Is it ok for a 17 year old to have sex with a 14/15 year old

[King Of Nowhere]

Ok so im a junior in high school and I started talking to some of the new sophomores at school(my high school only goes from 10th grade to 12). Is it morally wrong for a 17 year old to date/and or get with a 15 year old. Also, i read this article and im scared af http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Stossel/story?id=4444516&page=1

 

[SlapJackPat]

I wouldnt take that chance man...
Idk... Seems risky..

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I'd do it if I was 17.. That's just me though lol. 22 now and there is no way in hell I would.

 

[King Of Nowhere]

Ok I did some more research about age of consent laws in Indiana( Im paranoid I know). I read the law and it says that sex between peoples ages 14-18 is legal under a romeo and Juliet law passed in 2007. But now I want to know if its morally wrong.

 

[f283000]

Girls now a days hit puberty so fast these high schoolers look like full bodied women.

Me personally I always had a thing for older women. A hot girl in high school is nothing when you take a trip to your local college. It's like a world of difference seeing real women with a full set of boobs and ass vs your little high schoolers you see everyday. First time I stepped into my local university it felt like a whole new world of women.

 

[Scars]

They're both underage so I'd say yeah. If it's not the 17 year old then it's just going to be someone else, probably a guy who is even more older. Believe it or not most 14-15 year olds are losing their virginity around that time, and the age is only getting younger and younger.

Not gonna lie, I was still sleeping with underaged girls until I was about 20. That's when I realized, wow, I can get in an extreme amount of trouble for this. So 18+ or GTFO. Nowadays my only lays come from the club anyway, so I've been sleeping with older woman. No worries.

-Scars

 

[CuriousGirl]

Although you're probably at the same maturity level, when you're just a bit older you'll look back and think **** that's too young. I don't think you should go there. I've been that 14/15 yr old girl, I could have passed for an 18 yr old but I was no way as mature enough as I thought I was. And when I look back now I think phew, that was a close call, and I'm glad I didn't. Every girl I know who had sex younger than 16 regrets it, so don't do it for her sake really. (Obviously there are some who do it at an older age and regret it but that's irrelevant.)

I'd also mention it really doesn't do good for your rep around girls your own age and older. It's kind of seen as a more desperate attempt because having been those girls before, we know that it's much easier for guys to wow and bed a 14-16 yr old when they've got a few years on them. The guys in one of my social circles who have started dating the younger girls are only pulling the younger girls now.

 

[Kirro]

Although you're probably at the same maturity level, when you're just a bit older you'll look back and think **** that's too young. I don't think you should go there. I've been that 14/15 yr old girl, I could have passed for an 18 yr old but I was no way as mature enough as I thought I was. And when I look back now I think phew, that was a close call, and I'm glad I didn't. Every girl I know who had sex younger than 16 regrets it, so don't do it for her sake really. (Obviously there are some who do it at an older age and regret it but that's irrelevant.)

I'd also mention it really doesn't do good for your rep around girls your own age and older. It's kind of seen as a more desperate attempt because having been those girls before, we know that it's much easier for guys to wow and bed a 14-16 yr old when they've got a few years on them. The guys in one of my social circles who have started dating the younger girls are only pulling the younger girls now.

No.

 

[EvilAgenda]

Morally wrong? No. In the old days, a boy became a man at 13 years old. And girls got married and pregnant at 13 all the time.

My dad raised me on the rule: "if you can support the children you might make, then you can have sex."

Check your state's law. In my state, underage consensual sex is OK when the age difference is 2 years or less.

Always practice safe sex.

 

[Ease]

17 - 15 is fine.

The age gap rule of 2 years should be observed untill you are 19-20.

As far as the law goes.. that hasnt stopped anyone before..

 

[lildevil]

lol i can just imagine it right now a 15 year old pregnant.....and the dad without a job to support their child....make sure you do it with a condom..i have done it without a condom and almost paid.....just know it and notice it your ok your not 18 yet so what the f**** whose stoppin you

 

[movistar]

Who decides if this is morally wrong?
Generally speaking (assuming your both underage) if you are not hurting anyone or taking advantage of them you are ok.

