I'm sick of all the wannabes around here. ....fess up... are you really a Don Juan?

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Can I not be both a nerd AND "the man"?

Don't you think you'd if have enough confidence to call yourself the man you wouldn't label yourself "a nerd"??

 

[Dee-Zy]

12 ppl claim to be a Don Juan?


I want to know who click that option.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Don't you think you'd if have enough confidence to call yourself the man you wouldn't label yourself "a nerd"??

That depends on whether or not you think being a "nerd" is a bad thing. Sh*t, I know computers, Latin, and X-Files. I qualify for "Nerd" status. But I am the f*ckin MAN, too.

 

[frivolousz21]

nerd, dork, playa, the man!

who cares...those are meaningless titles.. I have frineds who spend all day on mirc at work..then go out and get as many girls as they want at night.

but they will say hey im a computer geek!

**** em. be who u want to be!

 

[Doc73]

nerd, dork, playa, the man!

who cares...those are meaningless titles.. I have frineds who spend all day on mirc at work..then go out and get as many girls as they want at night.

but they will say hey im a computer geek!

**** em. be who u want to be

I wholeheartedly agree.

One of the things I have been realizing is that being a DJ isnt about acting like someone you are not. Rather its improving your personality to the point that women find irresistable. And trust me improving your personality does not happen overnight. In fact it may take months before you are able to change your subconcious programming. And the road isnt a smooth one either, in fact I have found during my journey that there were times that I wanted to give up. But I keep on going because the rewards FAR outweigh the pain and hurt I will be facing on this long road ahead.

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
It seems many DJ's that i thought really had game, have... of late.... confessed to not being such big men, after all.

I haven't been around for a while...

who?

 

[Capi]

the stats at 14. if you have the balls to label yourself a nerd yet don't have a problem admiting it then your of a man then most men.

A true DJ understands thier problems, understands, and works on being comfortable with them.

Notice I didn't say fix. becuase there is nothing wrong with you unless you let something be wrong with you. Hell look at it this way. Out of the 99.99 species on earth that are now extinct. Your one of the .02% that actually survived, not to mention every single one of your ancestors has completed thier life goal of giving birth to a child. I mean thats better then winning the lottery, your alive. A DJ accepts this and cherrishes this, whatever the circumstances, I mean its like your winning the lottery every day. I do what I enjoy, people think I'm crazy for it. I could go out and lay chicks if I wanted, but thats not what makes me happy. I don't mind if others don't understand. I'll help them out a little, but really I'm busy living my life. I don't like to waste it especialy when I'm happy. Even when I'm sad I enjoy it becuase I know the bitter makes the sweet.

I want to know who click that option.

I did,

 

[MrCode]

I chose the last option and have no problem admitting it. I have a long way to go to become the man I want to be. I'm not here to stroke my ego by acting like I'm the master DJ, but I hope whatever advice I can give is useful to whoever chooses to read it.

One of the things I have been realizing is that being a DJ isnt about acting like someone you are not. Rather its improving your personality to the point that women find irresistable.

I just wanted to comment on this because I really like this idea and totally agree. There is no one "formula" or "recipe" for being a DJ. Each guy needs to look at himself and analyze his goals (you do have goals, right?) Based on that and his personality he can choose what kind of mindset he wants to have and what kind of techniques he wants to use.

Being the strong and silent type who lures the ladies with mystery and charm may not suit your fun and outgoing personality. Or the fun, party guy who tells great stories may not fit you either if you are a bit more reserved. Maybe you are very good looking and doing too much C&F will piss off girls and make them think you are an arrogant azzhole. The point is, do not try to become something you are not! Women will sense the lack of congruity and that will drive them away.

Find what fits you best, and become so good at it that it really becomes who you are. All of a sudden you don't need techniques anymore because they are part of you.

