SUP GUYS. Jaedon, I not only rap now, I MAKE REALLY ****TY BEATS. HOW COOL IS THAT??
Alright so you probably read about my day game in the bootcamp thread. 18 or so names, and I'm proud of it. So now comes the fun part.
Met up with my friend Jake at his apartment. He had the 4-person place to himself last night. He had a party to go to with the crew team (rowing, Olympic style, I used to do it). He said he'd drive to the party later, so we played videogames and I pregamed with rum that I brought. (Saw today that it was about 6 shots, I use a water bottle with oz measurements on the side.)
We got over there, it was already pretty busy. I walked around, met all the girls and forgot their names almost immediately. I started drinking, and continued to drink slowly for most of the night. All of the details on this are hazy, so excuse it being very unclear. I'll probably describe many of these situations as general tips, because they occurred many times, and I don't remember what I said in each particular instance. I will say that I often got the comment "Wait you're still in high school! You're cool as fvck man!"
I vibe really well in parties, I'm learning to keep my energy level one step above those in my vicinity. Never let it drop to one step below. I didn't play beer pong. Don't play beer pong unless your target is on your team, but if someone else is playing beer pong, pick a team and pick specific people and call things about them. "These guys right here are my boys! They're about to have such an easy win. Especially this dude, he's gonna make every shot. The other team is still gonna be sick with it though, it'll be close." That'll give you a sense for how I act around a beer pong table. Celebrate made shots, switch between dismissing missed shots as luck or mocking the player for them. Don't be too mean, but don't be a suck up.
On the dance floor, one kid started it off by showing off his shuffling. There's naturally some ebb and flow in terms of dance floor mood. I'm learning to sense this cycle. The best time to come in and start dancing is when some people are dancing, but not many. It needs to be as the floor is starting an upward trend. People have been around beer pong or in the kitchen long enough, and they want to dance again, so you can be one of the first people to get some attention and bring the level up. Don't stick around as the dance floor dies down, you can enter it when its at full blast, but it's hard to get any attention that way, everyone has already developed their own thing.
One thing I did late in the party on the dance floor was I saw that there was one mixed group of average girls and guys dancing, then a group of four hot girls dancing by themselves. AFC's were too intimidated to move in, the alphas were off doing other things (this is why an alpha should not play beer pong. Loses opportunities). I come into the middle and say "Yes! Thanks for making a circle for me!" then kinda do my own thing for a minute. I do liquid/pop inspired dancing, but none of the liquid hand motion, it won't work, it's show-offy. Once the joke of dancing in the middle had died down a little, some other guys had come and joined the circle.
I just kept chillin, I think I forgot a couple girls' names so I got them again. I jokingly danced by grinding my as$ into the hottest girl's crotch. Worked well and was funny, I joked that she had a ****. A few minutes later, as my new AFC friend dances beside his average target, I grind the proper way with the hot girl. I knew she wasn't seriously interested in me, so I made sure that I ended it first, so show her that I wasn't saying "Love me tonight! Please!" just "Let's have fun!"
I freestyled outside with one dude. Another guy was pretty good at beatboxing. At least one girl heard but whatever, I knew it wasn't the right time to milk that for attention. If you have talents, you need to know when to present them and when to keep them hidden.
(One guy brought Jim Bean. That stuff is AWFUL. Had a shot outside, threw up all my beer. Thank god I did or this morning would have been rough. Plus only guys saw it. Swished some toothpaste around my mouth in the bathroom and it was all good.)
THE HIGHLIGHT OF THE NIGHT, I get back around to the dance floor, one girl, HB8, who was dancing very well earlier with the most alpha guy in the place, called me out specifically. She goes "Josh!" and holds out her hand over people. I take it, and without a word we go over to a bookcase, and she holds onto it while I dance behind her. It got sexual very quickly, I had my hand rubbing her side under her shirt and made her hold my beer. She is really good at moving to the beat, but she kept wanting to get low. I would follow her a certain distance, but at times it was too far for me. I'd grip her a little more firmly, get close to her ear and say "Wow, look at you..."
That's a sort of ambiguous phrase and it worked really well, she loved it. Got my lips onto the top of her ear, smelled her and got my face into her hair on the side of her head. Very sexual vibe.
Apparently we kissed, she said that we made out (and said it in front of people a few times, so that's nice social proof) but I don't really remember it. I don't think it was very long. At the end of the song I took my beer back and went outside.
MY MISTAKE was talking a little trash about her to a guy, Alex, that I thought was cool. I said that she was easy, and I didn't want to catch anything. It was a joke, but he told her. Also he told me that he told her. So I called him a d!ck for the rest of the night and often gave him the middle finger, but we also shook hands and agreed that we had a love/hate relationship.
Soon after he told me, I was with the two of them in a hallway, many other people around. There was really only one way to handle it well, and that was to confront it, so I kept up solid kino, put my hands around her waist and pulled her toward me some (she pulled away lol) and said "Hey, so I heard you were mad at me, what's up with that?" She goes "No it's fine, don't worry about it" and I plowed a little bit. I played off the accusations with a joking "I would NEVER say something like that, come on." but I didn't extend it very long and smacked her as$ as I left. Touched her occasionally through the night but nothing more.
When we said bye, later that night, I stay simple with it, hugged and said "It was nice to meet you. You're very cute, have a good night." So I think I left her with a good impression, not that it matters.
Two other girls worth noting.
One was from before the above highlight. Kind of fat, sort of a back-up girl I guess. Talked with her and her friend, they had just started rowing. She said she was really good and had done great on her 2000 meter piece. Sometimes fat girls actually do have great times. I asked her time, she said I had to tell her my best one first. I didn't, and kept up with her first for a while. At one point when I came back to her though, she asked again, and I told her. Mine was my serious, best time, that I worked hard for. Hers was about what you would expect from a fat girl doing a hard work out. It was awful. Failed that sh!t test and nothing went anywhere.
The other girl was named Taylor (looks just like another girl there, I got their names mixed up, but apparently a lot of people do). We were cool and friendly through most of it, at the end we danced together some, I played with her hands and we held hands for a few seconds. She really wanted me to play one song, I said she would have to be nice to me if I did, and she said "Yeah, I will. If you play Chris Brown I'll go crazy for you." Apparently I played the wrong version though, whatever.
We had a brief talk sitting together, where she stressed that I was in high school, and so was her little brother, and that she was a sophomore in college. Would have gotten a close if not for that.
After that party died down, I went with Jake and one other guy (John, very cool dude, approximately who I expect to be in freshman year) to another "party." We met up with two girls on the way that Jake knew, one Indian and cute, the other redheaded, Southern and cute but braces. They were so incredibly annoying. Airheaded, singing, obnoxious people. I relate to maturity and had a really hard time connecting with them, though I tried.
We went to John's friends' apartment (very long walk, I had been walking all day). There were 3 girls there, and 2 guys. One clearly wasn't going to get any, but neither was I. I was dead tired from walking, had no energy, no social proof, and crashed with every move I could try to make.
Jake pulled some moves, and we were able to bring the obnoxious girls back to his place. No way I was getting laid though, but I did a little winging and said I wanted to sleep so that Jake had an easy excuse to go back to his room with the Indian one. The redhead had a guy from the "party" come to Jake's. I'm sure they fvcked and I crashed on the couch.
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