I'm a girl, and I need your quick advice...

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
The first characteristic of a hor is selfishness!!! It is only about her!!! And we all know that the majority of women are selfish!!!

I gotta call bvllsh1t here. The nature off all humanity is selfishness and that's not a bad thing necessarily. You on the other hand PRL are perhaps the most dogmatic and self-absorbed DJ (using the term very loosely) on here and you seek to condemn her for being selfish?

AMF, quit being a pvssy and join us men in condemning that which is condemnable!! We are not sending her to hell or throwing rocks, we are just speaking truth!! Many woman today are unworthy and SunnyD is just a typical modern day ho who has strayed outside her womanly nature!!!

You are hypocritically engaging in what amounts to be the verbal equivalent of the good ole' Salem Witch trials.

She is condemnable but not for selfishness, but rather a lack of consideration, a lot of respect and regard in pursuing that which is best for her. She is condemnable only for stringing her bf along for nine months and cheating on him (and you would show no more empathy or regard to any of the women you date), and like-wise enabling NG to cheat on his gf.

It is the height of hypocrisy to condemn because she was weak, indecisive and she fell for the traps that we ourselves spring for our prey. She is making it right and finally paying herself and her boyfriend the respect they deserve by breaking them off. When have you ever applied the same courtesy? Let he who is without cast the first stone...

-CyranoDeBergerac

 

[ManOMan]

you consider the guy thats bangin her and cheating on his gf a DJ?

for all we know, he was just there when she needed someone. Not like he did some fantastic maneuver to lure some miserable chick out of a 5 year relationship. This girl was readily available, and probably has been looking for a long time.

As for me, I would never fvck a chick with a b/f/husband. Maybe Im wrong, but a DJ isnt a Fvck all you can mentality, there is some honor that goes when you reach your potential. When you are seductive enough to be able to draw in a worthy woman and get to a point where you get to do the choosing, you will not even involve yourself in a mess such as this.

 

[coldcoal]

Manoman, I have to be man enough to agree with your post all together, but part of your post is exactly my point. We'll never know if he was a DJ with skill or if the other was a chump or if she was desperate/driven/drawn away. Why? Because all we could do is call her a slut instead of asking these questions. See what I'm trying to get at here?

 

[AFK Protector]

Guys, you need to all chill. Here's this girl who comes here for advice and you call her a wh0re, b1tch, slut...etc. Give her advice and leave the obscenities in your head. Do not group all women into one category. You must realize the DJ approach works with certain women, not all. I don't give a flying fvck if 9,999,999 women say it works, never will it apply to all.

 

[DEKKA]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
hey guess what I found out today. if I post wh0re, i can click the delete button and delete my post. wow. im smart eh?

actually i tried that and it kept timing out so i gave up. but thanks

 

[Blowfish]

I don't hit women, but you cannot be classified as woman, or human.

If I was your boyfriend I would have reached back like a Pimp and slapped yo face.

The F**k's wrong with you?

 

[isotope]

Originally posted by SunnyD
I was kidding.

Man you guys are harsh here. I'll leave you back to your discussions.

Sorry once again, to intrude.

dont take such a passive attitute, this can be as much your board as it is ours. you have a right to post here

also youre not as bad as some of the poeple paint you. I can empathize withoyou: you just didnt want to face the conflict of breaking up w/ BF, especially before knowing if NEWGUY loved u.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Isotope, she was with dude for 5 years and she was a 'flesh mattress' for this other dude for 9 months!! I think a decent woman would have cut it off in a proper manner instead of waiting to have another pimp approve of her ho status!

And no, this board was intended for the purpose you outlined!

 

[TooColdUlrick]

it is true that on this site, SunnyD's old bf is what we don't or shouldn't care about. in other words, who cares if she already has a boyfriend, go for it anyway--she's fair came. from new bf's perspective, this is true.

HOWEVER, she has been with old bf for 5 years and has been cheating on him for 9 months.

this is where you have to draw the line. if she left old bf fairly quickly, no problem. but she hasn't and now she's asking us how to deal with her "situation" so as to minimize HER guilt and such. the sad thing is that she has been willingly stringing along old bf while she's figuring out if new bf is better.

ManOMan...
But now, since she has fallen in love with the 2nd guy. She has taken the issue more seriously. WHY? Because its ALL ABOUT HER. She is confused, and looking out only for herself. She is asking advice because she wants to know if the 2nd guy will break her heart, and she would be left with NOTHING.

As you read her post, you dont see her asking "How do I put it gently to my bf? without hurting him?"

She is asking, "How do I find out if this 2nd guy really loves me? so that I can dump my bf and be with him?"

EVIL in my book.

obviously she still likes old bf, but more like an old comfortable shoe. she's using old bf so as to prevent her guilt, insecure about being alone, a reliable tampon, fix the toilet, pay for dinner, etc.

and she's been using his azz for 9 months--probably a lot longer than that.

bet u $100 bucks old bf is a total AFC.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
TooCold, from the wrath you poured down on this girl, sounds like you are taking this experience to heart!

yeah, sort of....just sick of twisted chick logic. on top of it she's acting like the spoiled little brat that most women unfortunately are. she wants it both ways, regardless of the consequences, and what damage she leaves in her wake. she's disovering (FINALLY) after 9 months that she can't have it both ways, so now she's pouting.

FVCK HER! SHE DESERVES NOTHING OUT OF THIS SITUATION!!!