This is the SJW excuse. "I'm offended that you don't understand why I'm offended!!"
Perhaps you are just not "crazy" enough to deal with those girls.
Nobody knows the ball park of how many cluster b's are out there. BPD is often misdiagnosed or undiagnosed. Factor in co-morbidity and a diagnosis becomes even harder. That's assuming all borderlines in any given country seeks therapeutic help to even begin to form a statistic. Google it
I'm so sick of those whining cry babies from "the hood." It's better there than even 2nd world countries like Mexico.
There was a program to ship many black people back to Africa but very few accepted the terms. Blacks in America have a higher standard of living than in any other country.
That's interesting. I've had a girl calling me, and I know I could take it somewhere if I wished. But I know she is just not right [even though she is young and cute]... she tells me she's depressed... and some other weird stuff. I think a lot of guys get trapped into these destructive kinds of relationships simply because they are desperate for sex.
I can't comment about guys getting trapped because they are desperate for sex , validation etc as I was already seeing a girl when I met CB ex before breaking it off with the previous girl. I suppose you could say I monkey branched from a relatively healthy girl who wanted my love to a cluster b head fuk.
Not an argument. By this logic, it could be less than 2%. Google is a corrupt enterprise run by the NSA.
my post wasn't amateur psychogy just normal common sense. yet here you are defending your abusers and finger pointing as if dudes on a forum are the only lucky ones to get picked by them but are too "smart" to have recognized they got with a nutcase cuz puzzy!
I know that's an overused statement, but really though, it is damn hard to understand without first hand experience. I'm not even saying it because I had a girlfriend like that, I have a mother like that. They're not as easy to get rid of and it adds a whole different level of abuse.
Anyone that crazy don't know what's good for them, there's no way to enjoy the company of someone with BPD.
You replied as if you knew me well. You don't so yeah, you're playing amateur psychologist.
that's exactly what you dudes do. make excuses for these chicks cuz puzzy! let's stop the nonsense. then make excuses for yourselves and how helpless infants you are around them while "no one can understand". please
I don't understand why everyone on this site doesn't just **** prostitites so they can see how worthless their "plates" are.
I'll tell you... They didn't know, until it was too late. This isn't exactly something you learn in school.
"Unaware" of what specifically? Common sense? What possible legitimate excuse could you make to ignore things that seem off or "too good to be true"? And what behavior did you learn from these types that you were unaware of previously as if you'd never experienced toxic behaviors in any other person you've ever crossed paths with, saw on TV, the news, heard from others etc? Were "victims" of BPD or toxic chicks living under a rock? I'm not trying to make light of it but I can't see any legitimate excuses for willingly being a victim. There's no way everything just flips with these types out of the blue and every bad quality just pours out at once. And the "victim" just experiences these things all at once as in no extended period of time. And as it's OBVIOUSLY an extended period of time that shyt starts up then the "victim" is ENABLING their own "victimization" and being co-dependent by choosing to stick around and work with the abuser in a two against one. As in the abuser and the co-dependent (you) working together to abuse YOU.
Men who don't overinvest and who do have options never declare themselves "f*cked over". See my breakup for an example (she just wrote to me btw). This empowers the woman who you claim hurt you when she really exposed your weakness.
I'm beginning to realize there is a reason why I barely talk to girls when I go out and why I'm losing motivation to go out at all. And why I instinctively mistrust them.
They want to trade sex for something. Sex. The most important thing in life. The thing that heals you and extends your energy and years. It's worth something.
