Impossible to date women in their 30s, what a drag...

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we as men MUST learn to play the game our "opponent " plays. You can't play checkers when your opponent plays chess.
Ive said it many times, when a man starts to approach his dating life like a woman does he will become successful. And he will win every time. Their need for validation blinds them to their own weakness. Just like a man's sex drive causes him to be vulnerable.
 

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Your whole OP sums up my point. You can only offer a woman shvt a College/HS boy can. The issue is women in their late twenties and beyond do not want to have sex in your dad's hand me down F150 or deal with bad boy energy anymore and women in their twenties can just date a guy in his twenties if they want that. You can hide behind the Leo Cap cope pill train all you want, but the harsh reality is that you offer little value to women right now.
The only loser here is you captain keyboard jockey.

You completely misunderstood the opening post, erected a straw man, and began your ad hominem crusade.
 

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So simple, yet so many dudes craft theories and other bologna
You cannot sell PUA courses if you don't have extensive theories to expound.
 

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the worst kind of women in their 30s are the ones looking to settle down (aka "I'm looking for a marriage") after riding the c0ck-carousel for at least a decade. They bring up the topic of "marriage" onto the table on the 1st date like a bargain card, which is the ultimate act of being not fun.
I agree with you on how bad these women are. There is no fun in dating a childless, 30 something who fervently wants kids.
 

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After moving to Australia and starting a new life I ran into a group of 30 something chicks they kind of welcomed me in to their social group which I was grateful for because I didnt know anyone here at that stage

I have become relatively friendly with them now , I have very little sexual interest in any of them but its kind of fascinating watching their dating dynamics

They are all still sleeping around like they are in their 20's one of them I am particularly friendly with turned 34 yesterday she was telling me how she has been sleeping with a 24 year old guy

On then on the other hand she's asking me for advice on how to find a decent man that will settle down with her

Another one is slightly narcissistic , im not really sure about her but she tries to flirt with me at times she can't seem to find a " decent man" for love nor money either

Like I said I have very little interest in them sexually and I probably wouldn't want to date any of them either because I can tell they are all ran through

Socially they are kind of fun , but yea in general I don't date women after about 27
 

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I have no idea what is your experience but mine is far from being pleasant.

The looks issue and the "wall" talk comes often in this forum but there is something more that we often miss altough it's as important.

A woman that age basically has twice the life experiences (positive ones and negative ones) of a man of that same age.

She has her own life and lost a great deal of bonding or adapting abilities, she wants you to be added to her life not build something new together.

Also they are in a rush to settle, there is no fun or messing around...they want their serious relationship and they want it now.

You get all the sex you want, anytime you ask and sometime it's even offered on the spot with no soliciting but looks more of a negotiation or a perk rather than a genuine desire, I would say a currency exchange.

The price you have to pay is being sucked into her reality, you have to meet her friends to validate her, you have to meet her family to let her show that she managed to get a man to commit.

The time span between the first drink and the first afternoon at ikea is an eye beat if you can't resist their pressure.

Also thei higher their social position and income, the higher the economical burden on you.

Btw good fkn luck to you if you want to slow things down or ask for more space.
You nailed it. Older women are basically just bitchy

Older women are more negative, but also more confident in their womanly delusions.

The majority of the protesters at abortion rallies are old, infertile hags

But game still works to keep them in check

Challenge them on their bull**** always. Let them know that you are strident in your beliefs and that she can leave if she doesn't like them

A man's judgement is his strongest weapon with women.

Older woman try to steal judgement from us. "Fat is ok!", "Sluts are great!"

Silly women, judgement is for men. We set the standards

Problem is, most men now days are weak, so standards are nothing

But it will stand to set you apart, being a man that has standards. You aren't a thirsty simp. You're a fvcking boss that picks and chooses

Think it long enough and you will become it
 
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