When I read PlayHer Man's posts... I honestly felt it was good advice but too negative... but unfortunately... Im beginning to believe all his posts to be true 100% lol., You give women a finger, they want your hand, you give them your hand they want your arm, you give them your arm and so on.. they are never happy 100%. I have dealt with so many women and many of them on the HB9 scale. I would go as far to say that they all deep down are manipulative, full of drama and deceptive no matter how nice they come across at first.
Is it because I'm not attractive? nope. I get told I'm gorgeous/hot all the time. I'm 6', Muscular ripped, very attractive face. Is it my sex game that isnt up to par? Nope. I destroy women in the bedroom and not to be too graphic but ill be straight up and say I'm packin a 8" (no im not black) lets just say ive been blessed. is it because of social status? nope. I have a big social circle that ranges from ex cons to lawyers to millionaires. When i go out, A lot of bouncers, bartenders, managers treat me very well and always shake my hand, free drinks etc. Maybe its because my Jobs suck? Nope, Ive worked in the highest class financial institutions and became an entrepreneur building a solid 5 figure monthly income. Do i come from a bad family? Nope. Come from a solid happy family. Hmm... Maybe its because im not DJ enough and not a great guy to his girl?... Well my first GF i did everything for her, i gave up and sold irreplaceable things to do things for her and be with her? What did i get in return... she cheated on me with 2 other guys and became very manipulative until i couldnt take anymore of the emotional abuse and left her. My next GF I made her fall in love with me, took her to the Hawaiian islands, I was a bit more cold with her from fear of getting hurt again. She treated me great for the first 3 years... after i became more relaxed and was thinking of asking her to marry me.. She wanted to separate and lied about A LOT of things until i found out she hooked up with 7 guys right after she left and then no more than 3 months later engaged to another man. I remember i was in front of her apartment building trying to talk to her.. i tried kissing her and she backed away saying it wouldnt be right for me to kiss her because a bunch of guys have came on her face. Thats my reward.
i went through the most devastating depression and heartbreak when i found all that out. i was so messed up i was in the hospital. When i called her from the hospital room she said she was too busy to come stay with me when in reality she was with the other guy. thats my F*cking reward.
I dated alot of HB after i got my emotional state back together... They all were deceptive in some way and i could tell they were liars after a while and try to manipulate situations where im damned if i do and damned if i dont. Its not just me though.... My best friend and many other guys i know have been put through hell by their ex GF's or Wives. Cheating and Divorce have left many guys i know F*cked up in the head. I have female friends that tell me their deep secrets and tell me how they manipulate a guy or are cheating on their BF/husband while being VERY secretive about it. I'm finally at the breaking point of completely giving up.
Am i saying this to be negative about women?... not trying to because i do love women to hold on to their soft skin and enjoy their feminine traits and bang their brains out, the root of the problem is today's society encourages women to be this way. This Sex and they City and shows like Kardashians..etc it teaches sh*t like this to behave like a complete B!tch no matter WHAT you have done for them. The media and Hollywood know exactly how to reach women's mind because they can be manipulated easier based on their emotions. Why do you think they get influenced by their GF's to have a "Ladies night out" and eventually "something" happens. They rationalize the craziest sh!t, Have you ever argued with a female and when you have made a solid point to prove you are correct they may lash back at you with a "Whatever!" or "I dont care" or "Your an azzhole" etc.. because even if they know they are wrong about something, they wont admit to it. Ever catch a woman in a lie and they continue to protect that lie until the very end when they have no way to deny it? They do NOT take responsibility for their wrongs. it makes you wonder WTF is going on in their heads. It just keeps getting worse with time.