I'm gonna ruin her!!!

[Onetimeguy]

Ok, time to explain this b*tch.

I'm a 25 year old guy from UK and she's a 33 year old b*tch from New Zealand. We met online and starting chatting as friends. We soon developed feelings for each other but:
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

We agreed we'll meet once she's single so we kept talking, chatting, texting, web-caming etc. This went on for about 8 months.

She eventually broke up with her bf after 8 months but said she needed time to heal up and be alone and once she was healed, we could then meet up and begin a relationship. Soon after, she then kept mentioning her "friend" to me.

I eventually understood that she was dating her "friend" and leading me on. I left her life and moved on but deep down I will NEVER again trust a girl.

She changed me, for better or worse, that doesn't matter but she hurt me. The amount of dumb things I've done for her is unbelievable, i.e. I was in hospital once and I didn't tell her so I went to buy a phone card whilst being ill so I could talk to her, I could barely walk without falling down but it didn't matter because I loved her so much.

About her:
She is really hot, I mean 8/10. Seen her on webcam and pics so I know.
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

I want to ruin this b*tch for using me! My plan is to tell everyone she knows the truth about her and me - her family, her friends on the forum, her ex and her current bf. She was having a emotional affair with me behind her current bf back and also her ex-bf's back. She loves playing a victim in every situation, let's see what she does when I expose her.

I know many of you will advice me not to but honestly, she deserves it and I want everyone to know the REAL her.

Yep, it's a revenge thread and that's what I intend to do, any advice or suggestions from you lot?

Can I get into any legal trouble for joining her gaming forum and telling all her virtual friends and bf about her??

 

[JohnChops]

sigh.... just move on, it isn't worth hating women for her "using you". It happens. Christ, what are you, 8 years old?

Also asking if you can get in trouble for posting on a gaming forum.... post her number on 4chan with her address if you want revenge.

Also 0/11 bad troll, at least be funny next time!

 

[Epimanes]

So... You nvr met her... Cammed with her... She lead you on with words.. And this effected you so badly you want revenge? She wins man... Unless you drop her like a rock and get the fvck over it. It was nvr gunna happen... Find someone local.

 

[gravityeyelids]

obvious troll is obvious

 

[Onetimeguy]

sigh.... just move on, it isn't worth hating women for her "using you". It happens. Christ, what are you, 8 years old?

Also asking if you can get in trouble for posting on a gaming forum.... post her number on 4chan with her address if you want revenge.

Also 0/11 bad troll, at least be funny next time!

I've moved on but she's left a mark on me. I don't hate women, I just don't trust them any longer..

P.s. I am not a troll

 

[Onetimeguy]

So... You nvr met her... Cammed with her... She lead you on with words.. And this effected you so badly you want revenge? She wins man... Unless you drop her like a rock and get the fvck over it. It was nvr gunna happen... Find someone local.

It affected me badly because I genuinely loved her & all she did was use me so hell yeah, I was revenge. I never felt "love" for any ex or even the current girls I'm seeing but I did for her.

I don't want her and will never accept her even if she comes running back so it doesn't matter if she later wants me back or not - I just want to hurt her like she hurt me..

 

[Onetimeguy]

obvious troll is obvious

Not a troll bro, so would appreciate some genuine advice like the other lads

 

[El Payaso]

Poor troll effort.

 

[LMFAO]

:crackup:

 

[marmel75]

lmao...seriously bro? Grow up...

 

[Epimanes]

I will say this... Sorry she used you as her emotional tampon... And that she stringed you along.. But I promise you won't feel any better if you seek revenge.. Sure maybe a temporary fleeting moment of "fvck yeah" but you will still feel hurt and nothing will change. Your better off to go and pump that anger into some bigger weights and just forget her... Plenty more where she came from.

Epi

 

[Onetimeguy]

I will say this... Sorry she used you as her emotional tampon... And that she stringed you along.. But I promise you won't feel any better if you seek revenge.. Sure maybe a temporary fleeting moment of "fvck yeah" but you will still feel hurt and nothing will change. Your better off to go and pump that anger into some bigger weights and just forget her... Plenty more where she came from.

Epi

I know what you mean but right now she's with someone, he deserves to know that his gf was having a emotional affair behind his back, so does her ex-bf.

I have moved on but the issue is that I now have a very strong guard and the chicks I'm seeing can sense it. Ironically, the find it as some sort of challenge to break down my guard lol.. But I won't let myself fall for anyone again...ever.

I've suffered a hell of a lot and want her to remember me the next time she decides to lead someone on... Believe me, this girl will do the same thing to someone else one day..

That's my reasoning behind exposing her..

 

[Epimanes]

I'm not against exposure.. All for it. But they are not married.. Technicaly there is no affair if your not married. Technicaly. So expose at your discretion but if you do don't puzzy foot around it or its just a rumor. You have to tell him it was you and own it and face the consequences that come with it. IMHO

Epi

 

[Onetimeguy]

I'm not against exposure.. All for it. But they are not married.. Technicaly there is no affair if your not married. Technicaly. So expose at your discretion but if you do don't puzzy foot around it or its just a rumor. You have to tell him it was you and own it and face the consequences that come with it. IMHO

Epi

Yeah, that's the only thing, I'm gonna have to speak to her ex and her current bf but I have no idea how either of them are gonna take it. We're in different countries so they do sh*t but the fact is along with exposing this b*tch, I'm gonna end up hurting 2 guys..

