Exactly! In fact, when you're with a woman who is interested, your "initiative" is usually required simply to seal the deal, but you will get a little nudge, even from the shy women.STR8UP said:Maybe she's just one of those chicks who grew up thinking that the man needs to do the pursuing. I dunno.Is it the Muslim upbringing? I'm close to the point where I don't want to put any more effort into it. I'm used to interested women taking a little more initiative.
Finally becoming able to deal with my fears lead me to "escalate" but when a woman is into you, she really makes it easy. I know I posted on this before but I think you're a good guy and you need to cut yourself loose from this chick, sounds like she's stringing you along.
If I'm not mistaken, isn't this the chick that you already did sexual things with but she wouldn't let it go any further as in actual intercourse?
Keto's a good guy but I feel like his advice has been giving you false hope.