Is it possible to steal a girl from another guy??

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Originally posted by WillieSacks
I've done it myself a few times, each time I didn't know until afterwards that the girl had a man and each time (well maybe a couple of times I knew but from what I understood, she was breaking up with the guy anyway), the girl was going through some rough time or just got into some 'huge fight' with their b/f, not to mention that the girls age range was from 17-19 and young girls don't know what they want anyway, they just want to have fun for the most part.
Doc Love says that when a girl fights with her BF the relationship is usually about to end. So what happened in your case is in no way surprising.

Originally posted by elvis aint dead yet
Why does this conversation always come up on this board?

If so many of you claim to be DJs, why do you have to work to steal some gf from another guy?

Either the girl doesn't like you and claims she has a bf or you know the girl enough to know she has a bf.

Either way, why are you spending so much energy just for a one or two night stand.

I mean geez, what is a DJ to you?

It seems most of you so called "DJs" are so desperate to get laid, you need to steal away a girl who has a bf.

As others have said, what goes around, comes around.

and the real situation is, if a girl wants to cheat, she'll cheat. It has nothing to do with the guy most of the time.

But as i've stated over and over again, you better be ready to to face the consequences.

Not all guys take getting cheating on kindly.

and watch the news, guys get killed all the time because they slept with some other dudes girl.

Just remember, you do the crime, you have to face the time.

Word spreads easily, remember that.

Why waste so much energy on sombody elses *****!
In no way am I "desperate to get laid". I know that for a fact. ;)

I agree that it's better to go after single chicks, but you must realize that a lot of "single" chicks who go out with you still have a guy who's considered their BF.

If the girl and her BF are obviously close, then trying something would be stupid, futile, and perhaps dangerous. But if you never see her together with her BF, she never even mentions him, or if so, just as a "friend", and she is showing obvious interest and continues or augments this behavior over time, then you can be sure that in her mind, her heart is simply not with her BF.

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Elvis, first of all, I don't claim to be a DJ. And secondly, I don't necesarily want to be a DJ. All the "DJ's" on this board seem to be intrested in is getting ass. I'm more about trying to get a date with a girl I'm intrested in, not just getting a date to get a date. I just think that this girl is really f'n cool, and never see her with her bf, so curiousity is getting to me. And finally, Elivis IS dead. Get over it.

Anyways, further adding to the strangeness of our similar situations pimpsicle, I invited this girl to a costume Halloween party I'm having. Freaky, isn't it??

I also invited a bunch of other girls I'm intrested in to this shin-dig, so I'll see how that goes.
 

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Originally posted by elvis aint dead yet
Why does this conversation always come up on this board?

If so many of you claim to be DJs, why do you have to work to steal some gf from another guy?

Either the girl doesn't like you and claims she has a bf or you know the girl enough to know she has a bf.

Either way, why are you spending so much energy just for a one or two night stand.

I mean geez, what is a DJ to you?

It seems most of you so called "DJs" are so desperate to get laid, you need to steal away a girl who has a bf.

As others have said, what goes around, comes around.

and the real situation is, if a girl wants to cheat, she'll cheat. It has nothing to do with the guy most of the time.

But as i've stated over and over again, you better be ready to to face the consequences.

Not all guys take getting cheating on kindly.

and watch the news, guys get killed all the time because they slept with some other dudes girl.

Just remember, you do the crime, you have to face the time.

Word spreads easily, remember that.

Why waste so much energy on sombody elses *****!
Dood your such a tool!! If you had any substance behind what you were talking about, I'd give you some credit, but surprise, surprise you DON'T!! I'm not desperate to get laid, I've got plenty of other options. It just that just like women, most guys like a challenge. By "challenge" I'm not saying I'm going out there looking to break up couples. No, by challenge I mean, a girl who doesn't wear her feelings on her sleeve and tell's me how much she likes me after a couple of weeks. Like I said, I've got other options, so all my focus is not with her, but it would be nice to get her too...:D
 

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wow, internet tough guys.


it's also called you have very little real world experience then.

People in relationships who are out of high school and college get into arguments all the time.

It's the opposite which is usually why people break up. If you stop disagreeing or arguing, it usually means one or both of you don't care.

Yes, there might be a thing called too much fighting, but in reality, human beings disagree and argue all the time. It's natural.
Cause you see a couple arguing or fighting, you assume they must be breaking up.

Obviously you have not been in the real world long enough.

And it does seem so desperate to get laid, cause if, as you say, you have all these other chics waiting for you, WHY ARE YOU COMING ON THIS SITE and ASKING IF YOU SHOULD BANG THIS CHIC?


Again, if you don't know the girl, and just met her, how do you even know she really has a bf, unless she just told you so you'd leave.

Otherwise, you know the girl, you know the guy, and your just asking for trouble.
 

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Where the hell did I say I wanted to bang her?? Could you quote that for me?? And I do that she does have a bf since some of my friends are friends with the guy.

God, what a chachbag...
 

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Mr. Pink, the internet tough guy, wow, that takes some talent.


So you say your friends know the boyfriend of this girl you want to "date",


either your still in high school or are a college kid and it doesn't really matter, and i would say, hell go for it.


But if your out of college and in the real world, why would you waste your time on some chic who has a boyfriend that i'm sure you do know. If you friends know him, i'm sure you've at least met him a few times.

Hey do whatever you want, but unless you come from puzzy world, this is nothing more then a bad situation waiting to happen.

If the girl is really into her bf, and you and your friends and her share similar cirlces, how is that not going to get back to him?

Guys like you always make me laugh. You never really care about anything, but as soon as **** happens, like you get beat up or worse, then you go sue.

Stop wasting time on some chic that you claim is cool, if she hasn't dumped her bf for you, why the hell would you be wasting your time on her?

Seems to me, your sweating some other dudes gf a little too much.

Hey either way, i don't really give a crap. Do whatever makes you happy.

All i'm saying is, if you KNOW THE GIRL and you sort of know THE GUY she's dating and seeing, you are only asking for trouble.

Is persuing some chic like this really worth it?

I've seen too many people, male and female, get their azzes kicked and i've seen too many people, male and female, have worse things happen to them because they went and messed with somebody elses lover.

Do yourself a favor, if he is really serious about her, you better make sure she dumps him before you do anything.
 
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