Is a hug considered kino?

[becker]

I was wondering if hugging a girl is considered kino that may be part of increasing that interest.

The reason why I ask is that there is this girl that I've gotten to know better and better, and before it was a simple hello and a wave when I saw her, and now I'm going to her house and when I leave, I'm giving her a hug goodbye. Does this seem like something that a girl would do even if she didn't like you much, like a pity hug, or is it a good sign of increasing interest?

 

[drixsa]

yes its kino

yes she is feelin closer to you

does she love you? dunno

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by becker
I was wondering if hugging a girl is considered kino that may be part of increasing that interest.

The reason why I ask is that there is this girl that I've gotten to know better and better, and before it was a simple hello and a wave when I saw her, and now I'm going to her house and when I leave, I'm giving her a hug goodbye. Does this seem like something that a girl would do even if she didn't like you much, like a pity hug, or is it a good sign of increasing interest?

Perhpaps I'm not the best person to answer this, because I touch up everyone, lol.
*realises that maybe this is why she's getting into so much trouble with the opposite sex *

If anyone touches you, they're not exactly replused by the thought of you being near them.......take that as a strong hint that she likes you.

 

[golf299]

watch out!

the dreaded hug...it has always been my kiss of death. now, if a girl gives me a hug, i assume she's not interesed.

 

[Healer]

If a girl hugs me, I usually playfully slap her ass in return. UNLESS its in the workplace, then thats sexual harassment.

 

[Starman]

Yes Hugs are Kino..but not that pat on the back I love puppy dogs and your such a great friend kinda hug

when you hug her..try to sensually rub on her back..dont grope! dont pat! and try to hold your body next to hers (without distance)

 

[becker]

Yeah, I'm aware of that friendly pat on the back, although it hasn't been done to me before. I guess that's a bad sign if that happens, right?

Does it matter whether you initiated it or she did? I mean, if you initiate the hug, will a girl ever just reject it even if she didn't like you? It seems the only time you won't get hugged in return is if the girl absolutely despises you and makes it verbally clear that she's not going to hug you.

golf299, I can also understand that if a girl hugs you and you're going in for a kiss, then that may be the kiss of death, but I don't understand why a simple hug alone would be.

ShortyBrown, what you say is what I'm afraid of. If a girl generally hugs everyone, then a hug won't mean much unless she rejects it from you, in which case it likely means she doesn't like you at all. However, this girl who I'm talking about I've NEVER seen her hug anyone else before.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by becker
Yeah, I'm aware of that friendly pat on the back, although it hasn't been done to me before. I guess that's a bad sign if that happens, right?

Does it matter whether you initiated it or she did? I mean, if you initiate the hug, will a girl ever just reject it even if she didn't like you? It seems the only time you won't get hugged in return is if the girl absolutely despises you and makes it verbally clear that she's not going to hug you.

golf299, I can also understand that if a girl hugs you and you're going in for a kiss, then that may be the kiss of death, but I don't understand why a simple hug alone would be.

ShortyBrown, what you say is what I'm afraid of. If a girl generally hugs everyone, then a hug won't mean much unless she rejects it from you, in which case it likely means she doesn't like you at all. However, this girl who I'm talking about I've NEVER seen her hug anyone else before.

She's sweet on ya. Before you go in for the kill though, look for other indications that she is if you are still unsure, flirt a little with her, tease her about how she might feel everyone up and you aren't that special to her.....you'll get your answers.

 

[squirrels]

One way to find out...

 

[Starman]

Most people will not turn down a hug..its like shaking hands..its socially unacceptable to turn down a hug..but then there are hugger chicks..(usually fat ones) ..

who like to Hug EVERYBODY (probably imagining you are a roast pork shoulder and fantasizes about eating you with a garnish of bullfists)

guys who go in for hugs are normally gay..I usually throw a twist to my hugs ..I go in for a hug..then a peck on the side of the cheek..or just a peck on the cheek..girls have never turned me down for this..and they usually kiss back

 

[becker]

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
She's sweet on ya. Before you go in for the kill though, look for other indications that she is if you are still unsure, flirt a little with her, tease her about how she might feel everyone up and you aren't that special to her.....you'll get your answers.

The twist on this is that she has a BF too, so I don't know if that makes any difference. I have only seen her with him once for the entire 3 years that I've known her, and even then she wasn't totally all over him like I thought she'd be.

