The strongest sign of maturity and self confidence is how you respond to ambivalence.
Often FEAR is THE scariest thing we have, not the actual event or circumstance we fear. The feeling of FEAR is the scariest thing.
Doing Inner Game work is expected of you. It is part of life.
Be UNReactive, NOT UNResponsive in dificult emotional situations.
IF the eyes are the window to your soul, and you avoid eye contact, what do you fear communicating about yourself to others?
If you find yourself wanting to get a 'reaction' from a woman, take it as a sign that you've gone of the deep end. You are no longer in control of yourself.
Dont' 'SWIM" in your Emotions. Let your emotions "swim" in you.
When you meet her eyes....let her burn in them. Accept the sexual tension, and dont try to escape it. Let HER be the first one to turn away, or stay with you.
Stop running away from your emotions. OWN them, FEEL them, Embrace them, and then kindly put them in their place.
When a woman talks to you in the initial phases of attraction/seduction, ,most of what she is saying can be distilled in these simple things
Are you afraid of life?
are you able to take me?
Do you know where youre going?
Are you afraid of me?
Will you stay with me emotionally and physically?
Do YOU know who YOU are?
If you spend the time to deal with your issues and less running away from them , you may find out that theyre really not as bad as you thought
Be dependent on the validation from things inside you which do NOT Change, be INDEPENDENT of the validation of things outside you that DO.
Self Esteem is not the same as Ego. Beware the Ego. The ego will get you killed trying to protect it.
Everything you were ever afraid of is the EXACT thing you should be working on MASTERING this lifetime.
Afraid of girls?
Guess what? a lot of them are afraid of you too...
Dont want to be 'hurt' again??
Guess what? a Lot of women dont want to be hurt again either.
If you go up to a girl and start showing her what kind of job you have , what kind of car you drive, and what kind of cool people you know, youll end up attracting the same version of you in a female.
A golddigger dont make a good housewife, so put the ring through your nose and pay up, chump...
There are two types of males in this world;
those who know how male/female attraction works, and those who still want to take a girl to a nice restautrant and buy her things on the first date.
Every time you make the Decision to AVOID GROWTH, thus, avoiding building your Self Esteem........you kill yourself a little more.....
Women KNOW that when you go talk to her, it means youre attracted, so be the man and embrace your Desires for her. Dont be so ashamed of it. She wants to feel yourdesire for her.This is part of her feeling Femenine and sexy.
When you aact embarassed or ashamed of displaying your attraction to her, she will be disappointed. and confused.
Leanr how to ADMIT to yourself and understand it is OK to be sexaully attracted to a woman and talk to her.
Dont be a slave to your desires.
If SEX from her is YOUR Number One Priority, then you will always be second best.
If Sex from her is not your number one priority, then she can never control you,thus making you that much more attractive to her...
Beware of Manly Females. They still havent made peace with their femeninity, so dont be her b*tch.