This is yet another shining example of the perplexities of attraction, and more proof that a man should not wait for "signs of interest":
Ever had this happen to you: you meet a new girl in a group setting and she seems to ignore you. She never looks in your eyes. When you are introduced she puts on a half-smile or none at all. Whenever you start to talk, or make yourself the focus of the conversation, she looks away or says something to a person next to her.
You get the feeling that she is not making any effort to "connect" with you in any way whatsoever.
This has happened to me quite a few times recently.
Before, I would chalk it all up to disinterest; possibly even hostility. Now I realise, that sometimes, it could be just the OPPOSITE.
Every single girl that I have gotten these types of "vibes" from has interest in me, I have found out. Through friends, obvious actions, words exchanged, I have pretty much figured out that girls that act like this have high interest...but something is holding them back at the time.
The ones that act this way, and they are giving off a slightly hostile vibe usually have boyfriends. It seems to me that thier relationships are just about to crumble though, because the few girls that have done this to ME (hostile ignoring) have eventually come around and have given me obvious signs of interest. (Turns out, they decided to dump/cheat on the borefriend...) Those that end up keeping thier boyfriend, try to hook me up with thier friends.
The ones that have a neutral vibe, that is, they "ignore" you, but you don't sense any real hostility, THEY are the ones that may be just a little SHY. Later, when you speak to them one on one, they will be a little bashful. If you "open them up", you will find that they have high interest, but wanted to "keep it quiet".
THESE are the ones you want; the NON SLUTTY ones.
But icepick, ALL girls are sluts!
Yes, I know, but I want them to only slut themselves to ME!
Ever had this happen to you: you meet a new girl in a group setting and she seems to ignore you. She never looks in your eyes. When you are introduced she puts on a half-smile or none at all. Whenever you start to talk, or make yourself the focus of the conversation, she looks away or says something to a person next to her.
You get the feeling that she is not making any effort to "connect" with you in any way whatsoever.
This has happened to me quite a few times recently.
Before, I would chalk it all up to disinterest; possibly even hostility. Now I realise, that sometimes, it could be just the OPPOSITE.
Every single girl that I have gotten these types of "vibes" from has interest in me, I have found out. Through friends, obvious actions, words exchanged, I have pretty much figured out that girls that act like this have high interest...but something is holding them back at the time.
The ones that act this way, and they are giving off a slightly hostile vibe usually have boyfriends. It seems to me that thier relationships are just about to crumble though, because the few girls that have done this to ME (hostile ignoring) have eventually come around and have given me obvious signs of interest. (Turns out, they decided to dump/cheat on the borefriend...) Those that end up keeping thier boyfriend, try to hook me up with thier friends.
The ones that have a neutral vibe, that is, they "ignore" you, but you don't sense any real hostility, THEY are the ones that may be just a little SHY. Later, when you speak to them one on one, they will be a little bashful. If you "open them up", you will find that they have high interest, but wanted to "keep it quiet".
THESE are the ones you want; the NON SLUTTY ones.
But icepick, ALL girls are sluts!
Yes, I know, but I want them to only slut themselves to ME!