I'm not too sure whether just to contact them or make a thread on that forum - it's a private forum with only her, her bf and their friends so her virtual friends can also know what she's all about...

 

[Onetimeguy]

The title of this thread is very misleading. I thought you wanted to 'ruin her' in a different kind of way.

:rock:

Hahahahaha... Joka

 

[crazyboy]

Ok, time to explain this b*tch.

I'm a 25 year old guy from UK and she's a 33 year old b*tch from New Zealand. We met online and starting chatting as friends. We soon developed feelings for each other but:
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

We agreed we'll meet once she's single so we kept talking, chatting, texting, web-caming etc. This went on for about 8 months.

She eventually broke up with her bf after 8 months but said she needed time to heal up and be alone and once she was healed, we could then meet up and begin a relationship. Soon after, she then kept mentioning her "friend" to me.

I eventually understood that she was dating her "friend" and leading me on. I left her life and moved on but deep down I will NEVER again trust a girl.

She changed me, for better or worse, that doesn't matter but she hurt me. The amount of dumb things I've done for her is unbelievable, i.e. I was in hospital once and I didn't tell her so I went to buy a phone card whilst being ill so I could talk to her, I could barely walk without falling down but it didn't matter because I loved her so much.

About her:
She is really hot, I mean 8/10. Seen her on webcam and pics so I know.
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

I want to ruin this b*tch for using me! My plan is to tell everyone she knows the truth about her and me - her family, her friends on the forum, her ex and her current bf. She was having a emotional affair with me behind her current bf back and also her ex-bf's back. She loves playing a victim in every situation, let's see what she does when I expose her.

I know many of you will advice me not to but honestly, she deserves it and I want everyone to know the REAL her.

Yep, it's a revenge thread and that's what I intend to do, any advice or suggestions from you lot?

Can I get into any legal trouble for joining her gaming forum and telling all her virtual friends and bf about her??

:kick: your such puzzy lol. Omg i was talking to this girl online that i never smash and she didn't have feeling for me now going to run a smear campaign for my butthurt. lol get overself you were seriously a friend and nothing more you develop feelings for her not the other away around. do we as men really condone such puzzy if we do then we need some help jeez.:trouble:

 

[Suspens]

[...]I'm gonna end up hurting 2 guys[...]

They will just feel pity for you.:woo:

 

[LiveYourDream]

Ok, time to explain this b*tch.
1. She had a bf
2. We were too far apart

About her:
She had a abusive relationship in the past for around 10 years where her bf would kick the sh*t out of her.
She has no friends.
She only has male friends online who she plays video games with - that's how she met her ex and her current bf.

IT ONLY SHOWS YOUR OWN WEAKNESS TO BLAME HER FOR YOUR POOR JUDGEMENT.

It's clear she was not a smart investment of your time and energy. Somewhere inside yourself you already knew that along the way.

Even so, you chose to go for the ride. You chose to give up your time and energy in doing so.

You knowingly made a poor investment and knowingly kept pouring more of your resources into it.

Now you act pissed that you did not receive a return on your investment. Really? Ever consider self responsibility?

If she had been a woman worthy of your time and energy, I imagine you would be disappointed that she is choosing to see someone else, but without the big revenge drama proclamation.

To me it seems that you aren't just pissed that you gave up your time and energy on a poor investment and lost it. I get the impression you are extra offended that a woman, as lowly as her (given your description-see above quoted), you expected her to feel excited and lucky to finally be able to be with someone like you.

To top it off, not only did her lowly self not want you, but her lowly self already found someone else, and you haven't. I think perhaps that is why you are truly pissed.

To rant about revenging her by telling all she participated in an emotional affair is you screaming your weakness to the world.

It's screams weakness in every way.

Strength would be owning up, to knowing you made a poor choice, & owning that you continued to pour your resources into into that poor choice, even though you knew better along the way.

Strength would be gratitude for having had this opportunity to learn and to own YOUR poor choices and to decide that you will only invest your time and energy into investments worthy of such. Wisdom is to know that should you ever be mid-investment and realize there is a question, you will immediately stop & re-evaluate & be congruent with only investing your resources into an investment likely to have positive returns, of the magnitude worthy of such.

Drop the weak revenge rant.
Be a man, and own YOUR mistakes, and then simply (and quietly) move on.
There is no reason to contact her or anyone related to her, or speak of what happened--period.
Only invest your time and energy, moving forward, into the life you want now.

 

[Atom Smasher]

OP, this woman owns you. She's your jailer.

As long as she occupies your mind, you are in her jail.

Grow up, get over it, and find a worthy woman.

 

[mikey2012]

Wtf? You mad? Live and let live. If you did good by her then karma will have something far worse for her than you can imagine.. Be a man let it go...