I'm going to ask this question regardless. What is it in a woman that dates a guy and then turns him into her Dad?

[Firecrotch66]

long-held resentment and repressed rage (its really bad) impacting your daily interaction and your emotional health. It's not that anger is wrong or bad, but it's harshly self-judged, and eradicated from one's persona. Non-acceptance of any type of human emotion has one forging and maintaining a partial personality, instead of a whole one.

be that whole person you deserved to be

Hmmmm would sticking my d**k in a angry woman solve the issue? I'm more attracted to women in grief cause when I f**k them I get to watch the happiness only stay temporary in their eyes. It's so satisifying to watch it happen. Happy women and I'm just like nahh boring.

 

[Focal core]

True. I think mainly cause it's 1am my time and this is usually the time of the day I like sex. Angry sex with a pissed off girl sounds amazing rn. Whatd u mean by that last sentence?

It the last sentence that you should aims for to be a whole person instead of partially selective accepting what's good and bad for you.
Humans are like chickens. We have light parts and dark ones. If you haven't come to fully accept yourself with both light and dark facets and feelings, how can you possibly like and respect yourself? This issue keeps self-loathing alive, and sets you up for having to buy another's love to make up for your insecurities with generous gifts, gestures and behaviors that consistently put another's desires and needs before your own. These actions are always automatic and reflexive, because your needs have never mattered, and you've not learned to discern, honor or sanction them.

 

[Focal core]

Hmmmm would sticking my d**k in a angry woman solve the issue? I'm more attracted to women in grief cause when I f**k them I get to watch the happiness only stay temporary in their eyes. It's so satisifying to watch it happen. Happy women and I'm just like nahh boring.

This behavior reflect your side of seeking for approval on whatever you do..

Other example For instance instead of the sex just to watch her satisfied boosting your ego:
you're so hungrily seeks approval, you will happily work longer hours, take on extra tasks that aren't part of your job description, never take vacations, never ask for a raise in salary, etc. And You secretly wants your contributions to be noticed and rewarded--but fear keeps you from asking for any compensation!

 

[Focal core]

This behavior reflect your side of seeking for approval on whatever you do..

Other example For instance instead of the sex just to watch her satisfied boosting your ego:
you're so hungrily seeks approval, you will happily work longer hours, take on extra tasks that aren't part of your job description, never take vacations, never ask for a raise in salary, etc. And You secretly wants your contributions to be noticed and rewarded--but fear keeps you from asking for any compensation!

This is when you're never stop doing it until in a given time your health starting to detoriated .And its a big illness repercussion as you start developing ailments.

 

[Focal core]

This behavior reflect your side of seeking for approval on whatever you do..

Other example For instance instead of the sex just to watch her satisfied boosting your ego:
you're so hungrily seeks approval, you will happily work longer hours, take on extra tasks that aren't part of your job description, never take vacations, never ask for a raise in salary, etc. And You secretly wants your contributions to be noticed and rewarded--but fear keeps you from asking for any compensation!

When we've grown up making ourselves wrong for having any needs (one of the core tenets of codependency), it's easy to feel like it's our fault, when we feel bad in a relationship because we're not getting our needs responded to. As adults, our reflex to bury personal needs and make allowances and excuses for others, is automatic. It motivates us to keep striving in the face of any/all obstacles and odds, no matter what the cost to our own comfort, peace or well-being.

This impulse stems from archaic sensations of shame which are codified by a parent's distorted confirmation that we're defective or unlovable. Our subconscious mind presumes during childhood that if we were truly lovable, we would get far more affection and attention, and feel happy and content: It never takes into account another's inability to love yourself, or anyone else!

Lurking beneath the surface of every Caregiver's attachments is often the question; "when's it gonna be my turn?" They erroneously presume that the more they give, the more they'll eventually/some day get back--but that cannot happen, due to the type of person they've chosen to love. This issue is never resolved, because reciprocal relationships actually make him/her feel uneasy, and are summarily avoided.

That's why you keep finding someone who recreates all those sensation for your to feel needed by spending hours of giving advised to her. ask yourself what will you do if that person truly follow your suits, you will be feel empty and seeks for another person to fix . its a never ending cycle and that what brings you the this forum!

Water seeks its own level. our emotional level determines our next romantic endeavor. you have to really understand the core trauma that made the person you are now. fix ém and your next romantic partner will be a much better selections.

 

[Focal core]

Man I'm alphas my myself, yes Beta's truly hate me, they viewed me as a threat, when i was young i was always gassed by them to believe the the way I'm doing is wrong and are unacceptable. but core personality isn't something you can change, naturally i just sent them all to the curbs.

the most disgusting things i see beta's always worship the women that give them the slightest flirtation with not having much of self-respect .. in this small group alone has already detoriates mens value as a whole. imagine that with the of beta males that flooded this earth since world war 2, women delusional were validated. and 4 become a 9 because of this asinine Beta Males. Beta males are made to serve, and that's exactly why they are doing it naturally without any sense of self-respect. yet modern world put them in crucial position just to made sure feminisme will rule.

has much hope men's in manosphere will bring a big impact on turning the table and brings back all the good values that human once had.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Women need a masculine role model in their life, it's up to you as her Boyfriend to take that responsibility. I don't see why any man should complain about that.

This is true. I have come to the grim realization that from a mental standpoint women are basically just children. Left to their own devices all they do is cause (self) destruction.

 

[bat soup]

I'm 23. I tend to date women in their late 20s so older than me and for whatever reason what ends up happening is they go do a whole lot of stupid sh** that can harm me, they go and tell all their coworkers every detail of what we together you know private information and then I end up parenting them. I'm sick of this. I can't do this anymore. I don't know why I can't just a normal thing with these girls. Wtf. I don't know if this just some weird form of manipulation yet I've about had it at this point. There's a girl I have an on and off thing with and I'm done with her. She does this s**t over and over again and plays this whole game of "I'm so sorry I did those things" and then goes off and does the same sh** again. I know its intentional at this point I got a 12 year old sister and my sister doesn't pull this kinda garbage on me. Some of my sisters friends pull that kind of garbage on their Dad's yet these old women I'm dating/talking to(mostly past tense at this point. I'm not actively dating. At this point I'm trying to figure my own life out. It's mostly past tense). I'm not their Dad not only am I not their Dad I'm also younger than them. This is crazy.

If a woman isn't doing what you want, dump her.