Is a hug considered kino?

[IDMeansNothing]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
There are two types of hugs:

1. The buddy hug: She hugs with only her shoulder blades touching yours and the lower part of her body sticking out from you.


2. The everything touch freaky hug: All your body parts touch her body parts and it's held for a couple of seconds.

You forgot this one:
3) The no question hug: She sticks her knee up in between your legs and starts rubbing your crotch with it

 

[NMMWCR]

Originally posted by crotchrocket
NO, NO hugging! I think a hug, initiated by you or the girl is the first turn down the road to the dreaded friendzone !!
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Rocket has a good point. Go for the kiss or make another buddy without benefits.

The purpose of kino is to get her hormones pumping, specifically the oxytocin/estrogen response. If you hug her hello or goodbye, that is just a replacement for a handshake, no hormonal response. If you hug her 15 minutes after you arrive and not on your way out that is kino.

Stop her next time she goes for that hug. Close for a kiss instead. THAT will get some hormones pumping. And remove all doubt about whether or not she sees you as a friend. It's more fun for both of you that way.

 

[usdaprime]

So how about A hug with a Kiss on the cheek. Is this bad if a woman does that to you?

 

[NMMWCR]

Originally posted by usdaprime
So how about A hug with a Kiss on the cheek. Is this bad if a woman does that to you?

It's bad if you don't take the hint. Return the favor with a real kiss.

 

[becker]

I mean, I'm not going to go in and kiss a girl who has a BF instead of give her a hug. Maybe a kiss on the cheek along with the hug, but even that is a little sketchy.

I just wanted to gauge HER interest in me, since I haven't seen her hug any other guys but me, including her BF, but I'm sure that's not a regular thing.

This is a different situation than that described by crotchrocket, since a girl who is hug-happy is one of the exceptions I mentioned above, where the hug means nothing since she does it to everyone.

 

[GropeDope]

Originally posted by becker
The twist on this is that she has a BF too, so I don't know if that makes any difference. I have only seen her with him once for the entire 3 years that I've known her, and even then she wasn't totally all over him like I thought she'd be.

Anyways, that's why I wouldn't pursue more, but if she ever broke up with him, that's a different story. I still do some flirting, but it's innocent and I'd describe myself as acting indifferent as to whether she likes me or not, mainly because I don't see it as a chance until she is broken up.

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I mean, I'm not going to go in and kiss a girl who has a BF instead of give her a hug. Maybe a kiss on the cheek along with the hug, but even that is a little sketchy.

Uh..what's so sketchy about a kiss on the cheek? I've met plenty of girls who I've seen only once and then the next time I see them one of us kisses the other on the cheek and it's no big deal..at all. I'm sure half of them had boyfriends too.

You're never gonna get ANYWHERE with her if you think a kiss on the cheek is a big thing, boyfriend or not.

If I were you and I really wanted to find out if she's interested or not (and you've known her for 3 damn years already so it's about time now buddy), try a "pop-kiss" on her lips instead of the standard who-gives-a-****-cause-you're-just-a-friend emotionless kiss on the cheek bull****. Hopefully she doesn't back her head away or push you from her face.

She may act shocked that your lips made brief contact with each other for the first time in 3 years (who the hell wouldn't, heh), but if she's actually interested, she won't get angry at you nor give you a lecture about her faithfulness to her boyfriend.

So just take it from there. But whatever you do, no pecks on the cheek, unless it's a series of them.

 

[becker]

The only thing is that I knew her for 3 years, but never really became closer until recently. 2 of those 3 years have been more like a hi/bye type of thing, with little more than just a mere passing acquaintance.

 

[Bonhomme]

Depends upon the KIND of hug

Yes, obviously a hug is kino. Any body contact that's not blatantly inappropriate will warm a gal up.

Eyecandie's got the idea. I'll add a bit here:

If she gives you one of those light, quick, "girly hugs," in which the first thing she does is quickly turn her head to avoid a kiss, she doesn't have much interest at the time. The disinterested gals minimize the extent and duration of body contact so as not to get those hormones flowing.

On the other hand, if she gives you an "attack hug," in which she's sqeezing the juice out of you, chances are that's exactly what she's trying to do. If she grinds her breasts into you, or gives you an unexpected kiss, she's really hot for you. Green light!

If you think to, you can fan the flame a bit more by maximizing leg and foot contact and stroking her hair in the back of her neck as you hug. The back of a gal's neck is a real hot spot!

Pull away before she wants to end the hug -- without rejecting her -- just ending it a little bit before she does -- and it'll up the intensity of her desire even further.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

On the other thread, Bonhomme, you mentioned that a girl gave you a long tight hug good-bye at a party and that you even got horny thinking about it.

That is exactly the definition of Kino and the reason why it works so well.

One thing about hugs though. If the girl gives you a hug and then gives you those little "pats on the back", you are totally in the friend zone.

The hug accompanied by a pat on the back is for friends, family members and even pets. The "pat" is a dead give away.

I'm guessing the girl the other night did not do this.

 

[Bonhomme]

You guessed right, JDIA

She seemed to be more focused on trying to grind her breasts straight through my rib cage.

Good point about the "pat on the back." That's the family hug. A gal who's hot for you holds on.

 

[becker]

Bottom line is that as long as you don't get one of those pats on the back, you're in good shape. I don't remember if I got the pat on the back, but I don't think I did, because I'd likely remember it.

 

[A1SteakSauce]

Hilarious, I never realized it, I've always done the pat on chicks that were just friends . . . and my mother always did that to me (hm, thank goodness) . . . then there's the one time I accidently squeezed the bride's breast -- oops -- but that's a whole other story.

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