Not just being American, Poms, Australians, Canadians are also on the hit list. The fact that you hold down a job, exercise and dont drink a half a bottle of vodka with your breakfast in the morning already makes you eligible. Be under no illusions though, the reason why the women are keen on you is because they consider you wealthy. If you are middle class or upper middle class, by their standards you are like a multi millionaire to an American women. That raises your status through the roof. Money, exotic and you wont beat the **** out of her once a month?
Which puts a lot of modern day western men off after a while. When you are paying for everything all the time you start to feel like a walking wallet. Then when her friend joins you for lunch and you are expected to pick up the tab with a smile you start to feel used. Its traditional gender roles though and they are things our fathers and grandfathers would have gone through. Men are providers. Men who cant provide are not real men. They are boys. Are they in it for the money alone? No. Is it a driving factor? Yes. Not just with you, even with their own local men.
The difference is that she is quite happy to spend all day tending the home and making sure the kids are picked up from school. She wont leave the house unless she spent time making sure she looks her best. She knows what competition is out there. She will **** your brains out just to make sure you are not straying. She wont bust your balls with needless drama because she herself does not need it to the degree that western women do. For me, it was always nice to be able to speak to them on the same level. They have an interest in current affairs, politics, music, art, history. They read books and newspapers. I cant remember the last time I dated a hot South African, Australian or English girl who had an interest in anything other then shopping and celeb gossip. Half the time they are "passionate" about something they have done a few times or because its all the rage with their friends at the moment.
I feel like I am entertaining a child half the time when I date western woman. History is boring. Current events are negative. Politics are poo poo and, like, you know, WRONG. Music is only music if its the *****cat Dolls or house music. She jumped out of a plane once and now considers herself a skydiver. She is passionate about the sea and has taken up scuba. I tolerate it because I need tits and ass but my favourite date these days is a movie at my house. That way the television set can entertain her for a few hours before I put her on all fours.
When I want conversation, Ill go have a beer with my mates.
Str8up said:
It's amazing to experience the social dynamic at play when your status increases tenfold just by visiting another country. And especially considering the fact that many of these women are stunningly beautiful, cultured, articulate, and have interests that include more than tanning and shoe shopping.
I think it would be ADDICTIVE to live over there. I don't think I would want to come home. Seriously
Which irritates me no end when the western **** we live with daily talk these women down. Eastern European women are all gold digging, passport hunting *****s that dont understand the way of the world. They also all look like they were in the Olympic shot-put team. Its men and women that do it too. The manginas climb into it.
A few of my work colleagues ended up marrying Russian women which they took home eventually. People were making jokes about mail order brides and how these men were losers that had to marry foreign because they could not land a decent western girl. Makes me sick.
As for deciding on where to stay, it depends on what you like. If you are really into the arts, theatre, music, museums and extensive night life, your best bet is to be situated close to the major centres of Moscow, St Petersburg, Prague, Budapest and Kiev. If you are more of a laid back, read a book, go fishing, spend time at the beach with my kids kinda guy, then you want to be near the Black Sea or Mediterranean. That would be Bulgaria, eastern Romania, Croatia, Eastern Ukraine.