Is it possible to steal a girl from another guy??

[Mr_Pink]

This is something I've been debating on wether or not I could pull it off. I've recently met this really cool girl, and want to ask her out sometime to try to get to know her better. Problem is, she's got a bf. But, I'm sure a true DJ could pull her away from this guy. Any suggestions??

-Mr. Pink

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Bro, I've seen a guy take a professional Nascar racer's wife. It started out as them being "workout partners" and that moved to "mountain biking partners" and so on. It's easy to take the girlfriend away, if she's not into her man. However, just remember that what goes around comes around.

 

[chlywly]

Very possible, happens very often too

 

[Mr_Pink]

I'm thinking it wouldn't be too hard either. Both times I've hung out with her, she was without her guy. First time she actually came with a friend of mine (guy) to dinner with a bunch of us, so he obviously doesn't keep her on a short leash or anything like that. Second time was at a party, and he wasn't there either.

So, if it is possible, how would you suggest I go about this??

- Mr. Pink

 

[xblitz44x]

It really doesn't have as much to do with the guy's "skill" as it does with the woman's current feelings for a guy. If you catch a girl, in the right situation, you may be able to BE THERE when she decides she is going to stray from her boyfriend. A lot of guys make it seem like they are the man, and that it was THEM that compelled and turned the girl on SO much that she had NO CHOICE but to embrace her primal desires. HORSESHYT.

It will only happen when a chick has already lost enough feeling that she see's being with you as more of a payoff than she is in during her current situation.

-Blitz

 

[studmuffin15]

yea, it can definitely be done. something to consider though.....this chick may be a good girl, who is genuinely bored with her present guy <OR> she may just be easy in general, and just as easy it would be for you to take her away, she can be taken away from you by some other guy. just something to keep in mind when debating the quality of a girl.

 

[MickeyOneil]

I actually got this quote from a DJ Forum post, and I've used it time and time again in my own life....

Women are like monkeys.....they need to grab the next branch before they let go of the one their hanging on to.

 

[JohnJones]

I like blitz's comment (that it isn't up to the skill of the stealer). Otherwise, since my g/f traded her live-in boyfriend for me, all I have to do is keep her on her toes and feeling.

 

[becker]

Here's my specialty, heh heh. Actually, it's just my favorite topic.

I never think a girl can't be taken away from her BF. If there's a 0.01% chance, I'll take it. The reason is that if you let something like this hold you back, you miss out on like 99% of the good women out there who are 9s or 10s. Sure, there are like single 6s or 7s out there, but I'm not willing to settle for that, and the 9s and 10s always have BFs.

The only thing is, and I'll say this for the 1000th time here, don't get involved with her until she has broken it off with the BF. To get her to want to break up with him, you have to be the bigger better deal, and she has to see that. I don't think there's any other way to pull it off.

I recently almost got this one girl to go with me, but she was too insecure to let go of her ugly BF who she was seeing for 4 years. Women are always looking for security, so getting them away from a relationship must depend on whether you offer that to them more than their current BF is.

 

[uniassign]

I don't know why people put chicks with BF in a special category. IME PUing them is not anything out of the ordinary. Chicks with BF are still chicks, they have needs and desires and feelings.

When you are good at attracting chicks in general, stealing another man's GF is the same. Just make her ATTRACTED to you.

 

[k_hectic]

Run a "Boyfriend Destroyer" pattern on her.

p.s. of course it is in the hand of the guy, regardless of the feelings of the girl.

 

[Frank Zappa]

Fvck that sh!t... I only steal girls if I don't like the guy. If I don't know him or am friends with him, why... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and on top of that, if you steal a girl and she cheats on her bf with you you'd better not be looking for more than a fvck because how could you ever trust this woman. Like it was said earlier what goes around comes around... And believe me, women don't change, it's happened to me... ~Zappa

 

[squirrels]

Yes, but your game HAS to be stronger than his. And I mean a good margin stronger. Even if you're SLIGHTLY better, she'll probably stay with him because of the trauma and social ridicule that comes with cheating or breaking up.

