I'm going to date a bpd chick

[bigneil]

Who's playing amateur psychologist now? I repeat, you cannot fully comprehend what we're talking about when we mention BPD.

This is the SJW excuse. "I'm offended that you don't understand why I'm offended!!"

This is the ghetto excuse: "If you never lived in the ghetto, you have no right talking about the ghetto!"

Only 2% of women have BPD, so you are declaring 98% of SS members unable to comment.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Who's playing amateur psychologist now? I repeat, you cannot fully comprehend what we're talking about when we mention BPD.

Perhaps you are just not "crazy" enough to deal with those girls.

I, on the other hand, am the first person in the history of the Florida State Mental Hospital to ever have taken so much acid that he felt like a reptile.

These girls that you call crazy would probably not phase me, and I possibly might scare them.

 

[StonesDK]

Only 2% of women have BPD, so you are declaring 98% of SS members unable to comment.

Nobody knows the ball park of how many cluster b's are out there. BPD is often misdiagnosed or undiagnosed. Factor in co-morbidity and a diagnosis becomes even harder. That's assuming all borderlines in any given country seeks therapeutic help to even begin to form a statistic. Google it

 

[RichardTheFrog]

This is the SJW excuse. "I'm offended that you don't understand why I'm offended!!"

This is the ghetto excuse: "If you never lived in the ghetto, you have no right talking about the ghetto!"

Only 2% of women have BPD, so you are declaring 98% of SS members unable to comment.

I'm so sick of those whining cry babies from "the hood." It's better there than even 2nd world countries like Mexico.

 

[bigneil]

I'm so sick of those whining cry babies from "the hood." It's better there than even 2nd world countries like Mexico.

There was a program to ship many black people back to Africa but very few accepted the terms. Blacks in America have a higher standard of living than in any other country.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

There was a program to ship many black people back to Africa but very few accepted the terms. Blacks in America have a higher standard of living than in any other country.

Well I'm not gonna go that far.

I personally never put a man on the Moon.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

You don't pick them they pick you.

Best of luck on your adventure though!

That's interesting. I've had a girl calling me, and I know I could take it somewhere if I wished. But I know she is just not right [even though she is young and cute]... she tells me she's depressed... and some other weird stuff. I think a lot of guys get trapped into these destructive kinds of relationships simply because they are desperate for sex.

 

[wolf]

That's interesting. I've had a girl calling me, and I know I could take it somewhere if I wished. But I know she is just not right [even though she is young and cute]... she tells me she's depressed... and some other weird stuff. I think a lot of guys get trapped into these destructive kinds of relationships simply because they are desperate for sex.

I can't comment about guys getting trapped because they are desperate for sex , validation etc as I was already seeing a girl when I met CB ex before breaking it off with the previous girl. I suppose you could say I monkey branched from a relatively healthy girl who wanted my love to a cluster b head fuk.

I think for me it was falling hook line and sinker for the illusion of something that wasn't real.

The previous girl got too close and triggered my fear of intimacy and commitment etc.

Cluster b girl knew which of my buttons to press and how hard to press them. That girl had me suicidal after a few months.

If it wasn't for her then I wouldn't have understood what my life meant or why my parents did what they did etc. .

She showed me my wounds so I could heal from them. Now I am a hell of alot healthier.. ego (under control) codependancy (all but dead) validation seeking (gone) putting puss puss on a pedestal (never again)..

I am 1000 times the Man I was before I met her and regret nothing.

If anyone wants to choose to date one of these Women then go ahead..
If anyone wants to tell me that only 2% or whatever of the pop has bpd then ok.. sure whatever. ..

I don't need to prove anything or tell other how to live their lives so do what it is you have to do.

For those that believe no evidence is necessary.. For those thst don't no evidence is enough.. live and let live.. but I tell you this..

NEVER AGAIN!


Peace.

 

[bigneil]

Nobody knows the ball park of how many cluster b's are out there. BPD is often misdiagnosed or undiagnosed. Factor in co-morbidity and a diagnosis becomes even harder. That's assuming all borderlines in any given country seeks therapeutic help to even begin to form a statistic. Google it

Not an argument. By this logic, it could be less than 2%. Google is a corrupt enterprise run by the NSA.

Do you guys really think that non-BPD women, when they lose interest and don't want sex anymore and find someone else, somehow don't go cold? I swear, many of you here believe that EVERY girl who EVER caused you heartache had BPD. That if it weren't for BPD, you'd have your dream girl forever. I would honestly think it's more than 50% of girls, nowhere close to 2%. Pathetic. Alpha males blame themselves first, not others.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

Who's playing amateur psychologist now? I repeat, you cannot fully comprehend what we're talking about when we mention BPD.

my post wasn't amateur psychogy just normal common sense. yet here you are defending your abusers and finger pointing as if dudes on a forum are the only lucky ones to get picked by them but are too "smart" to have recognized they got with a nutcase cuz puzzy!

miss me with the nonsense

 

[Serenity]

This is the SJW excuse. "I'm offended that you don't understand why I'm offended!!"

This is the ghetto excuse: "If you never lived in the ghetto, you have no right talking about the ghetto!"

Only 2% of women have BPD, so you are declaring 98% of SS members unable to comment.

