If a woman is with a seemingly ugly or average man, it's as simple as this:
1.)She doesn't think he's ugly or average. He's her type for whatever reason.
2.)He isn't ugly or average. The same way girls can't tell sometimes what girls guys like, we can't always tell what girls like.
3.)She's deliberately settling and using him for money or something else.
I'm average looking, been told I'm "cute" and "adorable" by some women, but never "hot." Every woman that's ever shown interest in me found me attractive and every woman who didn't want anything to do with me found me unattractive.
The bottom line: If women don't think you look good or at least ok to them, unless they're gold-diggers you stand no chance.
This ugly/average guy banging 10s while the good looking guys don't is bs.