Bit late for that, if you ask me. You lay the groundwork while she's growing up. Then maybe she won't want to fvck while she's a teenager. But by the time she's 16, if she wants to fvck, she'll fvck. Not a damn thing anyone can really do about it (if you think about it).
Im Gonna Fcking Kill Her.. And Him!##!#!#
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Dominus
Master Don Juan
Alright, I'm gonna have to jump in and kinda sit near the middle, leaning towards rapster.
On the one hand, when I was 19, I was dating a 16 year old (she even got her own post here). On the other hand, though I don't have a younger sister (though I have plenty of younger cousins), I understand the protective mentality of an older brother/relative.
Now, while dating the 16 year old, I never nailed her or anything and I had no intention of having sex with her anytime in the (then) near future (relationship got, ahh, cut short anyway). However, I would have fully understood if her brother, my age and in the military, wanted to beat the living **** out of me if I were. I'm sure I wouldn't have liked it though.
However, its in our nature to protect those close to us. And, even with our modern society, we still have some concern about the honor of a fair maiden. We also have the very real problem of STDs, which afflict younger people much more often then older people. And unintended pregnancies? Well, its those that brought my father, my sister, me, my nephew, my best friend's kid, etc. into the world. Plus, for many people there are some very real emotional issues with sex. And besides, I'm sure most of us, the moment we got into college, realized how incredibly stupid kids in high school are.
So, rapsta, first of all, I would say you should calm down. Second, look into this guy, make sure he's not complete trash. And make sure you got enough info to track him down if he screws over your sister (knocks her up and bails out of town for example). I'm sure none of us would hold it against you if you beat the **** out of him then, and I'm sure Sweden has some 'crime of passion' laws.
But, for proactive measures against this, you either
1) assault him physically
2) assault him and/or her verbally
3) sit down with her and explain your opinions
4) inform your parents, his parents
1 is a bad idea, could get you arrested, he might actually beat you.
2 is just gonna force them closer together, now that they've got you as a common enemy. Not good.
3 is unlikely to work, since most 16 year old girls (actually, most girls period) are headstrong and think they know better than you or anyone else. But, maybe you could convince your sister. Especially if you've been reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People."
4 is probably the best option, assuming the parents would feel the same way you do.
Other than that, there's not really much you could do. You could try looking up any possible legal action, sex between them might be ok, but there could be other stuff they're doing thats not. For example, maybe if they cross any borders, you could nail him for kidnapping, technically.
But think it all over, discuss it with a priest or someone, and don't do anything rash. It won't do you any good to have your sister resenting you for the rest of her life, cuz she'll probably **** around out of spite for you if she's like most women.
On the one hand, when I was 19, I was dating a 16 year old (she even got her own post here). On the other hand, though I don't have a younger sister (though I have plenty of younger cousins), I understand the protective mentality of an older brother/relative.
Now, while dating the 16 year old, I never nailed her or anything and I had no intention of having sex with her anytime in the (then) near future (relationship got, ahh, cut short anyway). However, I would have fully understood if her brother, my age and in the military, wanted to beat the living **** out of me if I were. I'm sure I wouldn't have liked it though.
However, its in our nature to protect those close to us. And, even with our modern society, we still have some concern about the honor of a fair maiden. We also have the very real problem of STDs, which afflict younger people much more often then older people. And unintended pregnancies? Well, its those that brought my father, my sister, me, my nephew, my best friend's kid, etc. into the world. Plus, for many people there are some very real emotional issues with sex. And besides, I'm sure most of us, the moment we got into college, realized how incredibly stupid kids in high school are.
So, rapsta, first of all, I would say you should calm down. Second, look into this guy, make sure he's not complete trash. And make sure you got enough info to track him down if he screws over your sister (knocks her up and bails out of town for example). I'm sure none of us would hold it against you if you beat the **** out of him then, and I'm sure Sweden has some 'crime of passion' laws.
But, for proactive measures against this, you either
1) assault him physically
2) assault him and/or her verbally
3) sit down with her and explain your opinions
4) inform your parents, his parents
1 is a bad idea, could get you arrested, he might actually beat you.
2 is just gonna force them closer together, now that they've got you as a common enemy. Not good.
3 is unlikely to work, since most 16 year old girls (actually, most girls period) are headstrong and think they know better than you or anyone else. But, maybe you could convince your sister. Especially if you've been reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People."
4 is probably the best option, assuming the parents would feel the same way you do.
Other than that, there's not really much you could do. You could try looking up any possible legal action, sex between them might be ok, but there could be other stuff they're doing thats not. For example, maybe if they cross any borders, you could nail him for kidnapping, technically.
But think it all over, discuss it with a priest or someone, and don't do anything rash. It won't do you any good to have your sister resenting you for the rest of her life, cuz she'll probably **** around out of spite for you if she's like most women.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
exactly what i said was to tell the parents..
i belive that its their job to try to control her.
i wish one of my brothers had caught me before i became the single 15 yr old mother that i did.
however, if the parents do not stop her or try and can not...
i do believe its you brith right as an older sibling to try to do something about it. even if you have to follow them every where they go and say " oh you again ?"
siblings were put together for reasons that can not be explained , but most likely to protect each other.
in my household , all children are responsible for each other. if child #2 dashes in the road without looking and child #1 and child #3 saw him, one of them better make sure he got out of the road even if all they could do was stand there and scream and the other child better come get me.
as a parent , when i find out child #2 didnt look before crossing , i have to deal with that.