I know that's an overused statement, but really though, it is damn hard to understand without first hand experience. I'm not even saying it because I had a girlfriend like that, I have a mother like that. They're not as easy to get rid of and it adds a whole different level of abuse.

Perhaps you are just not "crazy" enough to deal with those girls.

Anyone that crazy don't know what's good for them, there's no way to enjoy the company of someone with BPD.

my post wasn't amateur psychogy just normal common sense.

You replied as if you knew me well. You don't so yeah, you're playing amateur psychologist.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

I know that's an overused statement, but really though, it is damn hard to understand without first hand experience. I'm not even saying it because I had a girlfriend like that, I have a mother like that. They're not as easy to get rid of and it adds a whole different level of abuse.

Anyone that crazy don't know what's good for them, there's no way to enjoy the company of someone with BPD.

You replied as if you knew me well. You don't so yeah, you're playing amateur psychologist.

that's exactly what you dudes do. make excuses for these chicks cuz puzzy! let's stop the nonsense. then make excuses for yourselves and how helpless infants you are around them while "no one can understand". please


I'd love to know these mythical.powers bpds have that allows them to fly completely under the radar.

I have yet to hear of any one good reason a dude wouldn't pick up on any red flags.

Only excuses is neediness, desperation for poon, and little to no self respect.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

that's exactly what you dudes do. make excuses for these chicks cuz puzzy! let's stop the nonsense. then make excuses for yourselves and how helpless infants you are around them while "no one can understand". please


I'd love to know these mythical.powers bpds have that allows them to fly completely under the radar.

I have yet to hear of any one good reason a dude wouldn't pick up on any red flags.

Only excuses is neediness, desperation for poon, and little to no self respect.

I don't understand why everyone on this site doesn't just **** prostitites so they can see how worthless their "plates" are.

Sex is cheap, and in a lot of ways, it's cheaper to pay a prostitute than it is to get involved with a girl.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[Serenity]

have yet to hear of any one good reason a dude wouldn't pick up on any red flags.

I'll tell you... They didn't know, until it was too late. This isn't exactly something you learn in school.

It's easy to be a smartass when you've learned this the easy way. Many of us were unaware and had no chance to be aware before we got fucked over.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

I'll tell you... They didn't know, until it was too late. This isn't exactly something you learn in school.

It's easy to be a smartass when you've learned this the easy way. Many of us were unaware and had no chance to be aware before we got fucked over.

"Unaware" of what specifically? Common sense? What possible legitimate excuse could you make to ignore things that seem off or "too good to be true"? And what behavior did you learn from these types that you were unaware of previously as if you'd never experienced toxic behaviors in any other person you've ever crossed paths with, saw on TV, the news, heard from others etc? Were "victims" of BPD or toxic chicks living under a rock? I'm not trying to make light of it but I can't see any legitimate excuses for willingly being a victim. There's no way everything just flips with these types out of the blue and every bad quality just pours out at once. And the "victim" just experiences these things all at once as in no extended period of time. And as it's OBVIOUSLY an extended period of time that shyt starts up then the "victim" is ENABLING their own "victimization" and being co-dependent by choosing to stick around and work with the abuser in a two against one. As in the abuser and the co-dependent (you) working together to abuse YOU.

If you refuse to admit that you enabled the shyt for as long as you had and then learned from it to not repeat the same mistakes in which you made by bothering to stay then you have learned nothing. Only finger pointing.

It's like a chick who claims she's a constant "victim" to jerks. May very well be the dudes she deals with ARE jerks but then the problem isn't the jerks the problem is HER and all she's doing is finger pointing playing "victim". That type of chick is to be avoided at all costs. Sob story be damned.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'll tell you... They didn't know, until it was too late. This isn't exactly something you learn in school.

It's easy to be a smartass when you've learned this the easy way. Many of us were unaware and had no chance to be aware before we got fucked over.

How exactly did you get ****ed over?

And what exactly was her BPD behavior?

 

[bigneil]

"BPD chick" can be simplified to "chick".

How exactly did you get ****ed over?
And what exactly was her BPD behavior?

Men who don't overinvest and who do have options never declare themselves "f*cked over". See my breakup for an example (she just wrote to me btw). This empowers the woman who you claim hurt you when she really exposed your weakness.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

"BPD chick" can be simplified to "chick".


Men who don't overinvest and who do have options never declare themselves "f*cked over". See my breakup for an example (she just wrote to me btw). This empowers the woman who you claim hurt you when she really exposed your weakness.

I'm beginning to realize there is a reason why I barely talk to girls when I go out and why I'm losing motivation to go out at all. And why I instinctively mistrust them.

Kind of the same reason you learn to ignore homeless people when they approach you. They just want something from you and don't care about you at all no matter how nice they act.

 

[bigneil]

I'm beginning to realize there is a reason why I barely talk to girls when I go out and why I'm losing motivation to go out at all. And why I instinctively mistrust them.

Kind of the same reason you learn to ignore homeless people when they approach you. They just want something from you and don't care about you at all no matter how nice they act.

They want to trade sex for something. Sex. The most important thing in life. The thing that heals you and extends your energy and years. It's worth something.

Women exploit men for resources the way children exploit women for resources.

Instead of complaining about what they take, I give them 10% of the additional proceeds their energy brings me and call it a deal.