 

[Sart]

last one

I ticked the last box. I was interested in the people who ticked the second box, I KNEW you were out there. Wow, all these pretend DJ's giving advice.......vewy vewy scary.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Being the strong and silent type who lures the ladies with mystery and charm may not suit your fun and outgoing personality. Or the fun, party guy who tells great stories may not fit you either if you are a bit more reserved. Maybe you are very good looking and doing too much C&F will piss off girls and make them think you are an arrogant azzhole. The point is, do not try to become something you are not! Women will sense the lack of congruity and that will drive them away.

This is a great little bit, right here.

 

[diablo]

I chose the last option, because I found the poll choices themselves to be flawed. Either you state that you have 1) literally no problem with getting laid, 2) are pretending to be a big guy on the internet, 3) am a virgin, or 4) runs into problem getting laid from time to time.

Your choices are absolutes. Either you don't get booty, you can't get booty, or you haven't ever gotten booty. It's setting yourself up for failure, and I suppose that's the reason you added in that fourth option... that you can't claim #1. Everybody, regardless of how much of a "natural" they are, how good looking they are, and who they hang out with, is going to have a problem with getting laid. I've never met a guy who can say honestly that he can get any girl, any time. In fact, I'd have to call him a liar if that situation ever did arise.

If you want to go into self-esteem, and I do realize I'm rambling a bit, but bear with me... then sure, I could have no problem getting laid, ever. The quality would be atrocious, however. Either you run no risk, and choose girls that you know won't say no (or girl's you've already slept with before...), or instead you face that fear of "having problems getting laid" that everyone seems so afraid of - and get the balls to try to nail that hot girl you saw with the drink in the next room.

Okay, I'm done with this post... I don't even know if it had much of a purpose behind it, but it's just some late-night thoughts. Trying to cram for mid-terms...

 

[CLOONEY]

lol, I can definately say I have had my fair share of experience. Getting woman is honestly too easy. Now, getting stunning girls with a personality to boot is something that takes a lot longer as they are very rare.

Anyone can pick up average chicks, I could get 100 a night if I want. Getting the quality stunners is what the game is all about. Although I do get my fair share of them also, lol.

However I do agree with the post. I dont think a lot of the guys here have nearly as much game as they preach. I would love to meet a lot of the guys in real life. Especially those that preach how many woman they have got.

As far as posting stats on woman, I have dated about, man I have totally lost count, but prob about 80, something like that. Only had 3 girlfriends, one real short, one very long, one midrange. But ultimately it comes down to quality not quantity.

 

[Capi]

Your choices are absolutes. Either you don't get booty, you can't get booty, or you haven't ever gotten booty. It's setting yourself up for failure, and I suppose that's the reason you added in that fourth option... that you can't claim #1. Everybody, regardless of how much of a "natural" they are, how good looking they are, and who they hang out with, is going to have a problem with getting laid.

yes. But I think he was talking in the long run. Of course everyone gets turned down from now to now, but in the long run you don't have a problem with getting tuned down because you get laid enough that you are happy and don't need that one girl to lay you. So your happy with your current position of getting laid and not laid. Of course, not to say you should ever settle, but you get the point, right?

 

[IrReSiStIbLe]

I'm goodlooking
I'm hot
I'm confident
I'm smart
I'm nice
I'm a good listener
I'm sociable
I'm good in bed
I'm occasionaly funny..

I'm THE BEST. For those of you who dont believe me, come to Melbourne and i'll prove it to you

Cheers,
Irre.

 

[eniktin]

i am 25 and slept with about 55 girls, but sleeping with chicks isn't anything special, it's making them fall in love with you that is a real art. but sure, macking girls is one art, and making them fall in love with you is another art. so we should really have two separate discussions for both of these sciences.

i voted for one, i think i am pretty good when i want to be. and i am here to learn fr9om guys who are even better than me; like tiburon; as well as teach AFCs because by doing that i am systematizing my knowledge and experience.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by diablo
I chose the last option, because I found the poll choices themselves to be flawed. Either you state that you have 1) literally no problem with getting laid, 2) are pretending to be a big guy on the internet, 3) am a virgin, or 4) runs into problem getting laid from time to time.

