Im starting to think the blackpill and redpill community brainwashed me. Most women will happily date someone below top 20%

[BadBoy89]

being an alpha is not about getting a lot of women , its about putting your respect first.

having a lot of women means nothing if they don't respect you,

+1

All Alpha is, is living on your own terms.

If you want to take her out to dinner -> that’s fine
If you want get laid by paying for it -> that’s fine
If you want to get laid by getting to her emotions -> that’s fine
If you want to f*ck and chuck -> that‘s fine
If you want to be married -> that’s fine
If you want to be single -> that’s fine

As long everything is on a man’s terms, he is Alpha. Now if a man wants to take her out to dinner, and doesn’t get a return for it, I wouldn’t call him “beta”, I’d call him “stupid”.

 

[metalwater]

I don't have low opinions of Asian people. I have low opinions of smug conceited sex tourists who try to spin it as something other than what it is.

When you write about "what women like" then you need to write explicitly that Asian women like candy crush and anime. Because it's misleading info to say "women like anime and candy crush."

If you like Asian women so much, and if your proud of it, then why hide it? If we want guys to succeed on this forum then we need to give them proper information with full disclosure. We surely don't want guys here going on dates and talking about candy crush and anime with normal women. It would be a disaster.

ya.. I don't care about sex tourists. interesting, that's a group also with very different types in it for different reasons.

I have a lower opinion of guys that leave a lot of fatherless children around. but it is what it is, and even those types have some decent ideas on some topics.

your definition of normal is on the edges already. about candy crush... just like anything else calibrate. clearly, if a woman likes anime and games and is Asian you will avoid her. personal taste is fine, for others who like those things it can be available.

 

[metalwater]

You can pick up fat goth women at gaming conventions. You can also fly to Cambodia and pick up women. But is it a high value decision and a good idea? You just have to be able to look in the mirror and be honest with yourself about it.

I'll take your word about Cambodia. Some cute nerds in conventions as well as cute normals, fatties are all places, but not so much in ASIA... eh....

 

[lost_blackbird]

"You don't need women. Gaming is better." which encourages guys to atomise themselves, check-out and enter sexless oblivion.

But we don't NEED women, or sex for that matter. I am perfectly functional in my day to day life.
I keep my house, car and self clean and maintained, I eat decent food which I cook myself, I manage
to get up for work each day and go and do my job, I comfortably pay my own bills without the need for a
second household income and if I feel horny then I can sate that in a few minutes without the complicated
dance that is interacting with women. The same can be said of friends to be honest, I don't really have any
of those either in my day to day life. I keep everyone at arms length, male or female and just go about my
business. Sure, sometimes it's nice to talk to somebody from time to time but I have my mother, sister and
niece and nephew for that (I don't really talk to my Dad that much, he's not big on conversation and we've
never been very close). I fail to see what I'm really missing out on.

 

[Plinco]

This looks like propaganda to get guys sitting on their asses in virtual reality playing COD. These 2 people are actors.

Instead of reading lies online, go out into the real world, tell women you love playing video games and going to gamer conventions, and see how far you get.

I personally know of a couple, where the dude is a youtube gamer and his wife is a 9/10.

When you deal with a lot of people you see averages (90% feel respected with doing X and don't feel any respect with doing Z). There are niche people and groups.

I personally like girls 18 to 22 age range (I'm almost 38). People will say that this ruins my sense of self-respect because they say that I should worry about the approval others, or that these girls are too easy for me. The point is that I think these girls are attractive and are a challenge for me to get. When I get rapport with an attractive 21 year old, it boosts my inner game. Would that boost every dude's inner game? Of course not.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

A lot of women golf actually. I find it boring. Tried the driving range a few times and was trying to hit the ball like a hockey puck. My problem is my hobbies like guns and fishing most hot women don't like that here.

My GF golfs. I find it dull. But it’s kinda important for career (not as much as it used to be). My ex- (3 iterations ago), regularly shoots. Even my SWJ Zoomer ex- wanted to go to the range with me. More and more women are getting into guns lately.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I get that you have low opinions about Asian people. For any that do like Asians, it's good info. I find good and bad, more good than bad.

I like Asian women. However, with a few exceptions, Asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) women aren’t much into me. Luckily, I like most other races of women.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Women are also becoming police officers and soldiers. It's called social engineering bro. They are engineering a world where gender doesn't exist anymore.

In OCS we had women cadets. They had stamina for running, but were well below male cadets in every other measure. They even got trucked out of the field at night to stay in the barracks, get beds, showers & hot food. While us males slept in ditches and ate cold MRE’s.

 

[DonJuanjr]

They even got trucked out of the field at night to stay in the barracks, get beds, showers & hot food. While us males slept in ditches and ate cold MRE’s.

I've never been in the military, but If I were an officer, I'd be worried about what that would do for morale.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I've never been in the military, but If I were an officer, I'd be worried about what that would do for morale.

I am an officer. In the Reserves. It’s over.

 

[SW15]

All Alpha is, is living on your own terms.

If you want to take her out to dinner -> that’s fine
If you want get laid by paying for it -> that’s fine
If you want to get laid by getting to her emotions -> that’s fine
If you want to f*ck and chuck -> that‘s fine
If you want to be married -> that’s fine
If you want to be single -> that’s fine

As long everything is on a man’s terms, he is Alpha. Now if a man wants to take her out to dinner, and doesn’t get a return for it, I wouldn’t call him “beta”, I’d call him “stupid”.