Anyways, that's why I wouldn't pursue more, but if she ever broke up with him, that's a different story. I still do some flirting, but it's innocent and I'd describe myself as acting indifferent as to whether she likes me or not, mainly because I don't see it as a chance until she is broken up.

Starman- that's my thought on this too, since it's more awkward to turn down a hug than it is to just go through with it, even if you hate the other person, with the only exception being that there's hatred between you.

ShortyBrown - so do you think it's different whether the guy or girl initiates the hug?

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Starman
Most people will not turn down a hug..its like shaking hands..its socially unacceptable to turn down a hug..but then there are hugger chicks..(usually fat ones) ..

who like to Hug EVERYBODY (probably imagining you are a roast pork shoulder and fantasizes about eating you with a garnish of bullfists)

guys who go in for hugs are normally gay..I usually throw a twist to my hugs ..I go in for a hug..then a peck on the side of the cheek..or just a peck on the cheek..girls have never turned me down for this..and they usually kiss back

LMAO.. that is funny **** starman. what are you doing huging a porker anyway?

 

[Starman]

heh my best friend is a fat chick..she had a huge crush on me .. until I told her .. we are two completely different people!

She smacked me hard across the face in -10 degree weather ( I think she was trying to knock some sense into me - it didnt work)

she got over it..and now we are the best of friends..but she is a hugger..she hugs everyone..even trees..

one of these days Im going to open my arms to hug her..then when she comes in for a hug..im going to do a quick ninja maneuvaer twist around her..then tap her on the back of her shoulders..and wave hello!

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

There are two types of hugs:

1. The buddy hug: She hugs with only her shoulder blades touching yours and the lower part of her body sticking out from you.


2. The everything touch freaky hug: All your body parts touch her body parts and it's held for a couple of seconds.

 

[becker]

How do you hug with only the shoulder blades touching?

It seems like you're talking about the half-hug, where one shoulder touches the other, but that's it. I think in my case, it was more than just a buddy hug, but less than one of those freaky hugs, since that would be a little awkward given she has a BF. It was long and full enough to seem like she could have made it more brief if she didn't like me at all.

 

[Oxide]

First, becker, come on man, dont you get back to AFC form with "is hug a kino?" questions. of course it is!

Second, girls hugging you can be used as a great tool by YOU to raise their IL. I've seen someone say "who would turn down a hug?" WELL I HAVE AND I WILL AGAIN. After seeing the same girl, hugs start to loose the special meaning they once had. So if she goes for it and u walk away with her yelling "*******" at your back, she will remember how much she misses your arms

 

[becker]

Sorry, I think I had a brain cramp there, heh heh. But actually, I always saw a hug as one of those exceptions to kino or something, unless there were extraneous circumstances, such as the girl hugging you when she is normally a cold and distant girl. I guess it depends on the situation and the girl. If she hugs everyone, I feel that a hug doesn't mean much to her, sort of like if she sleeps with everyone, then sleeping with you will not be some earth-shattering event to her.

I don't know about that walking away from the hug thing though, Oxide, since it seems to convey the wrong message, like you're trying to run away from her and avoid her. It might get her thinking all right, but perhaps in the wrong direction. I know if a girl did that to me, I'd be in shock, but I might just say "next" to that.

 

[crotchrocket]

NO, NO hugging! I think a hug, initiated by you or the girl is the first turn down the road to the dreaded friendzone !!

Don't do it, and if a girl ever tries to initate it with you stop her, with a slightly embarrassed/shy teasing look (remember you're joking) and say something like "... not here ! I'm not that kind of boy... shame on you !". Then (if it's appropriate) kiss her-that's how a DJ does it.

A short story why I know this to be true.
An HB9 (who was always looking at me across the room, asking my friends about me, ... - I knew she was into me big time) was always hugging people, guys girls, everybody-except me.
Which was good-she was treating me different than all her guy and girl friends. Recently she hugged me, welcoming me to friendzone, like all the other AFC's that follow her around-happy to be her friend, well I'm not happy !

Unless you follow or precede a hug with a kiss, save your hugging for your grandma.

 

[Biz]

i don't think a girl would give you a hug if she didn't have some kind of interest in you...

 

[IDMeansNothing]

Originally posted by Starman
hugger chicks..(usually fat ones) ..

who like to [...] imagin[e] you are a roast pork shoulder and fantasize[...] about eating you with a garnish of bullfists)

ROTFL!!!! PPFFFFFTTT!