Internet Chat with women is AFC

ShizamDaMan

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I only talk to girls I know from school/work/etc on AIM. That way they know how I go about conversations in real life and can imagine me talking to them in person.

Online romance is just retarded. Very very very VERY AFCish. The most online romance I've ever participated in was "I'm coming to your house, cya in 5." :D Talking to random girls on the internet was cool when you were like, 10.
 

matius

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IMO: A real DJ ventures into the public realm to meet women.. .He doesnt go onto the Internet.....the act of considering the Internet is AFC
Anyone with a mind would probably think this was a stupid comment. But then again, go ahead and do your thing, whatever.
Online romance is just retarded. Very very very VERY AFCish. The most online romance I've ever participated in was "I'm coming to your house, cya in 5." Talking to random girls on the internet was cool when you were like, 10.
Another one :rolleyes: Online romance is just retarded. Do you even know what words mean? You meet someone online, then you meet them in person. So it becomes a regular relationship. You know, like one on one person to person. If you above that then you just too cool. Do what you do coolio...

Good Luck!

I'm all about you gettin' what you want so whatever works for ya. This is a lousy argument with no backbone from the first post. You see the supporters are all about your DJ skills outside the computer like you support- but they agree that this is just an EXTRA avenue. = more girls > so who is AFC idiot?
 

aguynamedwill

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practice is practical

I use chat-sites to practice saying different things to women.

I agree that most communication comes from body language and voice tone. Its how monkeys communicate.

But a woman is initially interested in you from your alpha-male posture and the 'you don't impress me' voice tone, knowing certain types of verbal communication can increase her interest. That communication is the ****y and funny that's all over this site. Not giving a woman what she wants is another. By practicing online, for those of us where this stuff is not yet second nature (though it is becoming that way), we can have enough experience so that we don't freeze up when confronted by a hot woman.

For various reasons, we all have different speeds of progression. If you've never struggled to talk to a woman, than your point of view is going to be totally different from someone who only recently has been able to even hold eye contact with one.

I also agree with matius who simply sees it as another avenue for meeting women. What if you're snowed in but you feel like macking? go online. Start chatting to a woman who lives nearby, get her attracted to you, and get her number a few days later. I've done it, and I wasn't even trying (perhaps that's why I was so successful with that one). And once you meet this person, its no longer an online relationship.

The internet only becomes a problem when it becomes a substitute for going out and trying at the mall, party, wherever. Don't fall for some girl 3000 miles away and talk to her online every night for 7 hours. But do practice your DJ attitude, especially if you're new to it.. See that it works, then go out and use it. That's what I do. It also helps you realise there are literally millions of chicks out there. If one won't respond, just try another. Works that way in real life too. You become unattached to any one outcome.

-Will
 
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