If you focus on the woman when you have sex, you're doing it wrong

[CornbreadFed]

Send your girl to my house and she can vote for who she liked better. ;-).

So you are telling us your girl cums every time and is happy with 15min sex sessions?

I don't care what's normal or isn't. I make sure she is satisfied and I am too. I've been told many times I am good in bed. Girls tell me they have never orgasmed so many times as they have with me. I hear it all the time. Maybe they are lieing? Do they tell you that? Wet pu$$y usually doesn't lie tho.

Yes lol. I do my best to make my current girl ***, but sometimes the stars don't align and I just call it a night. Even she understands that she's not going to *** everytime because womens vaginas behave differently. Hell, sometimes she cums and I don't, it is not always a field day for both of us. However, the reason I am so adamant in this topic because I've made plenty of women *** for the first time. Once they got over the orgasm mountain, they understood we cannot emotionally/cognitively connect and we part ways. Sometimes it has been me left in the dust and sometimes it has been her. You can find plenty of topics on this site on this subject about how a girl told a guy about how great the sex was and ended up ghosting him eventually.

 

[The Duke]

Yes lol. I do my best to make my current girl ***, but sometimes the stars don't align and I just call it a night. Even she understands that she's not going to *** everytime because womens vaginas behave differently. Hell, sometimes she cums and I don't, it is not always a field day for both of us. However, the reason I am so adamant in this topic because I've made plenty of women *** for the first time. Once they got over the orgasm mountain, they understood we cannot emotionally/cognitively connect and we part ways. Sometimes it has been me left in the dust and sometimes it has been her. You can find plenty of topics on this site on this subject about how a girl told a guy about how great the sex was and ended up ghosting him eventually.

I think we all have different values, sex drives, and varying expectations involving sex. That's the difference here.

 

[Dr.Suave]

How long are men supposed to last in bed? Sometimes Im in good control and can go on and on, she keeps kummin and kummin while I havent kum even once. Sometimes we have somewhere to be (we already bought movie tickets or somethin) and I kum in 10 seconds because we gotta go. She refuses sex once a year on average when she´s legit sick or somethin.

If we are the prize, should we be worried about how long we last? Does it even matter to her if we are her top choice?

If I got a genie out of a lamp and he was like "Bro, I can grant you ten minutes of sex with Alexandra Daddario or ten hours of sex with a random HB6 that barely passes the boner test. Which one will you choose?" I would pick the former every time, because the latter is a lot easier for any man to get for himself.

 

[GoodMan32]

Agreed.

Perhaps the best-looking broad I've ever nailed for free was also an underwhelming lay (in terms of my pleasure). Why? Because I focused too much on her pleasure.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Women exist to please others. Even if that means their body being used for sex. When I have sex, I put my entire being into it throughout the session or night. I let her know that I want to pound her with everything I got. And due to my d*ck size, I constantly can hit the end, which causes all kinds of pleasure for me and her. She will say it hurts, and it likely does, but it's a good kind of hurt. One that she remembers and why they keep asking me for seconds and thirds.

What some of you have to accept is that when you are using her for yourself, you are already making her happy. Sex is one of the strongest forms of attention to a woman, and the energy it provides unlike any forms of physical stimulation other than violence. Even if you finish quickly, she still got your time and body and semen. Have some self esteem.

 

[Solomon]

This thread is low key exposing the guy's who have no idea about sex or are terrible at it
I'm not here to offer any advice just taking mental notes......

 

[CornbreadFed]

This thread is low key exposing the guy's who have no idea about sex or are terrible at it
I'm not here to offer any advice just taking mental notes......

The only people I know that boast about their sex game are bums and Ray Rays and Pookies.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

This thread is low key exposing the guy's who have no idea about sex or are terrible at it
I'm not here to offer any advice just taking mental notes......

Didn't you know, all men are amazing at sex and have 7-8" dvcks?

The two biggest complaints Ive heard from women about former lovers is the guy was done in 10-15min, and she rarely ever got off.

Women also complain about men being "controlling" ... so why do they constantly talk about it and keep going to those same men? To play devil's advocate, what if the reason she likes those guys is because they don't care what she wants? (not saying this is a good idea in the bedroom, js)

Either way, 10-15 min is more than enough time to get them off 1-2x, assuming proper foreplay and proper psychological set & setting.......then you can do it again a few more times.