Alpha is doing things on your own terms. I can't imagine many men who do things on their own terms would choose to do dinner dates in restaurants on first dates or any date prior to sex.

 

[Genetic Error]

Women love getting triggered by a smirking chad.

im not chad but i know women definitely like getting triggered by me, good technique

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Let's be real and just agree that reserves isn't really the military. I speak as prior Active who transitioned to reserves.

With that being said, I agree. It's not looking good.

Dude stfu, my dad was an officer in the reserves and he was key person in Operation Freedom. It's usually the guys that don't do really do shvt in the military that are ones being loud and saying shvt like this. OCS isn't a joke, I was going to do it, but I got held up in MEPS over some finger bs and the pandemic decided to strike.

 

[corrector]

I like Asian women. However, with a few exceptions, Asian (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) women aren’t much into me. Luckily, I like most other races of women.

Why would you say Asians are not much into you?

 

[corrector]

It is a good technique. But it has to be the right kind of triggering. It has to be the right balance of playful and mean. You want to channel a lovable bully persona with women.

For example - a girl i'm seeing at the moment tried to bait me into complimenting her the other day. She was over at my place and she said "I'm getting fat. I look like a cow" and looked over at me expecting me to validate her. I said "as long as you're free-range and grass fed then I'm okay with it." She looked at me with a sparkle in her eye and said "Oh thanks, you bastard."

I think that's the right kind of triggering. Whereas if I had said "You're a disgusting fat b1tch. You look like sh1t." that's too much.

You can trigger women the wrong way too where they truly hate you and are turned off.

But i'll say this. It's better for a woman to hate you than for her to be indifferent to you, or thinking you're "nice".

"Hate" is still an emotional response, which you can sometimes still turn into a lay. Any emotional response is better than no emotional response.

You are seeing fat girls now? I thought you bragged on another thread you only saw skinny chicks as you were repulsed by fatties. What happened with having too many options to deal with fatties?

The fact you thought "disgusting fat b1txh" means you had an ugly whale or you would not write that.

 

[Genetic Error]

I think that's the right kind of triggering. Whereas if I had said "You're a disgusting fat b1tch. You look like sh1t." that's too much.

You can trigger women the wrong way too where they truly hate you and are turned off.

But i'll say this. It's better for a woman to hate you than for her to be indifferent to you, or thinking you're "nice".

"Hate" is still an emotional response, which you can sometimes still turn into a lay. Any emotional response is better than no emotional response.

absolute facts bro

" Where bullying fails, charm succeeds and where charm fails, bullying succeeds. "

 

[Bigpapa]

You are seeing fat girls now? I thought you bragged on another thread you only saw skinny chicks as you were repulsed by fatties. What happened with having too many options to deal with fatties?

The fact you thought "disgusting fat b1txh" means you had an ugly whale or you would not write that.

if you would have interacted With women at least through video chat you would have realized how stupid it is what you just have said

 

[corrector]

Another forum dweller. Over 1000 posts in less than a year. It sounds like you squander a lot of your time. You're another one in this forum who talks big and theorizes things to death because you're too dopey to read through context and nuance.

"I was going to do it..."

Yeah, every veteran has heard this from civilians multiple times. Going to do something doesn't mean you actually did it, so what do you ALMOST joining have to do with anything?

I'm sure your dad did great things, and I appreciate his service. At your age I had deployed multiple times while you are....doing what exactly, almost joining the military?

Active Duty and reserves are entirely different beasts and operate differently regardless of whether you're enlisted or an officer. So go ahead and cry to daddy and ask him.

I am grateful for having served. Easily one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. So, please, keep your irrelevant little mouth shut unless you have done something meaningful with yourself which we clearly know you haven't. Go finish college or something.

You have some bull sh1t artists on here.

 

[corrector]

if you would have interacted With women at least through video chat you would have realized how stupid it is what you just have said

How would you know that no woman in the planet wants to video chat with me?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Another forum dweller. Over 1000 posts in less than a year. It sounds like you squander a lot of your time. You're another one in this forum who talks big and theorizes things to death because you're too dopey to read through context and nuance.

"I was going to do it..."

Yeah, every veteran has heard this from civilians multiple times. Going to do something doesn't mean you actually did it, so what do you ALMOST joining have to do with anything?

I'm sure your dad did great things, and I appreciate his service. At your age I had deployed multiple times while you are....doing what exactly, almost joining the military?

Active Duty and reserves are entirely different beasts and operate differently regardless of whether you're enlisted or an officer. So go ahead and cry to daddy and ask him.

I am grateful for having served. Easily one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. So, please, keep your irrelevant little mouth shut unless you have done something meaningful with yourself which we clearly know you haven't. Go finish college or something.

So you are just going to nit pick on what little thing you can get instead of apologize for the dumb thing you said like a typical woman. Sorry, I come from a line of officers that date back to literal medieval England, so I wasn't going to enlist...Go cry about it on your response post whatever.

However, there was absolutely no reason for you to make that dumb comment about the reserves. There are people in the reserves that saw fvcking combat in Afghanistan and there are enlisted soldiers that literally just drove trucks and partied in Japan/Korea and got discharged. Yet, these guys make dumb comments like you about how they are true patriots blah blah blah. Just STFU