AND if i found out that children #1 & 3 saw it and did nothing, then i mustdeal with that as well.
i belive that its their job to try to control her.
i wish one of my brothers had caught me before i became the single 15 yr old mother that i did.
however, if the parents do not stop her or try and can not...
i do believe its you brith right as an older sibling to try to do something about it. even if you have to follow them every where they go and say " oh you again ?"
siblings were put together for reasons that can not be explained , but most likely to protect each other.
in my household , all children are responsible for each other. if child #2 dashes in the road without looking and child #1 and child #3 saw him, one of them better make sure he got out of the road even if all they could do was stand there and scream and the other child better come get me.
as a parent , when i find out child #2 didnt look before crossing , i have to deal with that.
AND if i found out that children #1 & 3 saw it and did nothing, then i mustdeal with that as well.
When a guy doesn't care about the choices that his own family makes, then he is the ****ing fool here, and, yes, that is you my friend.
If you feel that it's okay for your 12 year old sister to get sodomized by some guy who's much older for you, then that means that you don't care about your family, and that you're not a human being.
If you feel that it's okay for your 12 year old sister to get sodomized by some guy who's much older for you, then that means that you don't care about your family, and that you're not a human being.
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Hey, genius, there's such a thing as age of legal consent. Whether it's 15 or 16 or 17, whatever, it doesn't really matter. It's pretty reasonable to assume that a girl at that age WILL feel horny and decide she wants to have sex. If she DOES decide she wants to, what are you gonna do?
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diablo
Master Don Juan
I've cleaned this thread one time. Please, don't make me do it again. Any further flaming based on race, religion, or creed will result in disciplinary actions being taken with all parties involved.
1) are you stupid?! i'm sorry, but i would never kill a friend of mine and his girlfriend if they were havin' sex... i'd be happy for them, so the comparison is quite out of the place.
secondly, he's not arabic, his profile says he's from sweden.
2) another guy said he was surprised about her being virgin at 16... 90% of 16 yr old girls in my school (and even in my old school) are virgin... and i'm not arabic either, i'm italian. actually, it's a really common thing to be virgin when ur under 18, nowadays in europe.
3) to engetsu: ok, so if u could fùck at the age of 14, you wouldn't have? please, shut the hell up... she can't have sex, just because you don't want her to do it? and quit sprayin' sh1t, since getting sodomized at 12 is quite different from fùckin with consent at 16...
4) rapsta, i think you have lots of confidence issues, if u get angry because of someone else's sexual life... that's not very don juan, so i don't see why postin' here
finally, i think diablo is the one who said it best, long live to him
peace out
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Don't they teach birth control methods and how to use dildoes in kindergarten these days?
Dearest Jay-X,
I did not take part in the debate on this thread, but merely point out that some people are very misinformed when it comes to other cultures.
Getting back on point. I think rapsta should merely tell his parents, because it is not of his concern to dictate his younger sister's life. However, I feel that it would have been more appropriate for him to set the example by showing her that girls who have sex with guys that don't deserve it (ie, not willing to love her and have a long term relationship with her) are "not cool". Because that is what our society is these days: what is "cool", and what is "uncool". As long as you project the aura of "coolness" to your younger siblings, you can communicate any value that you might think is right.
For rapsta, it is now too late, and only the parents will have that kind of influence. For the future, however, he can still make a difference.
Truly yours,
Engetsu
I did not take part in the debate on this thread, but merely point out that some people are very misinformed when it comes to other cultures.
Getting back on point. I think rapsta should merely tell his parents, because it is not of his concern to dictate his younger sister's life. However, I feel that it would have been more appropriate for him to set the example by showing her that girls who have sex with guys that don't deserve it (ie, not willing to love her and have a long term relationship with her) are "not cool". Because that is what our society is these days: what is "cool", and what is "uncool". As long as you project the aura of "coolness" to your younger siblings, you can communicate any value that you might think is right.
For rapsta, it is now too late, and only the parents will have that kind of influence. For the future, however, he can still make a difference.
Truly yours,
Engetsu
the fact is "who is he or his parents to tell a 16yr old girl what to do with her sexual life?" and how come does he know that guy is a pr1ck and he's going to dump her after having sex with her? what if he loves her? a girl friend of mine engaged with a 19yr old when she was 14, she had sex and guess what? they're still together after 4 years... not every 3 years older guy is going to fùck your sisters and then dump'em just after sex... love hasn't got anything to do with age, as long as a girl and a guy are both consentients and grown up (i mean, sexually matured)
Dominus
Master Don Juan
I'd say the parents have a say in what their child does, who has yet to reach a majority and is living under their care. I guess I'm old fashioned to think that parents should at least try to raise their kids and not just give up the moment puberty hits.
i'm not sayin that they should give up their children, but they shouldn't care about her sexual life, as long as it is protected (since they would be the ones to pay in case of an unwanted pregnancy).
a question for all of you out there (already posted, but nobody answered):
think about when you were 16 years old. a beautiful 19-yr-old girl approaches you and u start a relationship with her. then she wants to have sex with you. u accept and make love all night. your sister finds out. would you be happy if she told your parents (who, as you now desire, would close you in your room until 21, making your relationship end)? i bet my d1ck that you would do everything in your power to ruin your sister's, and possibly your parents', life...
another question... if that happened, would your future be better?
mind your own business guys... otherwise, answer the question sincerely
a question for all of you out there (already posted, but nobody answered):
think about when you were 16 years old. a beautiful 19-yr-old girl approaches you and u start a relationship with her. then she wants to have sex with you. u accept and make love all night. your sister finds out. would you be happy if she told your parents (who, as you now desire, would close you in your room until 21, making your relationship end)? i bet my d1ck that you would do everything in your power to ruin your sister's, and possibly your parents', life...
another question... if that happened, would your future be better?
mind your own business guys... otherwise, answer the question sincerely
GlutusMaximus86
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See this is what's great about being the youngest and only having one older sister, you don't have to deal with all this.