There is old saying that goes "Old enough to bleed old enough to butcher"

Adults should date other adults, teenagers should date other teenagers... that's what you are a teenager, have secks with all the other teenagers you can.

When you hit 18 keep it 16 and up....

 

[SlapJackPat]

Ok I did some more research about age of consent laws in Indiana( Im paranoid I know). I read the law and it says that sex between peoples ages 14-18 is legal under a romeo and Juliet law passed in 2007. But now I want to know if its morally wrong.

Who cares ...?
If the law says you cant get caught up for it

 

[SlapJackPat]

Im 18 and here in texas Sex with anyone under 17 is illegal.

 

[SlapJackPat]

^ LOL

Not only is it morally wrong
But you're goin to "hell" just for thinkin about it.

 

[HariPoter13]

Who decides if this is morally wrong?

Exactly.

 

[Borknagar]

If its legal in your state I say **** the **** out of her, cause if you won't, someone else will. Hell here in Minnesota 16 is legal for everyone(I won't go there though, but I did bang a 18 year old last year when I was 31, me bad, haha, would I do it again? of course!) I found out this to be fact when a ex friend who was 23-24 at the time was screwin a friends 16 year old sister. We wanted him to get busted and were thinking of turning him in. I ran into some police at a local gas station and told them the story and they said "As long as she is 16 or older, and the male regardless of age isn't a person of authority, like a cop, teacher etc. it is totally legal in Minnesota, the only worry he has is daddy's shot gun. Needless to say I was shocked. but it's not worth the drama for someone my age to run around shaggin high school girls. If they're 18, I'm game however.

 

[Zarky]

is it ok, sure! is it legal, beats me.

 

[CuriousGirl]

No.

I didn't mean that as a snide comment towards guys, I meant it as an in-general, matter-of-fact comment. In my experience/observations, between 10/11-16/17 boys and girls maturity levels are mismatched..not in an all round outlook-on-life maturity but more socially mature. Girls get sexually interested in guys earlier and guys are a little behind girls with inter-sex (non-physical)relations between those ages, why you get that stereotype younger girls liking the slightly older guys, and the younger boys feeling a little put out about it. It levels out pretty quickly though.

 

[Scars]

Although you're probably at the same maturity level, when you're just a bit older you'll look back and think **** that's too young. I don't think you should go there. I've been that 14/15 yr old girl, I could have passed for an 18 yr old but I was no way as mature enough as I thought I was. And when I look back now I think phew, that was a close call, and I'm glad I didn't. Every girl I know who had sex younger than 16 regrets it, so don't do it for her sake really. (Obviously there are some who do it at an older age and regret it but that's irrelevant.)

I'd also mention it really doesn't do good for your rep around girls your own age and older. It's kind of seen as a more desperate attempt because having been those girls before, we know that it's much easier for guys to wow and bed a 14-16 yr old when they've got a few years on them. The guys in one of my social circles who have started dating the younger girls are only pulling the younger girls now.

Problem is, when you were that age you DID think you were mature enough. It didn't stop you from doing it, did it?

Personally, I could give a fvck if the girl regrets it or not. It's not my problem. I'm just an opportunist, so if it's available then I go for it.

If it weren't for the consequences of being punished by the law I'd still be sleeping with underage girls. I have no morals against it.

I'm not talking pedophile 12-13 year old girls, but I bet you've checked out some girl who was 14-15 (not even realizing it) and thought damn, I'd hit that. You even said yourself that young girls are starting to look older and older. 14-15 is when girls start developing boobs and become sexually attractive to me. I can't help it, it's hard coded into my biology. But it doesn't mean I'm going to try and have sex with them. I'd rather not have a sex offender charge on my record.

But this whole "morality" debate just humors me.

-Scars