If you are a westerner, you are missing out if you dont move to south east asia (phillipines, vietnam, thailand)

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Thats my experience. Only had a couple of 'escort/pro' experiences in the west and the whole experience made me feel uncomfortable and wasn't enjoyable.... certainly not worth shelling out 100's for the pleasure for... Thought I'd try it as not overly fussed with effort that has to go into 'dating' in UK, particularly as busy with other things I value: daughter, business, full time job, gym etc. Conclusion I arrived at was I'd rather just have a w**k at home than visit another escort in the UK :D

SE Asia is (or at least was) a much better experience. Obviously in a lot of cases its still transactional, but felt more of a GFE, which I prefer to the hard and fast '1 hour starts now' type environment in the UK. Have to keep your senses about you though in SE Asia, as probably easier to 'fall' for dubious women as a result of the GFE, more of an emotional side which could like to connections/feelings growing, particularly if you're starved of any romantic connections with women back home. They're clearly switched on and know this, so the dynamic can be they're the hunter and you're the prey, which is obviously not a good position to be in when it comes to women :)
In SEA one can train PUA stuff. So one is in a position to be emotionally mature with romantic stuff because one has the opportunity to train and get experience.

There one can really be a Don Juan.
 
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In SEA one can train PUA stuff. So one is in a position to be emotionally mature with romantic stuff because one has the opportunity to train and get experience.

There one can really be a Don Juan.
That what was why it worked for me back in my early 20's. Was really shy with women before, came back a different man - more confident, dgaf attitude towards women, which carried over to getting consistent 'notches' on nights out in UK, which didn;t happen prior to SE Asia.

Certainly recommend it for men on long dry spells, or lacking confidence with women. Like you say, great training ground, as long as you stick to that and don;t fall into the illusion of romance with them, as they will try it on. Some of my mates I went with had been before, so I knew the lay of the land before going, so was fortunate in that respect as could be easy to fall for the illusion otherwise.

Recall 1 of them told me its a like a footballer (soccer player), not scoring for a long time, but going to SE Asia is like scoring but more like penalties every match. It still counts and gets your confidence up, but its not the same as scoring from open play still.
 
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