"If someone better came along, ide leave you"

[Crissco]

I completely dead'ed it, we both said what we had to said and shes still trying to manipulate me into a relashionship.


MODs please lock this thread, its done with.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Update: Im playing the Fox Return game with her.

Is this entirely true? Seems more like the constant drama she's thrown at you since the breakup is working.... Which is why you should have stopped all communication completely.

If you're playing the fox return game - all this drama you're doing with the "im mad" and "this is over" - is dumb.

Me: What you did was really disrispectfull and I will never tollerate it again, I will only take u back if you do something really nice for me to prove you love me.

I'm dissapointed... How many times have you told her in the last few days how mad you are? how disrespectful that event was? how you won't take her back; that it's over? (all things that are mistakes to even waste energy saying; but i realize you need to release your masculine anger in some way.)

If your intention was to go back to her - none of that stuff should have been said! Why? Because now your words to her look even more like they mean nothing.

She now knows that she can mind fvck you back into a relationship.

I'm not against taking the "you f'd up, im mad, and it's over" road - AS LONG AS YOU CAN STICK WITH IT. Even if you cancel on this plan and tell her you can't take her back even if she makes you something - she now see's you slowly wavering on your convictions towards her.

The only solution to this is to cease all communication with her! If you have to - turn your phone off for a few day, or get her blocked.

PS: Yes, i see your post above saying you're still going to keep this relationship ended, but you seem to be getting weaker on that.

PSS: YOU DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS WOMAN! EVER!!! She has psychological issues that go way deeper than anything any DJ theology can can handle.

 

[Crissco]

Is this entirely true? Seems more like he constant drama at you since the breakup is working.... Which is why you should have stopped all communication completely.

If you're playing the fox return game - all this drama you're doing with the "im mad" and "this is over" - is dumb.





I'm dissapointed... How many times have you told her in the last few days how mad you are? how disrespectful that event was? how you won't take her back; that it's over?

If your intention was to go back to her - none of that stuff should have been said! Why? Because now your words to her look even more like they mean nothing.

She now knows that she can mind fvck you back into a relationship.

I'm not against taking the "you f'd up, im mad, and it's over" road - AS LONG AS YOU CAN STICK WITH IT. Even if you cancel on this plan and tell her you can't take her back even if she makes you something - she now see's you slowly wavering on your convictions towards her.

The only solution to this is to cease all communication with her! If you have to - turn your phone off for a few day, or get her blocked.

PS: Yes, i see your post above saying you're still going to keep this relationship ended, but you seem to be getting weaker on that.

PSS: YOU DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS WOMAN! EVER!!! She has psychological issues that go way deeper than anything any DJ theology can can handle.

I know, I should of cut of all communication and stuck with my guns but I felt like playing games just like she did. After I played the returning fox game I felt like I won, because she was under my control, but in the end I didnt. I just dug my self deeper, I should of never texted her back to begin with.

In the end its a lesson learned and not worth the drama. I deleted her number completely, all her texts, everything.

Thanks everyone for the advice and help, dont know what I would of done without you guys.

 

[whosthat]

**** those *****es

 

[perseverance]

**** those *****es

He's been doing that for the past eight months and look where it has got him? :crackup:

Crissco, you should have held your frame, that was weak on your part bro!

 

[Crissco]

He's been doing that for the past eight months and look where it has got him? :crackup:

Crissco, you should have held your frame, that was weak on your part bro!

I know i know but i was pissed and wanted to fu*k with her lol

 

[perseverance]

I know i know but i was pissed and wanted to fu*k with her lol

I can relate to that man, it's never nice when a woman plugs your emotions or messes with your head, but instead of getting revenge, just pity the fool and move on.

This woman might be many things, she might be a really attractive, intelligent, down to earth woman, but ultimately she just causes far too much drama and you have to decide whether or not she's worth the drama. I'm inclined to feel that no matter how good a woman is, no amount of drama is worth it, so I don't go there.

 

[pdx1138]

the drama roller-coaster can be fun for awhile....but eventually ya have to get off.

 

[IamJosan]

I don't understand why anyone asks the girl to become his girlfriend. Why not play it cool until she asks to be your girlfriend? And if she never asks, at least ur getting sex. What difference does it make if you're not 'official'?