Internet Chat with women is AFC

[sustainable007]

I have officially given up on instant messaging to meet women....I encourage all other DJs to follow...

I think women go online cause they know that only the greatest AFC's will invest time in it... i dont know why it took so long to figure out but Im through with that bull$hit.....

Im also tired of hearing about online romance....its a myth..its for AFC's...I have had oppourtunities i havent taken advantage of..but it all comes down to one thing....with regards to Internet romance women get the upper hand...and as a result they just search for the cream of the crop AFC's....

Phuck Yahoo Messenger....Phuck AIM too....Im through...ive offically went noninstant messenger!!!!

 

[Ofus]

agreed

 

[icepick]

I have never figured out why anyone would ever do this in the first place! Why would you go on the internet to find girls when there are thousands in your back yard? A couple of people that I knew would 'hook-up' with girls on the internet and have to drive or fly many miles to have sex with them. (Believe me, some of these girls went on the internet because they didn't want anyone from real life to know that they wanted to be sluts!)

One guy I knew bought plane tickets to fly across the country to meet this girl that he met online. How pathetic! And he was in college!

Talking to girls on the internet will not improve your "skills" at all. Most communication (like it or not) is body language. There is no other word for it than aura. THIS is what you need to develop guys.

Also, a major part of even verbal communication is TONE. Tone is DESTROYED in internet communication; just look how much everyone HERE misunderstands each other!

You gotta talk to REAL girls to get REAL sex/relationships. If you talk to CYBER girls, you will get CYBER sex/relationships.

Because whores are everywhere.

 

[matius]

I disagree. This is not a logical argument. It's your perception of the situation. I'm sure many guys who have met girls online have had the upperhand, I'm sure many times it has been the other way around. I'm not even sure what you mean by upperhand in this context.

At its simplest. Meeting someone online is just the same as meeting them on the street. Before you jump in and tell me how way off I am, what I mean by that is...when you meet face to face, same rules apply. I'm not trying to say that it is more noble to meet someone online.

Another absurdity: They know that they'll find the cream of the crop AFC. You think that adds up to $cents or something? Why in the hell would someone think like that for? Take the time to invest in a schmuck? How do they know who they're going to meet.

I haven't found anything extremely cool online, but I haven't found anyting extremely cool offline either...so for me they're about the same. But you know, I can sense that you're just frustrated all the way around.

 

[matius]

I think people miss the point completely. Society says, meeting people online is not cool, it's dorky, its weak, etc...whatever the f()ck you think it is...

To me it's a way to meet people. Plain and simple. Whether you meet them at the grocery store, at school, at work or on the street...add to my list the Internet. Big frikken deal. So, you have a chance to meet someone who might be right for you 25 minutes away that you might not of had the chance to meet.

I put it so simply don't I.

 

[sustainable007]

Yeah you do put it so plainly you represent the AFC perspective well.

 

[terew]

Its only AFC if you its your MAIN way of picking up chicks.

 

[matius]

Yeah you do put it so plainly you represent the AFC perspective well.

You see, I don't give a shyte how people meet people, that's the only difference between you and I (well, you catch my drift). Tell me how it's a poor mindset to open up a completely new avenue to meeting women? This is in addition to outside of the computer?

So, go ahead represent the DJ and answer that.

AFC! Represent YO!

I encourage all other DJs to follow...

Lame by the way G. It's like a blind dog leading the blind.

 

[es_mer8]

AIM is good for me because what people don't realize is that girls now spend more time on AOL than the phone. Proven fact. There is this girl who is grounded off the phone by her mom. She gave me her number but told me not to call until the beginning of July because she is grounded until the end of June for doing bad in school. However she can go on AOL/AIM so I got her name and I talk to her through there. Body language cannot be conveyed, yes, but I'd rather talk to her over there than none at all. I'm not nexting her either; I'd consider her an 8.75. Especially since she basically flirts with me all the time and repeatedly kinos me whenever I'm around. So with that I see nothing wrong with that.

Talking to a girl online isn't ideal but frankly its better than nothing. Like I said, nowadays talking on AIM is like talking on the phone because to them, they can talk to more than just one person. I have about 3-4 high 7s I got their AIM names from because they told me seriously that they never talk on the phone. Sure enough, I see them online on my buddy list for being online 2-4 hours each night so its true; so I think the no AIM theory sucks ass unless she prefers the phone as opposed to AOL. E-Mail is worthless though, avoid that. Live chat is best.

