OK, heres the problem, although it may be a bit ‘wussy’ I need help on what to do, as I am a bit confused!
Last year, I was really good friends with this girl, we hung around together all the time, and in the summer I asked her to the ball, she said yes. I thought she liked me and so did everyone else around me. After the ball in July, I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime, she said yes. I then sent her a text every so often asking if she was free to go out sometime, and she never replied for like 6 weeks.
Then we started a new term in September. She avoided me for the first couple of days (e.g. she saw me, turned around and walked a different way). When I finally spoke to her, she snapped at me that ‘we should just be friends’, and that she didn’t reply to me in the holidays, because she was busy. Then she walked off.
For the next like 4 months, every time I saw her, and said ‘hi’, she either just grunted or said nothing, so in the end I just stopped bothering. I did say, cant we just talk about this, but she ignored me.
Then in January, I started a new class (8 of us), and she was in it and I had to work with her. She started talking to me like we used to last year, and I just started talking to her (she spoke as if nothing had happened). So I asked her a couple of times if she was free perhaps at the weekend, and everytime she replied either “NO” or “I’m busy, sorry”. Everytime in the class that I tried to crack a joke, she just looked at me like I was mad, and was like ‘That’s not funny” (me trying my c&f routine), and if I spoke about a subject, afterwards she was like “sometimes you really do talk rubbish.
Out of the class, everytime I see her, she generally blanks me and acts like she hasn’t seen me, although if im with someone she knows as well, she’ll say hi.
That was a couple of weeks ago. The next week after that she ran up to me to ask what result I got in my exams (she takes similar subjects), I just ignored her and walked off, just simply because I didn’t think she was really interested and she doesn’t talk to me any other time, almost like she only talks to me out of lessons when she wants something.
So we had the next lesson on Tuesday, and as soon as she saw me she kept on saying “what did you get in your exam”, and I said I didn’t do too well (which I didn’t) but refused to tell her the result. Then she kept on repeating the question 5 times, and in the end I just said “Look, the reason I’m not answering that question and why I didn’t answer that last week was because I don’t think you really are interested, to which she replied “I am!”. I said “I’m just sick of the way in which anything I do isnt good enough, every joke I crack you ridicule and everything I say, you make fun of. She replied “Fine then, I just won’t talk to you”, and she walked off.
I see her around and about the whole week, but she just blanks me, so I do too. At the end of the day yesterday, I walk to the train station where I meet my best friend every day, and there she is standing with my best friend (who she doesn’t really know). I walk up and say Hi to him, and he replies, and she through clenched teeth says “Hello, How are you?”, to which I reply ‘Fine’, and then she says ‘Must Go’ and walks off.
So I have this lesson again on Tuesday with her, and the question is what do I do. Do I totally ignore her, do I talk to her, what do I do? In some ways I still like her but I think to be honest, its more because of the past than anything else?
Do I next her, I’m kinda stuck?
Help?!
Last year, I was really good friends with this girl, we hung around together all the time, and in the summer I asked her to the ball, she said yes. I thought she liked me and so did everyone else around me. After the ball in July, I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime, she said yes. I then sent her a text every so often asking if she was free to go out sometime, and she never replied for like 6 weeks.
Then we started a new term in September. She avoided me for the first couple of days (e.g. she saw me, turned around and walked a different way). When I finally spoke to her, she snapped at me that ‘we should just be friends’, and that she didn’t reply to me in the holidays, because she was busy. Then she walked off.
For the next like 4 months, every time I saw her, and said ‘hi’, she either just grunted or said nothing, so in the end I just stopped bothering. I did say, cant we just talk about this, but she ignored me.
Then in January, I started a new class (8 of us), and she was in it and I had to work with her. She started talking to me like we used to last year, and I just started talking to her (she spoke as if nothing had happened). So I asked her a couple of times if she was free perhaps at the weekend, and everytime she replied either “NO” or “I’m busy, sorry”. Everytime in the class that I tried to crack a joke, she just looked at me like I was mad, and was like ‘That’s not funny” (me trying my c&f routine), and if I spoke about a subject, afterwards she was like “sometimes you really do talk rubbish.
Out of the class, everytime I see her, she generally blanks me and acts like she hasn’t seen me, although if im with someone she knows as well, she’ll say hi.
That was a couple of weeks ago. The next week after that she ran up to me to ask what result I got in my exams (she takes similar subjects), I just ignored her and walked off, just simply because I didn’t think she was really interested and she doesn’t talk to me any other time, almost like she only talks to me out of lessons when she wants something.
So we had the next lesson on Tuesday, and as soon as she saw me she kept on saying “what did you get in your exam”, and I said I didn’t do too well (which I didn’t) but refused to tell her the result. Then she kept on repeating the question 5 times, and in the end I just said “Look, the reason I’m not answering that question and why I didn’t answer that last week was because I don’t think you really are interested, to which she replied “I am!”. I said “I’m just sick of the way in which anything I do isnt good enough, every joke I crack you ridicule and everything I say, you make fun of. She replied “Fine then, I just won’t talk to you”, and she walked off.
I see her around and about the whole week, but she just blanks me, so I do too. At the end of the day yesterday, I walk to the train station where I meet my best friend every day, and there she is standing with my best friend (who she doesn’t really know). I walk up and say Hi to him, and he replies, and she through clenched teeth says “Hello, How are you?”, to which I reply ‘Fine’, and then she says ‘Must Go’ and walks off.
So I have this lesson again on Tuesday with her, and the question is what do I do. Do I totally ignore her, do I talk to her, what do I do? In some ways I still like her but I think to be honest, its more because of the past than anything else?
Do I next her, I’m kinda stuck?
Help?!
