self_is_an_illusion
Don Juan
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Men find sex more valuable than women, so a man withholding sex is not the same as a woman.If a man delays sex, is the woman not a top priority? I delayed sex with my wife after first meeting for three and a half months, even though I could have had it a lot sooner. My friend stalled it with his second wife for three months, purposefully.
That's why I will have sex with them, but I withhold intimacy until V-Day.Men find sex more valuable than women, so a man withholding sex is not the same as a woman.
Probably the first time I hear about these. Why did you delayed sex? You picked my interest.I delayed sex with my wife after first meeting for three and a half months, even though I could have had it a lot sooner. My friend stalled it with his second wife for three months, purposefully.
I wanted to find a woman to start a family with. So I did not want this to immediately become my physical and get entangled with someone with whom it wouldn’t work out and for both to have to deal with the negative emotions that brings. I wanted to see if other important things were in order. Same deal with my friend.Probably the first time I hear about these. Why did you delayed sex? You picked my interest.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
See our reasons.So you two purposefully gave yourselves blue balls. Great!
I don’t advise it.If it worked for you that's great, but that's a horrible advice for guys to do, cause men will think "I'm gonna wait for sex, cause she's the one I want as a mother my child, and I don't wanna throw dirt in the relationship with sex" This is the best example of the madonna/wh0re complex
That's like throwing an arrow, painting the target around it and call it a bullseye. Again, if it worked for you, that's great, but me personally I wouldn't follow that advice.
I guess this is not for everyone but Im glad it worked for you. Thank you for your reply.I wanted to find a woman to start a family with. So I did not want this to immediately become my physical and get entangled with someone with whom it wouldn’t work out and for both to have to deal with the negative emotions that brings. I wanted to see if other important things were in order. Same deal with my friend.
What does this mean? Straight from "getting to know each other" to "Lets get pregnant"?That’s also around the time I took on a no-girlfriend stance.
Hey, sorry for the late response.I guess this is not for everyone but Im glad it worked for you. Thank you for your reply.
As I've said in other threads, I do not tell others what to do. I discuss ideas, thoughts, observation, and content related to what we speak about on here. I also do not express judgement upon others here.What does this mean? Straight from "getting to know each other" to "Lets get pregnant"?
I think I understand this. I would prefer waiting to see if a woman is not insane before exploring her feminine void - of course, since these opportunities are so rare, I typically go for it as soon as I can get it.If a man delays sex, is the woman not a top priority? I delayed sex with my wife after first meeting for three and a half months, even though I could have had it a lot sooner. My friend stalled it with his second wife for three months, purposefully.
Don’t try this at home folks. Most women will lose interest very quickly if the guy is not pushing for sex.If a man delays sex, is the woman not a top priority? I delayed sex with my wife after first meeting for three and a half months, even though I could have had it a lot sooner. My friend stalled it with his second wife for three months, purposefully.
That actually can happen. And that's why I don't advise it. But I could sense that she would not lose interest.Most women will lose interest very quickly if the guying is not pushing for sex.
So the strategy worked...I actually acted slow with a woman once and she asked, "Why are we not having sex?" Another time after a first date from OLD, a woman told me on the phone that she wondered why I did not kiss her.
I would up doing it with both women.So the strategy worked...
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.