Impressing a woman with an outfit

[GoodMan32]

Here's what I wore to work today (this is also something I might wear on a weekend)

In terms of tickling a woman's fancy, how would I fare in this outfit?

(When posing for a picture, my shirt looks a lot more wrinkly than it really is)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you wanted to be the male version of a librarian then sure...

 

[Clockwerk50]

is that you? You got some big ass hands. I know some women are into that lol

You need a new belt.

Not knowing your hairstyle or personality it is hard to advise what brand to buy. Since money is not an issue, go to Zara and buy some clothes from there. They are edgy and not work appropriate; they are like fun clothes. It will feel weird at first but you’ll get used to it and maybe inject some playfulness into your personality.

 

[Hal9000]

Definitely need to work on the wardrobe and unless you're at work I would typically stay away from tucking in your shirt. There are plenty of stylish button up shirts you can wear untucked if you want to go the button up route.

 

[plumber]

dry cleaners or laundry store can clean and press the shirts. if its in budget, its nice to just got to your hanger and get them ready to go. it also feels nice to put on a pressed shirt.

 

[Velasco]

0/10

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Also OP, I would highly advise you start working out.

Having a waist that is wider than your chest/upper back is not a good look.

Makes you look like a pear instead of having a tapered "V" which is the ideal male shape

 

[Westminster]

Good tailoring can also help. A well-cut suit or sports jacket can provide some fullness to the chest and shoulders and create the illusion of a more tapered torso.

 

[The Duke]

Your sleeves are too short. Your undershirt is showing. Shirt doesn't fit your body that good. Wrong belt. Jeans are too dark for shirt. Your collar lays too flat, needs some starch and iron work to make it stand up.

This look is not a panty dropper at all.

And you are really small on top relative to your waist line. You either need to hit the gym or get serious about finding shirts that are tailored to help with that.

 

[SW15]

In terms of tickling a woman's fancy, how would I fare in this outfit?

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0-1 out of 10. You will not drop any panties with this look. It does not stand out in any way.

The color/style patterning of the shirt isn't exciting. I can't imagine women reacting to that. Jeans are a really common look.

@The Duke was most accurate on other critiques of the outfit itself.

Physique comments were on point too.

While it is possible to impress women with outfits, this isn't it.

Physique also matters far more than outfit.

 

[typical]

Oh boy you've got a tonne to learn about women dating and relationships if you think an outfit will "Tickle her fancy" !!!

Also stop trying to impress any woman that you work with. It's a recipe for disaster.

Hit the gym and build that tapered V look. Then anything you wear will look semi decent on you.

Also Iron your damn shirts man !!! You're not a child anymore.

A strong presence and character does more to attract women then just stylish clothes.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Good tailoring can also help. A well-cut suit or sports jacket can provide some fullness to the chest and shoulders and create the illusion of a more tapered torso.

You don't want illusion. You want the real thing. He isn't Merlin the Magician.

 

[Westminster]

You don't want illusion. You want the real thing. He isn't Merlin the Magician.

I agree, building a better physique will take a bit of time and energy though. A well-cut jacket and some shirts and trousers that fit properly will help in the short term.

 

[GoodMan32]

is that you? You got some big ass hands. I know some women are into that lol

You need a new belt.

Not knowing your hairstyle or personality it is hard to advise what brand to buy. Since money is not an issue, go to Zara and buy some clothes from there. They are edgy and not work appropriate; they are like fun clothes. It will feel weird at first but you’ll get used to it and maybe inject some playfulness into your personality.

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Yeah, that's me. I had never given much thought to my hand size. Now that you mention it, I suppose my hands really are big (especially for a man my size)

I own 2 other belts.

Thanks for the Zara recommendation.

As for personality, I'm an autist.

I've mentioned on the forum before that I've been told I resemble Jared Kushner. My hairstyle (and hair color) is comparable to his.

Even though Jared Kushner is pretty well-known, it's possible some posters (especially non-Americans) might not be familiar with him. For reference, here he is.

 

[GoodMan32]

Your sleeves are too short. Your undershirt is showing. Shirt doesn't fit your body that good. Wrong belt. Jeans are too dark for shirt. Your collar lays too flat, needs some starch and iron work to make it stand up.

This look is not a panty dropper at all.

And you are really small on top relative to your waist line. You either need to hit the gym or get serious about finding shirts that are tailored to help with that.

I cuffed my sleeves (I always do; that's my thing)

At full length, my sleeves are longer than they are in the picture.

 

[GoodMan32]

Oh boy you've got a tonne to learn about women dating and relationships if you think an outfit will "Tickle her fancy" !!!

Also stop trying to impress any woman that you work with. It's a recipe for disaster.

Hit the gym and build that tapered V look. Then anything you wear will look semi decent on you.

Also Iron your damn shirts man !!! You're not a child anymore.

A strong presence and character does more to attract women then just stylish clothes.

I iron my shirts (and even my pants)

There's a reason I included the disclaimer that the shirt looked a lot more wrinkly when posing for the picture than it did in person.

 

[Barrister]

OP,

No offense, but you are dressed like you are 70 years old and a grandfather who no longer cares about getting women wet. @The Duke nailed it as far what you need to change.

That shirt is the biggest problem. It looks old, worn out, doesn't fit correctly, and the undershirt is completely unnecessary and not sexy. I have found that a well-fitted t-shirt generally stands out the best with a well-fitted slim fit pair of jeans if I am going on a casual date. You can spruce it up easily with a sports jacket over it if you want. Google some things of young men doing that sort of thing.

And no, you aren't Jared Kushner. Plus, Kushner is always in a suit when seen in public it seems, so I am not sure how that applies to this topic.

 

[New_Journey]

Your skinny fat, there is no impressing a woman no matter what you wear. You don't look good naked

 

[GoodMan32]

OP,

No offense, but you are dressed like you are 70 years old and a grandfather who no longer cares about getting women wet. @The Duke nailed it as far what you need to change.

That shirt is the biggest problem. It looks old, worn out, doesn't fit correctly, and the undershirt is completely unnecessary and not sexy. I have found that a well-fitted t-shirt generally stands out the best with a well-fitted slim fit pair of jeans if I am going on a casual date. You can spruce it up easily with a sports jacket over it if you want. Google some things of young men doing that sort of thing.

And no, you aren't Jared Kushner. Plus, Kushner is always in a suit when seen in public it seems, so I am not sure how that applies to this topic.

A poster commented that he doesn't know what my hairstyle is.

I used Jared Kushner as an example of my hairstyle.

 

[GoodMan32]

Your skinny fat, there is no impressing a woman no matter what you wear. You don't look good naked

For obvious reasons, I won't share a picture of myself nude.

I will share, however, what I look like without a shirt.

What I look like underneath my clothes is somewhat of a moot point anyway, seeing as the last time a non-escort woman has seen me sexually was 2021. Any discussion of what I look like underneath my clothes is putting the cart before the horse. How about getting a woman into bed first and then worrying about what I look like naked