Extreme example of what?

Most men are not good in the bedroom. The average man lasts 10 minutes.

That's pathetic.

It's only pathetic if they run out of stamina or bust sooner than they wanted. I still am very curious about the women you're meeting, because the absolute longest any woman was able to tolerate was about 45 min and usually after 15-20min they start getting in pain or even bleeding despite being wet the whole time (and I'm not packing at all). Are you implying you're fvcking women for 1-2 hours or more without issues? That's scary even for my own penis' sake...

 

[Solomon]

The only people I know that boast about their sex game are bums and Ray Rays and Pookies.

Two things can be true, a guy bragging on his pipe game can overcompensate and guy who doesn't care about a woman's pleasure is clueless
Luckily for me I don't fit either category so carry on....

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Two things can be true, a guy bragging on his pipe game can overcompensate and guy who doesn't care about a woman's pleasure is clueless
Luckily for me I don't fit either category so carry on....

If you re-read my topic you'll know that there is a middle ground of nuance here...

 

[Solomon]

If you re-read my topic you'll know that there is a middle ground of nuance here...

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OP I respect you and your other posts but this posts ain't it out of respect I have for you I will leave this thread alone.

 

[Dr.Suave]

For The sake of discussion lets assume Im terrible at sex. Someone with better skills In the bedroom gonna steal my woman away? We been together for years, no complaints from her, but I Will let you guys know if It happens.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

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OP I respect you and your other posts but this posts ain't it out of respect I have for you I will leave this thread alone.

Remember my post contains "i have a new perspective" and "I may have overcorrected" - my tendency is to constantly test new ideas, and sometimes i go too far with them and talk about them too early before i've fully thought them out or refined it. If you don't want to discuss it, fine, but I do think there is a finer point i'm making here that people aren't grasping and that is all.

 

[jhonny9546]

Sex is all psychological for women, and if you haven't captured her mind outside the bedroom, you cannot fully capture it inside the bedroom either.

Each of us is different, but there are underlying mechanisms that work because of our nature.

Also, we are on the subject of STR or ONS, in this case, we are not even talking about LTR.

in STR or ONS it will be stronger, mischievous and hard.

In LTR, there is and must be the presence of the sweet side, the morning *******, and many other things, in addition to just hard animalistic sex.

So sex for each type of relationship will be different.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Each of us is different, but there are underlying mechanisms that work because of our nature.

Also, we are on the subject of STR or ONS, in this case, we are not even talking about LTR.

in STR or ONS it will be stronger, mischievous and hard.

In LTR, there is and must be the presence of the sweet side, the morning *******, and many other things, in addition to just hard animalistic sex.

So sex for each type of relationship will be different.

Every guy I know that prioritized animalistic sex over everything else eventually got cheated & humiliated later down the road.

 

[Chow Mein]

Like Solomon, I’ll keep my opinion to myself. This thread is telling of a lot of posters on SS.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Like Solomon, I’ll keep my opinion to myself. This thread is telling of a lot of posters on SS.

So not having an opinion makes you a sex god in bed? Gotcha, notes taken.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Like Solomon, I’ll keep my opinion to myself. This thread is telling of a lot of posters on SS.

"lot of posters" meaning myself? Can you steel man my argument so I can confirm you understand what I'm saying and didn't just read the title?

Ya'll are acting like I'm saying that making a girl enjoy herself is undesirable, or that doing so is deeply esoteric knowledge that other men are clueless about. My perspective is simply the to consider the possibility that if a man cares too much about making a women ***, at his own enjoyment, she'll sense it, especially if it's autistically focused on the technical aspects at the cost of immersion and psychological context. That's literally all I'm saying, but it's clear to me that everyone is just reading my clickbait title and ignoring the contents of my posts.

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

Absolute nonsense. If you don't focus on sexually satisfying the women, she either won't have sex with you again, or she'll leave you for someone who will. Or she'll cheat on you with someone who will.

Ignore my advice at your peril!

The amount of posts I'm seeing on these forums these days that have everything backwards and are spreading dangerous misinformation is just bizarre. Wtf guy?! This place is getting worse.