 

[matius]

Wait a minute. Meeting someone online is just that, meeting someone. The objective is to get in, get out and meet her in person as soon as possible. From that point on, you no longer use the computer as your means of communication. Nothing wrong with meeting somebody like that. Body language is a non-issue. They'll see how you are in person and vice versa.

Society says this is for dorks and jokes. So join the pack cattle.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Yeah you do put it so plainly you represent the AFC perspective well.

Buddy your totally missing the point..You tell me a definition of a DJ.. and i wil tell you that the whole point is to open up NEW AVENUES to meet chicks.

Personally i havent picked up a chick on AIM..i dont even know how you would do it...but i dont knock those who post threads with success stories saying they were successful.

Does it make you a geek? well maybe if its your ONLY way to meet chicks...but if you treat it as an addition to your repertoire..then you are capturing the true essence of what it means to be a DJ.

We are openminded..to meeting girls in malls, busstops, coffeeshops..and ON the INTERNET as well!

So dont give me that sh*t about how other DJ's should follow you. If you dont wanna do it then dont do it..but IMO, its you whose the AFC.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I'm not sure about meeting people (the only person I met on the Net was this guy who linked me up with a part-time job).


However, I believe the Internet will be a great influence in the future. Already, people are shopping, exchanging ideas, and recieving news on the Net. In future, I would predict a steady rise in Net usage, especially for shopping and other commmercial transactions.


Nonethless, that will be a long time away. And it won't replace the fact that if your social skills suck, you still won't be able to make it in the world (until the year 2300 when everyone flies around in hovercars and their minds get linked to a super cyberspace thingomajig).

 

[matius]

Nonethless, that will be a long time away. And it won't replace the fact that if your social skills suck, you still won't be able to make it in the world (until the year 2300 when everyone flies around in hovercars and their minds get linked to a super cyberspace thingomajig).

What are you babbling on about...

 

[Shackmaster]

I only met a girl online ONE time, and that's all it took to say NEVER AGAIN!

She ended up being over 200lbs, and was a b!tch.

 

[matius]

I only met a girl online ONE time, and that's all it took to say NEVER AGAIN!

One time, so another words you are telling everyone here that you have infinitesimal experience of using the Internet as a way to attain women. And you give up very easily, good attitude to have in life.

She ended up being over 200lbs, and was a b!tch.

Who cares how she acted if she weighed that much? Why didn't you get a picture of her before you met? Did she lie about her weight? This isn't enough to summarize meeting people online.

But you guys keep trying...this is fun.

 

[Sentrility]

As many people have said. Who really cares how u meet women? Whatever works best for you, then use it. And you still have to use your DJ skills when you meet them in real life anyway! If one way is getting you lots of women, it isnt AFC..

 

[ApocalypseCow]

I've met 20 women online. Of them, I still go out with 2. 1 of them is REALLY great (hot, smart, into me) and definitrely LTR material.

So, take those 1 in 20 odds for what you will. Internet dating leads to a lot of frustration, but there are definitely some diamonds in the rough.

 

[Starman]

ya know..I once had a friend who Said he would NEVER date a chick who frequented bars/clubs..because they are sluts..

Yet , his girlfriend at the time (that he met at school) sometimes went clubbing. ( so he deluded himself into thinking..that where he met his girl proves she is wholesome)

The point is, The SAME people you meet online..are the same ones you meet at clubs..streets , etc..

The only difference is the fact that you KNOW you met them online.

I'll bet you can ask any girl in a club..if they ever talked on AOL, MSN, etc..at least 80% will say YES.


Im not sure what you guys are doing wrong..but chatting online for a long time is weak..get the freakin number and call them on the fone.

 

[sustainable007]

I still stand by my position

The arguments in favor of Internet Chatting Support being AFC...."a spade is a spade"....

IMO: A real DJ ventures into the public realm to meet women.. .He doesnt go onto the Internet.....the act of considering the Internet is AFC

 

[vdk]

IMO nothing beets the real thing of face-to-face chat. Like many people said, the aura some chicks make is a feeling you cant get when on the phone, let alone online. Lust and attraction is something best looked through someones eyes rather than words appearing on a screen.