Your choices are absolutes. Either you don't get booty, you can't get booty, or you haven't ever gotten booty. It's setting yourself up for failure, and I suppose that's the reason you added in that fourth option... that you can't claim #1. Everybody, regardless of how much of a "natural" they are, how good looking they are, and who they hang out with, is going to have a problem with getting laid. I've never met a guy who can say honestly that he can get any girl, any time. In fact, I'd have to call him a liar if that situation ever did arise.

If you want to go into self-esteem, and I do realize I'm rambling a bit, but bear with me... then sure, I could have no problem getting laid, ever. The quality would be atrocious, however. Either you run no risk, and choose girls that you know won't say no (or girl's you've already slept with before...), or instead you face that fear of "having problems getting laid" that everyone seems so afraid of - and get the balls to try to nail that hot girl you saw with the drink in the next room.

Okay, I'm done with this post... I don't even know if it had much of a purpose behind it, but it's just some late-night thoughts. Trying to cram for mid-terms...

I was waiting for someone to bring this up.... I'm quite surprised it went this long.

In effect perhaps the choices are flawed, but not from the point of view that choice #1 means that you can go out and get women without problems.

Be that for a ONS or for something a bit more long term. Option #1 is for the guys who are DJ's and know that they have become the men we all want to be. They attract women on a regular basis

Some guys think they have it, but deep down they know they aren't there. Click option #4...


We all know for a fact that there are some guys on here who simply remain glued to their PC and never get out and apply what they "learned". that's option #2.


And yes, the choices are absolutes for a reason.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[eniktin]

I have a feeling you yourself don't fall in the #1 category. But anyways, what's the point? Internet is a great tool of learning, and sharing information. A "Don Juan" should combine theory and practice.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Quote - IrReSiStIbLe
Simply irresistable
that is u
that is me
can't wait to get physical
i want u
u want me
Now it's getting critical
i need u
u need me
i'm so tired of typical
that ain't u
that ain't me

they are rap lyrics no ? from romeo must die soundtrack ?

i haven't heard that song in ages. i own the cd i might get it out and have a listen.

oh is that your sig. lol ?


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

BAC...I'd agree with your statement about guys on the internet being more keyboard jockeys and living their fantasies on the internet while they are actually 30 years old, living in their mommy and daddy's basement watching Star Trek reruns all day and keyboard jockeying all night.

But...EVERYBODY is on the internet nowdays. Just 6-7 years ago..the only people who owned computers were these so called 'geeks' and 'nerds' who spent days chatting over html code and C++ programing. Now with the expansion of the internet, everyone is online; nerds, jocks, rockstars, models, lawyers, doctors, highscool/college students...EVERYONE - even REAL players, DJs, and womanizers.

BAC...you are on this site and get women. I can say the same...CLOONEY, Realnezz, GC, Capi all say they get women with relative easy...Who am I to question that?

I'm sure there are a LOT of keyboard jockeys on here and I don't believe everything I read on the internet, but, I have no problem believing or wanting to help a guy on here with a problem regarding women.

Even if some guy on here has an imaginary situation about having sex with one girl, then screwing up with the girl's bestfriend...I have the tendacy to believe it happened because I have been in that situation.

Even if some guy on here has an imaginary situation about having sex with 3 women at one time...I may question it initially..but..something like that gives me a kind of motivation to see how he did it. And, I've known fellas who've actually done 3somes and even 4somes...these guys may not be on this site, but, they do use the internet quite often. Hell..one of them is a 2nd year MD resident.

I feel the gap between Nerd and Cool Guy has been made smaller because of the internet. People are dressing better, looking better. The latest fashion is more availabled, trends are becoming more accessable to more people.

This site makes DJs....the stuff on here works...I guess I have a hard time believing a guy would waste his time living his fantasies on the internet when he could ACTUALLY apply this DJism and make it work for him.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

I find something ironic in a guy sitting in front of his computer at an internet message board mocking other people for being "nerds" because they spend time on the internet. Reminds me of my freshman year roommate, heh...