You need to trump him, to the point where "she can't help herself."

Is it worth it?

 

[k_hectic]

Daaaaaaaaaah, of course if she cheated on him, she will cheat on you too, but who cares? It's not like we would want such a girl for a commited relationship.

 

[BGMan]

Is it possible to "steal" a girl from another guy?

Yes.

Y'all must realize that there are several different kinds of BFs.

First, there's the proto-fiance, the guy she's seriously hoping will ask her to marry him. In this case, you stand very little chance with her -- unless he suddenly starts acting super AFC.

Second, there's the has-been. This is a guy that she was once interested in, but not anymore, and she is willing to see other guys, although she'll often have guilt feelings about "cheating" on the BF.

Third, the unwanted-suitor-repellent. In her mind this guy is nothing more than a friend, but useful since this guy acts like an AFC and constantly shows his affection toward her. She refers to him to keep off unwanted guys. The WANTED guy, however, doesn't know he exists, unless a third party tells him.

Also, don't assume that a girl -- especially a hot girl -- doesn't have a "BF" of one of these types just because she's dating you.

BGMan

 

[becker]

This one girl at my work who is so ridiculously hot I never get to see, so I can't really talk to her enough to ask if she has a BF. She's so hot that it will be a huge surprise if she doesn't.

Anyways, I'm sure she has guys hitting on her, but she's been very good with me (good eye contact when I see her, etc.). I'll have to play it pretty cool to stand out.

 

[katoom]

theres always a chance you can take her away. But man, thats ****in low. I have no respect for guys like you. Theres a million other single girls out there, why **** up a relationship.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Mr. Pink:

LOL, this is too funny, I'm in the EXACT same situation as you!! I've made more progress than you. I invited this HOOTER's girl (HB8) to a costume date party and she had told me a few days earlier that you had a b/f. She then said, "not to worry because its an open relationship." LOL She was all over me the whole night and I hooked it up with her She also told me she doesn't hook up with "random guys" so that might have been a indirect indication of my DJ skills working on her. I'm taking her to my fraternity formal next month in San Diego, should be fun. However she is a SUPER COOL chick and I really do want to get to know her better.


So I'm proof that it can happen as far as hooking up is concerned. We'll see how far I get and keep me posted on your situation.

"Boyfriend Destroyer???" I'll have to look that up, unless someone wants to explain that???


PIMP

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

Why does this conversation always come up on this board?

If so many of you claim to be DJs, why do you have to work to steal some gf from another guy?

Either the girl doesn't like you and claims she has a bf or you know the girl enough to know she has a bf.

Either way, why are you spending so much energy just for a one or two night stand.

I mean geez, what is a DJ to you?

It seems most of you so called "DJs" are so desperate to get laid, you need to steal away a girl who has a bf.

As others have said, what goes around, comes around.

and the real situation is, if a girl wants to cheat, she'll cheat. It has nothing to do with the guy most of the time.

But as i've stated over and over again, you better be ready to to face the consequences.

Not all guys take getting cheating on kindly.

and watch the news, guys get killed all the time because they slept with some other dudes girl.

Just remember, you do the crime, you have to face the time.

Word spreads easily, remember that.

Why waste so much energy on sombody elses *****!

 

[WillieSacks]

Whatever xblitz44x said is right on the money. Dude you give some sound advice.

If you were to catch the girl at the right time, you can pull it off. Or if she's a slut and is very attracted to you, you can pull it off.

I've done it myself a few times, each time I didn't know until afterwards that the girl had a man and each time (well maybe a couple of times I knew but from what I understood, she was breaking up with the guy anyway), the girl was going through some rough time or just got into some 'huge fight' with their b/f, not to mention that the girls age range was from 17-19 and young girls don't know what they want anyway, they just want to have fun for the most part.