If you sleep with someone who you perceive as being a lot less attractive than you, then post nut clarity kicks in and you can feel ashamed for doing so. But if you sleep with someone you consider as attractive but "average" like a 5-7 how much different do you feel compared to hooking up with someone you perceive as an 8-10? Sure, if you are ****ing someone more attractive, you're a lot more aroused and the "climax" can feel a lot more exhilarating. But if it's just a casual encounter the result is generally the same - you ***, you leave and then you don't always see them again.
I'm struggling with my relationship with casual sex at the moment because it doesn't seem enjoyable to me anymore and makes me feel quite empty, even if I have a good time during the moment. My automatic thought was that I need to set my standards higher and focus on "more attractive" women as I have seen suggested on this forum, but I can't see how this is any different from someone who you would consider as conventionally attractive but not "hot". And I've found that people who are "average" in the looks department are usually better in bed anyway. Is the difference between the two just an ego boost?
I'm struggling with my relationship with casual sex at the moment because it doesn't seem enjoyable to me anymore and makes me feel quite empty, even if I have a good time during the moment. My automatic thought was that I need to set my standards higher and focus on "more attractive" women as I have seen suggested on this forum, but I can't see how this is any different from someone who you would consider as conventionally attractive but not "hot". And I've found that people who are "average" in the looks department are usually better in bed anyway. Is the difference between the two just an ego boost?