

To me. Yes. Life is too short. Not gonna settle for less. Plus I have dated hot girls.

1. Facebook attention wh0ring
Don't give a damn.

2. They will drain your bank account
That's why you need to make a lot of money. You need deep pocket of course!

3. Always on their iPhone, not paying attention to you
Will change once you capture her heart.

4. They'll cheat on you with someone better looking
Then I go for better ones than her. First of all, if girls fall for me just because of my physical appearance, I won't make her my gf. She has to like everything of me.

5. High maintenance/drama
Once she falls for you, this will end.

6. Can't talk about any topic other than clothes and shoes
Find hot girls that can.

7. Taking selfies and posting them on instagram for her beta orbiters
I don't give a damn.

8. you'll get tired of fvcking them at some point
Be creative. Unless you are married, you can always change gf. More importantly, i'd rather get tired of fxxxing a hot chick than average ones.

To say this in a few words, you are a damned fool.

 

[DarkDetective50]

I'll personally tell you there is no better feeling than going out with the Kate upton's and Cameron Diaz's of the world

Basing your happiness on the woman you are going out with. Fail number one.

 

[iamnobody]

There's nothing like cvmming inside a HB, except maybe having a threesome with 2 HBs. Life's too short for ugos.

 

[Solomon]

In this thread OP cries about lack of success with women and wants us to agree that it's ok to be gay

No thanks Jeff!

 

[Cremasta]

I've come up with a list of reasons not to go after hotties:

1. Facebook attention wh0ring
2. They will drain your bank account
3. Always on their iPhone, not paying attention to you
4. They'll cheat on you with someone better looking
5. High maintenance/drama
6. Can't talk about any topic other than clothes and shoes
7. Taking selfies and posting them on instagram for her beta orbiters
8. you'll get tired of fvcking them at some point

Nothing like a bit of negative thinking to make life the fantastic experience it could be.

How about you make up a list of reasons why you SHOULD go after hotties and then make your choice.

Here's a start:

1. Awesome bragging rights with your mates.
2. Ugly chicks seem to have the same sense of entitlement and bad habits as the hot ones, so you may as well go for the hotties.

 

[_sideways_]

^ definately make a reason why and I bet ur list is shorter than the dudes who get hotties

 

[Robert28]

Wtf is "confidence" when it comes to dating/girls/etc? The he!! does that even mean...."you gotta have confidence!". You mean like the same confidence I had passing my exams in college and earning my degree? The same confidence I had walking onto the football team in college and knowing I'd make the team and be a starter eventually? What kind of confidence are we talking about? You mean talking to a girl who's a total stranger in a spur of the moment? Fvck I do that ALL the time. Doesn't phase me a bit. Did it last night while Christmas shopping. Talked to her for a good 10 mins while acting like I was shopping for towels. Didn't ask for my number though because she mentioned she had a boyfriend. They all have boyfriends, the one's that will talk to you anyways.lol I didn't ask, she just brought it up. I've learned how to ask them leading questions to get them to spill the info I want to know before I ask for their number. It's not really a confidence thing, it's become a wtf is the point type of thing.

 

[JoeMarron]

If youre just trying to bang then sure go ahead. It always amuses me however when some average ass dude tries to be monogamous with a hot chick and is then surprised when it blows up in his face. If you want to date a chick who's more attractive than 90% of the population then you need to be more awesome than 90% of men, simple as that. Even then many hot chicks are so fvcked in the head that they arent even worth monogamy. Most dudes would be better off settling for a cute 5/6 than a hot 8/9 who turns heads wherever she goes. Use hot chicks as nothing more than masturbation sleeves unless they're virgin mormons and young with no dating history.

 

[Mr Wright]

Yes, it is. Not all hot girls are like that, the ones who arent probably want nothing to do with you because you treat them as if they are exactly like they are in your list.

 

[Maximus Rex]

What Kind of Beta A$$ Backwards Logic is This?

Like many of you, I am guilty for going after women who are better looking than I am.

First of all, you need to be shame of yourself of not only taking the valuable time out of your life to write this bullsh*t, but also for conceiving it. Don't have enough to worry about with c*ck blocking friends, AMOGS, betas, and other playa hatas, but yourself over here hatin' on your OWN SELF? What kind of bullsh*t is that. I don't know about you dude, but I didn't spend hours out of my life reading, studying, practicing, dealing with how to conquer approach anxiety to only to gain the proficiency to get out 6's or less, or weak, ugly, fat, or chicks who don't have sh*t going for themselves.

If you go for these girls you're just setting yourself up for failure and will at some point end up on SOS.

I've come up with a list of reasons not to go after hotties:

1. Facebook attention wh0ring

What chick on FB isn't attention wh*ring?

This chick is far from a 10, but I guess that she wasn't attention wh*ring?

http://www.tariqradio.com/uploads/2/4/4/7/24470289/177552.jpg?392

2. They will drain your bank account

Why are you trickin' off your money. Listen dude, this trait isn't unique to hot chicks, but women across the board. If you put it about there that you're about some trickin' sh*t, then you're going to be treated like a trick.

3. Always on their iPhone, not paying attention to you

Why aren't you checkin' that b*tch?

4. They'll cheat on you with someone better looking

Get in shape, add 20 lbs of muscle to your frame, eat foods packed with protein, and tighten up your game.

5. High maintenance/drama

See Rex's answer to #3.

6. Can't talk about any topic other than clothes and shoes

Upgrade that b*tch, you change the spots where hollerin at chicks to find better quality hoes.

7. Taking selfies and posting them on instagram for her beta orbiters

See Rex's answer for #3

8. you'll get tired of fvcking them at some point

Really, teach her to be the f*ck that you want her to be or keep those plates spending.

Most of us on here spend tons of energy and money going after these broads, but for many of us it is just sending us further down. We are mesmerized by their looks but eventually they either take advantage of it or reject us for a dbag with tattoos.

Rephrase that, YOU did all of that dumb sh*t. When I was f*cked in the game, I get that sh*t to a minimal, but it seems you keep making the same dumb a$$ mistakes.

What do you think? Is there an alternative to going after the ones you find physically attractive but have no personality?

I know that if you try to stop, you'll end up going after them at some point because we think with our ****s. But, there must be some kind of solution as it's really destroying a lot of decent guys.

I think that you're spending entirely too much time pondering things that don't f*cking matter. The issue isn't with the chicks, my dude. The issue is with YOU and the INSECURITIES that YOU'RE PROJECTING AND NOT DEALING WITH.

As a man it's up to you convey to these broads the man that you are and it's up to you to tell them how you expect them to conduct themselves. If their not on "skinnyguy's program," f*ck'em go find youself a mo' betta b*tch.

 

[skinnyguy]

Judging from some of these answers…it seems like you have to go through a lot of hoops to put up with these girls. I feel like a guy would have to really have low self respect to put up with these bishes. Like you're willing to deal with all this crap just because she's hot?

I think the healthiest relationship is when there is respect from both parties. If you want to fvck her because you hate women and want to just have a quick orgasm, that's just unhealthy in my opinion. You'll end up a bitter 40 year old man some day.

If it's all for a pump and dump…then I guess it is up to the person if they want to invest that much effort and time. Personally a pump and dump does nothing for me.